not that I want a married man. I'm 25, and i notice that they seem to like me, particularly older married men.
2007-03-05 12:44:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dress normally and not like a slut.
2007-03-05 13:09:32 · update #1
That's because you must be a sexy, little thang. Unlike their wives.
2007-03-05 12:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Novacaine 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You`re obviously giving them the time of day. Most older men, ( like over 35) are ignored by most young women. Look at Anna Nicole Smith, how did she attract an old man? Think about the question you are asking. Stay away from older married men, and they won`t be attracted to you.
2007-03-05 20:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any older married man will like any 25 year old that will even allow them to catch her eye. But you do not have to say yes. Also any married man you can actually get is having trouble at home or he is just a rutty bas---.
2007-03-05 20:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bullfrog21 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are going through that mid-life crisis mess. and they want to see if they still have IT!....and if they can convince you that they do....then all they want is to bump uglies and be done with it. Unfortunately the females today have very little respect for themselves. they dress in reveling clothing, and wonder why all the attention....well you want it or you would not dress that way....You can ask any man in here what there perception is of a female who dresses in short shorts, short skirts, LOW rise jeans, tight clothing etc....and the majority will tell you that it means that you are trashy, easy, and that you have no respect for yourself. So therefore even to married men you appear easy, and figure that all you are good for a lay. When females dress in this manner, they type of person that they are shows.....and if you do not want anyone to perceive you in this manner.....then pay close attention to the way you dress. Just because it appears to be a fashion....doesn't mean that you have to wear it. If you respect yourself, then you will dress that way and others will respect you as well.....if you don't, respect yourself, well it shows in the way you dress. It is as simple as that
2007-03-05 20:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where do you spend your time that all you seem to attract is married men? Maybe you need to find a new hang out.
2007-03-05 20:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by pam m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're that kind of girl that all us men want to go out with strictly when we're married. It's just a thing. Don't ask why. Some girls you want to marry. Some girls you want to spend a one night stand with. Some girls you want to be romantic with. And then there's you, the girl we want to first put a ring on someone's finger, spend 42 years faithfully married to them and then we want to be with you for one day and apologize to our wives and go back to the way we had it. It's just the new thing
2007-03-05 20:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The question is what to do about it when it happens. Just Say No. It is more trouble than you want. If you were married and you wouldn't want someone dating your husband than do not do it to others. Be stern, sincere and direct. Watch your overall response and do not flirt.
2007-03-05 20:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Morality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be sending a message to them you are interested. Chuck your own reality to make sure you are not acting in a flirty way to bring that type of attention. It is highly possible they think you are an easy lay.
Just be aware of what you are doing around men.
2007-03-05 20:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It happens, I am a single father of two, and the ones lately I am attracting are married ladies,
2007-03-05 20:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's the way you look and dress that attract older men?Maybe you might want to consider a wardrobe makeover?
2007-03-05 20:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you call me and we can explore this question further.
Signed,
A Married Man
2007-03-05 20:47:48 · answer #11 · answered by dave_cooke1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋