I dont know what to think about my new relationship... Help?

Question

I have been dating this guy now for about a month and about a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. i thought that by asking me to be his girlfriend he'd take me a bit more seriously, instead sometimes he can go a whole weekend withought calling me or texting me all day. And although i attempted at first i figured why keep trying and putting into this if he basically is not. YEt after we dont talk for like two days sometimes when he actually does finally call he pretends that everything is normal and goes on about his business like nothing happened. i do see potential in our relationship but it bothers me that he can go a whole day without talking to me and forget my existence. SHould i cut him off or should i maybe talk to him about it?

Answer 1

try talking to him about it, b/c he might have a real good reason.
give him a chance to change it up, if he keeps doing it you should look into dating someone else or just being single........ in my experience every time a guy act's like he has no time for me, i always came to find out that it was b/c he had more than one female to split his time up with.......... so be careful with this one!

Answer 2

Talk to him about it b4 you just drop him. He probably has no idea it even bugs you at all. It takes guys a while to get used to the whole 'check in with the gf' thing sometimes. And I know he wouldnt have asked you to be his gf if he didnt really want you to be. Not everyone thinks they have to talk to there gf or bf everyday, ya know?

Answer 3

you should talk to him about it...me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and four months and ever since we started dating we text message all day every day ever since we started dating...and we see each other every day...
so just basically you have to tell guys what you need otherwise unless hes a mind reader just tell him...just ask him why yall dont talk everyday...
hope this helps =)