Guys, what kind of things do you look for in a girl? What is your idea, of the perfect girl?
2007-03-05 12:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by Shelby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lady who is smart, funny, intelligent & who can laugh at herself at times. Someone who is confident with who she is, and not in constant competition with the other girls to look the best, have the neatest things or coolest clothes. Someone who can be flexible & compromise--knowing how to choose her battles. A gal who knows how to take care of her man, while setting appropiate limits for herself. It helps if she is pretty, but a plain girl can grow on you, if she is really nice...to the point of being the prettiest gal in the universe, as long as she is not grossly overweight. She should also have a healthy appetite for sex, but not into anything too kinky, just a little variety to keep things spiced up. But she should never be going into detail about her sex life with any of her friends--male or female.
And most of all, she better not change into someone else after the honeymoon!
2007-03-05 13:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 3 most important things are...
Personality
Personality
Personality
I have seen girls go from "I wouldn't date her" to being models with enough dieting, working out, salon appointments, and cosmetic surgery. I also had a schizophrenic model I was dating try to murder me with a butcher knife and not even remember doing it. (Yes, I dumped her.) Yeah, looks are great, but if the personality isn't there... forget it.
1) Don't expect the world from him. It's your job to decide what you want out of life and go get it. Then find a good guy to share it with. If you are looking for a guy to give you what you want out of life, make sure you have a pre-nup where you get a good chunk of his $$$ and appointment in divorce court now. That's all you're really after. It's not going to work. Very few women will ever say that they love money, but almost every woman will be surprised at how much they love the experiences that money can bring. If you get this by finding "the right" guy, he will think he owns you. It's a time bomb just waiting to go off.
2) Be well adjusted. She can be smokin' hot but if she starts treating me the way her and her parents fought with each other, or like every other bad boyfriend she's had before, adios. (I had one girl tell me she really was not comfortable with me becuase I had never hit her like her other b.f.'s. I dumped her.)
3) Find the right balance between taking care of the business of daily life and enjoying today as the best day of your life, no matter what you are doing, who you are with, or what else is wrong with your life. Don't make your life into a series of dramatic crisis, or a contant escapade. either one amounts to being a psycho.
4) Be able to make decisions and if it ends, make a graceful exit. Are you going to marry him? If not, realize when it's over and end it. Then wait a while before you hit the town with a new guy. Buy a couple good books and stay in for a while. The time between relationships when you aren't swapping body fluids with anyone are the most character building parts of your life and make your next relationship better. Don't suffer through a dying relationship until something better comes along and then jump ship and break his heart. It just craps on everyone's life, including yours. It also makes you a weaker person. Oh yeah, this way you'll actually have a chance of staying friends with your ex and keep good people in your life. If you do it the wrong way, you'll leave a trail of mortal enemies behind instead of making life long friends of your ex-lovers.
2007-03-05 20:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
A girl who loves who she is and doesn't require constant emotional support.
Women come in all shapes and sizes. But for a woman to TRULY love who she is? That's priceless.
2007-03-05 20:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know guys say personality but i dont know if they mean it.it seems like the most fake/gorgeous girls always have the guys.i think they say it not to seem shallow.guys be honest.
2007-03-05 21:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl who is not afraid to speak there mind, and able to entertain me
2007-03-05 20:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by throw_away_your_television_2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Serena Williams for me!!!!
2007-03-05 20:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by 747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brains, looks, sense of humor, and fun.
2007-03-05 20:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to me (i know im not a guy) it would be looks, personality, and of course boobs, butt and the whole shabang.
2007-03-05 20:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by rosiee cheeks 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks and personality....
looks first
2007-03-05 20:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by obvlious56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋