i met my girlfriend 3 years ago,she had a 4 week old baby that didnt bother me because i loved her to bits! and now i love her child and the child we had together! i though we were going to be a happy family until she kissed another guy on new years eve which really broke my heart,,,,,it was her second time doing it to me! ive moved out since,,,,,,what do people think?
2007-03-05 12:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by martin b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Twice.....
You know that saying, three strikes and you're out.....It shouldn't apply in this situation
Well I'm not really sure you should give her another chance. All of these other people say,"Well it's a relationship and you should talk it out, because you love her." Well i think that's bullsh!t. What makes you think she isn't going to do it again? After all, she knows that you have forgiven her once, maybe she thought you would forgive her again, and if you forgive her again she might just do the same over and over thinking you are going to forgive her all of the time. Pretty soon she'll be out with other guys having fun leaving you home with your kid and her other kid while you are home stressing about what the hell she is doing.
I'm not trying to break your heart at all, but there's a possibility that she might do it....Just be careful and think thoroughly about your choice....
Best of luck bro.....
2007-03-05 13:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on! its new years and all!! But if its the 2nd time maybe you should have thoguht things out more before you moved out. Did you talk to her that it bothered you? If not, and you just left your pain inside, it will gather more as time passes and you will trust her less and less and thats why you suddenly left. If you really think that you 2 are the perfect family and you love her very much, you will sit down and talk about what you feel. Its a relationship. You need to inform your partner how you feel about things so they can understand you better. Hope things work out.
2007-03-05 20:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know if I was in that situation, I would be deeply hurt. But if my boyfriend was extremely sorry and if I had enough trust in him, then I would probably take him back. But if she's not sorry, then no, don't even think about it. And since it's her second time doing that, then I would just jet. Sorry =(
2007-03-05 20:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by bobbinforapples53 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings for her and still love her and think this can be forgiven then talk to her. It will take some time for you to be able to trust her again, but how serious is she about this relationship? We all make our own happiness.....
2007-03-05 22:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by NATALIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that must have been hard to see i feel so bad but you did the right thing you should get joint custody of you baby and you should work out your problems.....
2007-03-05 20:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by kay-kay ! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out she will hurt you even more in future..dont prolong the agony
2007-03-05 21:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋