me n this girl are friends with benefits but people keep teelling me that thats wrong. wat should i do?
2007-03-05 12:42:53 · 29 answers · asked by big juice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Watch the movie Vanilla Sky and see what eventually happens to friends with benefits.
2007-03-05 12:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a "clear" understanding with her that's all it really is, then fine. It's not the most admirable way to live your life, but to each his own.
Just be aware that you are playing with fire. Girls think about sex very differently than men do and you may end up creating a potentionally bad situation for the both of you. What looks good on paper, doesn't always go down well on the big screen!
2007-03-05 21:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases it is bad. Why are you not boyfriend/girlfriend if you have gone all the way. Whats with this friends with benefits. If you both don't mind the other seeing others in the same matter, I suppose it is ok but both parties should feel the same for it to be ok. Why does the words boy/girl friend seem so scary and that friends with benefits is ok. We live in a screwed up world I guess.
2007-03-05 20:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you are both on the same page, it's fine. Just make sure you both define the relationship in the same way. And use lots of protection, because the worst thing would be a baby with benefits.
2007-03-05 20:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jiahua D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with that why waste you time away of not having fun till you find Mr.Right,because we are here today and gone tomorrow life is short for some of us and we never know what the next day will bring so have fun while you can and feel good and make someone else feel good.
2007-03-05 20:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are ok with it and she is ok with it and you are both adults this yes it is okay. Who cares what other people think about what you should and shouldn't be doing? Chances are those that are telling you it's wrong have things in their own life that they should be working on instead of worrying about you and another consenting adult getting your freaks on. Lol! Relax, sex is fun. If you are safe and don't see anything wrong with it and your benifiicial friend is fine, screw everyone else!
2007-03-05 20:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make your own decision about this. But, do know that if you are working your taxes go to your friend as well. Generally there is nothing wrong with getting benefits if it is only temporary. However, if it is long term then it becomes parasitical.
2007-03-05 20:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Don't Know 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as both you and her are comfortable with this arangment than tell your friends to bug off. I had a f/w/b for several years until my b/f and I got together almost 4 yrs. ago we're split right now but we have become f/w/b also. I have always believed to each his/her own. Tell your friends to quit dippin'
2007-03-05 20:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by sweettaco69 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man, live your life. FWB's are cool as long as you both know the limits(if there are any,) and you are honest with each other. As long as you have an understanding with that person, forget about other people and just do what makes you happy.
2007-03-05 20:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by T J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you mean sex by "benefits", then I hope you both have jobs and can support yourselves and any kids you make which will be "bonuses" to your "benefits".If you are really that great of friends with one another and are ready for "benefits", get married.
2007-03-05 20:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋