Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

Before you read this, I just want to warn you that the following might be a little disturbing.

I have love my second cousin for 8 years and even though he told 7 1/2 years ago that he doesn't love me as a girlfriend, I am still deeply in love with him. I just seems to not be able to get him out of my mind. There were so much memories between us. It is hard to get rid of those memories. I have tried a lot of methods to forget him, such as focusing on something else and not think about him, but of course, that was no success.
With his work, he doesn't come back to visit as often anymore. Oh by the way, I forgot to slip in that I found out that he has a girlfriend 4 years ago. But again, I am still in love with him. So even though I don't see him very often, like once or twice a year for the past two or three years, I am still in love with him. I know what you guys are thinking. Disgusting, in love with your cousin. I am sorry for the disturbance, but that is the plain truth. Help?

2007-03-05 18:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by K.L. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 18:35:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just started a job and in my hire orientation group there was a really cute guy.He is like 10 years younger than me but we chat for a few minutes here and there when we see eachother and I catch him looking at me.Im heavy set but I have been told I have a KILLER sense of humor and am really fiesty and make people smile and laugh. He and I work different shifts. I gave him my cell phone # but he hasnt called.I dont know how to ask him if he has a girlfriend and if he doesnt would he date anyone at work.Particulary a heavy set single mother. Our work has a strict "sexual harrassment" policy.Do I just wait to see if he will ever make his move? how can I ask him without seeming pushy/desperate/easy?Ive NEVER considered dating a coworker til now.

2007-03-05 18:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 18:34:00 · 14 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

My last boyfreind cheated on me, I feel like I can trust the guy I'm dating now, but every time he brings up an ex or tells me how hott he thinks a girl is, I get really jealous. I know it's stupid but I really feel like i cant help it. Any advice?

2007-03-05 18:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by carxoxo07 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my dad's cheating on mum..but i'm only graduating in next year and can only take care of my mum then (if we choose to leave).. Everything is in my dad's name..even my mum's salary goes to my dad account.. is it better live with this secret til i graduate or better yet forever?
i need serious help =(

2007-03-05 18:33:12 · 11 answers · asked by miss_dutti 1 in Family

I'm thirty and I want to save sex for marriage. I haven't found her yet, and I want for my first time to be extra special. What would you say if we met for a few dates? Do you agree wth my choice? Do you think I'm square?

2007-03-05 18:32:21 · 15 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

We've been together 12 years and married 5. He is so not interested in sex. I love him so much and we have a pretty good relationship besides this. He is a great provider, a winner and the smartest person I ever met. He is 53 and I am 44. It has been dwindling down bad for a year now. He's not currently having an affair either. I love sex and want to have it with him but he is so disinterested. I am at my wits end! I don't want to cheat on him, what should I do? I've tried everything by the way. My self estime was affected till I went to stress management classes. I feel bad, real bad though. What should I do?

2007-03-05 18:31:11 · 22 answers · asked by M1963 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i saw many questions asking when they lost their virginity, and i have no problem with that.
but there's just one thing i don't get, i saw some people lost their virginity at like 13 ,12 ,11 and even 10. do u think the people that wrote these answers really lost their virginity THAT early?
or do u think they r lying?
and also, if u r one of these people that lost their virginity at THAT early age. can u explain to me why u did it, like was it by force? and if u did, do u regret it?

thank u.

2007-03-05 18:30:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in this case would the best friend be off limits...
ok so Josh and I were dating for about five months.. but we were not yet "official".. thought we soon would be.. but then out of the blue one night his best friend texts me and says he has started liking some other chick for the past 3 weeks.. so he led me on for 3 weeks cuz he still said he liked me and crap. so then after about a week his best friend told me HE himself really had started to like me (because of all my opening up to him and stuff i guess..) but i kept telling him off (for about a month.. because i was still heart broken and didn't even want to Think about liking someone else.. let alone his best friend..) but then i went on our first date tonight with his best friend and i Really have started to like him. is this wrong... is the Best Friend always off limits? because i have heard this from many..? also, the guy Josh now has that girl as his gf.. so it's not like he cares.. because he also Knows Now that he likes me..

2007-03-05 18:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

am just curius who and how each item was decided on

2007-03-05 18:29:53 · 2 answers · asked by JOSEPH J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

completely empty of feelings..you miss him sometimes but you don`t want him back?Or when I look at pictures with us....I look as if I see a perfect stranger...No resonance in my mind,not even bad feelings...WHY?

2007-03-05 18:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 18:29:11 · 6 answers · asked by radiant_star888 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm the type of person who if I feel someone isn't interested I leave them be. But in the last 3 month I found out 2 women were interested in me but wanted me to "chase them." I normally just call, call again and leave message, and thats it. Should I be calling a week, 2 weeks after that? Remember this is a question for attractive women that love to be chased (not ones that just aren't interested).

2007-03-05 18:29:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

quick ? who do you go to when you are feeling lost and confused? this is mostly to all the athiest out there. and do you believe in self medicating. dont mean to insult but if you dont believe in God what person do you give attention to

2007-03-05 18:27:57 · 8 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Singles & Dating

Today, I e-mailed my college girlfriend for the first time in twelve years. I heard she wasn't married yet. Do I stand a chance? Was this a silly thing to do? Have you been approached by a man you used to admire? How would you react?

2007-03-05 18:26:25 · 9 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a longterm bf but I kind of find an acquaintance of mine cute. I won't do anything, but I usually like really tall guys. Thing is, I think he's 5'4" and very very small. Like 105 pounds maybe.

2007-03-05 18:25:43 · 4 answers · asked by Curiosityworkswonders 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

No shame if you are. No shame if you sleep with a night-light (unless you're old enough). Just kidding, people. Do you really sleep with a night-light? Do you get paranoid? Persoanally, I ain't. So do tell. Thanks. Peace!

2007-03-05 18:25:42 · 8 answers · asked by Drivliam 6 in Friends

Just curious to know what people think about being in love and having love for someone...I love my best guy friend and now he thinks I'm IN LOVE with him when the case is, I'm not...I tried to explain to him that I love him that I can trust him to the fullest, I'm there for him 100% day or night, basically I'd do anything (almost) for him...but Im not "I'm in love with you let's get married right now." How is it for me to explain it to him better that I love him, not in love where I want to go rush off and have 12 of his babies!?

2007-03-05 18:25:35 · 10 answers · asked by LiL JoJo Sneakers 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 18:25:27 · 7 answers · asked by Ting 4 in Singles & Dating

Its just that I am so tired of the whole thing so this time I reacted.
My Husband definately does not give a damn about my feelings and I have tried peace talks with him and failed.
He has a cousin with whom they use loose language, share ATMS and spend alot of time together. They call each other more than 5 times a day, now my husband has changed line and only did I discover that the other lady has the same line, its a talk time line.
This time I got the phone and gave her a piece of my mind, what was I supposed to do? and if it does not stop what can i do?
And what do i do to this husband of mine, am sure going crazy.

2007-03-05 18:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are they flirting? Are they secret lovers?
If a guy and a girl are slap fighting, is that flirting?
Then he ran over and kicked her swiftly in the butt. It looked like something I did in 7th grade. She's 18 and he's 20. What is going on here? Are they flirting? Are they secret lovers? She's the one who's super jealous of me! Then she said he wouldn't talk to her all day because I was there. But in reality, he hadn't talked to me because he'd been "fussing" with her all day. He was tring to speak to me when suddenly he needed to "kick her azz". Then he came back an apologized to me for letting her interrupt. I said I forgive him since he kicked her and she needed her butt kicked....in my opinion!

So which of the two females is he "interested" in... me or her?

2007-03-05 18:22:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After saying that they waste lots of their time in going after girl friends for nothing - no marriage - no love but wasting their time!

2007-03-05 18:22:45 · 16 answers · asked by Indian wizard 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 18:22:20 · 19 answers · asked by adonisxxxhunk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i have a crush on this guy but hes 2 years younger than me and his friend knows i like him and he told me that i can do better and that he is to young for me what should i do stop liking the guy because of his age or try to find out why his friend says im to good for him

2007-03-05 18:21:58 · 20 answers · asked by stars52006 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 18:21:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I consider myself bad looking all the way, though friends say i look good.

I can't face up to people, looking them in the eyes when i gossip with em cuz i know their attention is on my face and that makes me wary if they're thinking how bad i look.

I'd lower my face and shun away from their eyes that makes me nervous.

I really care about how people think i look from any gesture i pose or angle of my face.

I think only if i'm pretty that i can make friends with the person i like.

I have had commited suicided twice when i'm so desperate ,so tired of my looking.. so tired of the anxiety i'm dealing with.

I'm not happy at all, i wanna say goodbye to you all.

2007-03-05 18:21:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Our niece is renting a place from us. She paid the first two months rent and utilities, but hasn't paid anything at all for almost 5 months. We have asked her to leave but she hasn't moved out. Problem is, we are FAR away. Don't want to involve the extended family much. Her mom is of the opinion that it's her life and she's an adult. She just turned 23. She keeps down a job, but is obviously a flake. We hear that taking someone to small claims court often winds up in costs and hassles for us and nothing comes of it. Suggestions?

2007-03-05 18:20:38 · 17 answers · asked by outtahere 3 in Family

Let me summarize my relationship in a song. *takes out the electric guitar*

The other night dear
As I lay sleeping
I dreamed I held you
In my arms
When I awoke dear
I was mistaken
and I hung my head and cried
You are my sunshine
My only sunshine
You make me happy
When skies are grey
You'll never know dear
How much I love you
Please don't take my sunshine away

I'll always love you
and make you happy
If you will only
Say the same
but if you leave me
To have another
You'll regret it all someday

You are my sunshine
My only sunshine
You make me happy
When skies are grey
You'll never know dear
How much I love you
Please don't take my sunshine away

You told me once dear
You really loved me
and no one else could come between
but now you've left me and I've got nothing
You have tattered all my dreams

You are my sunshine
My only sunshine
You make me happy
When skies are grey
You'll never know just how much I love you
I do

2007-03-05 18:20:16 · 2 answers · asked by Adia Azrael 4 in Singles & Dating

for someone in college

2007-03-05 18:18:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating