in this case would the best friend be off limits...
ok so Josh and I were dating for about five months.. but we were not yet "official".. thought we soon would be.. but then out of the blue one night his best friend texts me and says he has started liking some other chick for the past 3 weeks.. so he led me on for 3 weeks cuz he still said he liked me and crap. so then after about a week his best friend told me HE himself really had started to like me (because of all my opening up to him and stuff i guess..) but i kept telling him off (for about a month.. because i was still heart broken and didn't even want to Think about liking someone else.. let alone his best friend..) but then i went on our first date tonight with his best friend and i Really have started to like him. is this wrong... is the Best Friend always off limits? because i have heard this from many..? also, the guy Josh now has that girl as his gf.. so it's not like he cares.. because he also Knows Now that he likes me..
2007-03-05 18:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In this case, I would say NO...the b/f is absolutely NOT off-limits. there was never really anything "official" between u & josh, therefore u & him are both freegame! What goes around comes around & u have NO reason whatsoever to hesitate or second guess ur needs and/or wants, especially NOT due to another human being. Life is too short! Do what 'cha gotta do! U obviosluy are NO concern of his because he's seeing someone else, so he's obviously made his statement. Make urs!!!
2007-03-05 18:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound too young to be in relationships. I think people like you will never understand relationships cause you're in high school, maybe younger. But if you're not in high school, you need to wise up and stop acting like this. You sound like a drama queen. It is wrong. And if you have to ask it on here, it shows that you still have a lot to learn in life about relationships.
And most of the time guys are just trying to get with girls for sex and then leave you for your friend or your sister to hit them up for sex. Wait till after high school to have a real relationship.
2007-03-05 18:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Randy Jay 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-17 09:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by dickirson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think in your situation its ok to out with the guys best friend.....you like him, he likes u, the other guy got the girl he wanted everyone is happy
2007-03-05 18:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be proper teen etiquette to be with a best friend, but following your happiness is what you need to do.
2007-03-05 18:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Keep it Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case, Fair Game.
2007-03-05 18:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by screaminhangover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other guy screwed you over.........quite frankly you have every right to date the best friend
2007-03-05 18:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by harriette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it should be ok if the both friends have a mutual understanding.
2007-03-05 18:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by clxgolf2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not off limits. hes your ex so you need not worry aout his feelings. you date who you want regardless of who they are friends with. now if it were your female friends ex boyfriend and you two are good friends its wrong. my opinion. you arent breaking any laws though date him if you want
2007-03-05 18:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"They" say: All is fair in Love and War
Just realize you're changing the order of things and there will be consequences
2007-03-05 18:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Russell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋