My last boyfreind cheated on me, I feel like I can trust the guy I'm dating now, but every time he brings up an ex or tells me how hott he thinks a girl is, I get really jealous. I know it's stupid but I really feel like i cant help it. Any advice?
2007-03-05 18:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by carxoxo07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust is the hardest thing to get back once its been taken away by a cheater
2007-03-05 18:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up 2 look yr best. Be confident inyr looks All of us do have the green streak inus its just how we look at it. If u look yr best u feel beautiful even if he tells u how hot a girl is u have no cause 2 be jealous cos u know that u r as good. If he brings up an ex dont get angry but give him a sweet smile and lovingly ask him if he would like u 2 tell him about yr ex.Sooner orlater he will get the hint if he is not a moron.If he tells u how hot a girl is ask him in a sexy way "Am i not hot enough 4 u". Maybe he is feeling insecure of yr feelings that is y he is acting this way.
2007-03-06 03:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well take it from a very jealous person. I am happily married and still get jealous...buuuut you have to choose your battles. he needs to understand respect. And the key to that on the girl issues is not to look at girls in a way that is wrong especially in front of you. And also to not speak about girls unless it is casual conversation that is not about what they look like. Jealousy is something that is very hard to fight off. But you have to be on the same grounds too with the guys. Don't make arguments out of it and don't seem to uptight about things. And being confident in yourself will shine a big light on oyu and your boyfriend wont even see that girl in the miniskirt walking by.
Hope I helped.
2007-03-06 02:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Twinboymom22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like u may still be stuck in the past. Let it go! Forgive but doesn't mean u have to forget. Just be precautious. Jealousy is sign of insecurity. Get comfortable with urself & learn how to appreciate the one ur with & their feelings. Sometimes it just takes time or comes w/age. Just be free-willed about things; keep an open-mind, and always live everyday like there'll be NO tomorrow. When u realize this & live by it, a lot of things will come more natural! Just grow up & accept life as is!!!
2007-03-06 02:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex I wouldnt worry about. Guys look at hot women. Tell him he can look just don't comment in your presence because it bothers you. Jealousy is a terrible mistress and can cause a lot a problems in a realtionship. Look to see if there is reason you feel jealous and then go from there. You have to find out why it makes you feel that way before you can stop it.
2007-03-06 02:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have confidence in your relationship...and when he tells you a girl is hot...he is opening up to you and dosent want to hide anything from you...just because he thinks a girl is hot he is not going to leave you and run after her....you shuld get into the fun too...the girls I dated they would poit out the beautiful girls to them...then I literally had to tell them look at guys and not girls coz it sounded like she was gonna turn...but then thats what happened to me
2007-03-06 02:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he shouldn't be mentioning how hot another girl is if he's with you....it's foolishness and rude...what you feel is not jealousy but incrimination which is not good...a love one should encourage you and not put you down!
you should develop self confidence within yourself and love yourself a little bit more..
2007-03-06 02:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should tell him that u dont enjoy hearin about how hot sum girl is, thats fair enough, its quite rude of him to tell u that
2007-03-06 02:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who care a guys words
2007-03-06 02:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety that is the hardest thing to fix after bein cheated on. i was NEVER jealous until my ex cheated on me.. and now with my bf.. iam jealous.. but wat helped is tellin him that u DONT want to hear wat he thinks about a girl unless u ask him.. that certainly helped me...try it.. see wat happens.. but trust has to be rebuilt soit will take u sometime.. goodluck
2007-03-06 02:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♠Nekogal♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋