Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

I broke up with an individual about a month and an half ago after a 4 year relationship, I am still hurting and missing this person, is it possible that this person is over me in this short period of time.

2007-03-05 17:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by mizzbee1975 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is irritating me and I am already depressed! It takes everything I have not to say something to him!

2007-03-05 17:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by I love screwdrivers! 5 in Family

2007-03-05 17:52:03 · 3 answers · asked by C G 1 in Singles & Dating

waz up guys.I need your help with this girl that I really like.me and her first started as good friends until I told her that I was attracted to her and her response was that she just wanted to be friends so I told her that it was okay.But lately we have started kissing,touching each other and have gotten real close to having sex.she tells me that she has started to feel something for me. so my question is do you think that its true what shes saying (how can she feel something for me when she said no at first) or that she is letting me do all of this so she wont lose me as a friend. thanks

2007-03-05 17:51:57 · 10 answers · asked by emir p 1 in Singles & Dating

after a very long relation we human are involved in a knot with him/her in very strong relation. You did each and every possible thing for him/her but if he/she calls u suddenly and says i don't want to marry with you. I am not interested in you. Totally unexpected which you u had never imagined in your life even. Than how would you react?

2007-03-05 17:50:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his name is minar.every night he called me and said i love u jaan(heart).i love u to the power infinity.i started to love him.his words was very nice.his voice is marvellous.i love him madly.i cant think of my life without him.i am 18 and he is 20.my love towards him increased day by day.2 days ago when i made a call he told me, please forgive me. i dont love u. u r not beautiful. but still then i love him. i love minar. what should i do?

2007-03-05 17:49:58 · 19 answers · asked by sohana r 1 in Singles & Dating

Any1 out there who dun mind chat with a boring guy out here which is from Singapore? feel free to email me at porridge0000@yahoo.com

2007-03-05 17:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Friends

my friend knew that i liked this guy.. and apparently they were chatting online about me and she was trying to hook me up. I was supicious from time to time if she was actually doing that so i confronted her. I asked her if she had any feelings and she told me they were just friends. The next day she told me that he liked her and she likes him soo much! How is that possible? Now they are going out and we arent talking. Mostly im mad because she didnt consider how i was feeling. She never came to me about this. She immediatley went out with him instead of trying to work things out with me. She has been talking to this guy for a week and they go out and she chooses to go out with him and risk our friendship! What am i suppose to do? I sent her an email about a week ago and i havent got anything back. I just want to hear the story from her. But i dont think im going to get it. Its killing me that we arent talking. What am i suppose to do??

2007-03-05 17:49:20 · 1 answers · asked by Mary Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

I've hung out with this guy 4 times now, but we've known each other for almost a year now. On the 2nd outing (which he called a date) he full on pashed me & we held hands the rest of the day & there was lots of hugging. On the 3rd there was a make out/feel out session in my mum's car after a bowling trip with other friends =P I've never done anymore than that, sexually.

He spent the night at my place & we cuddled, held hands during a movie & made out pretty much the whole movie which was a good 2 & a half hours mind you! Then we snuggled for a bit & then I had to jump in my own bed, coz my mum would've hung me if she caught us like that.. she thinks we're only friends =P

I haven't heard from him in 2 days. I worry quite a bit, so I'm wondering if I did something wrong? Before he came over a few days before he was telling me he'd been thinking quite a bit about asking me out, coz he's liked me for a while.. then that night happened.. so what does he want?

P.S. I've never had a bf.

2007-03-05 17:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

had this girl in my class for the last two semesters up at college. she has never been very flirty with anyone in class as far as id seen and wed only said hi a few times previously but than few weeks ago she saw me at a bar and said hey and started talking but i was intoxicated and altho i tried being friendly, i was pretty out of it. anyways, he friends dragged her off after a minute or two but than i approached her in class and once again, she didnt come up to me, but i came over to her and jokingly apologized for my incoherency that weekend. she laughed and started talking again. we got to an awkward silence though and than i just sort of walked to my desk in the lecture hall and that was that. the next class we had to wait for the professor to return so we were locked out. she was standing alone and i came over and we started talking again. she talked quite a bit again after i said hi. once again though after while it got awkward for some reason. so is she being shy or uninterestd

2007-03-05 17:47:32 · 3 answers · asked by Kyle T 1 in Singles & Dating

I hope people answer this one...Just wanted to ask for fun. Peace!

2007-03-05 17:47:11 · 6 answers · asked by Drivliam 6 in Friends

a detailed explanation would be nice

2007-03-05 17:47:10 · 9 answers · asked by SexualDeviant 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been burned so much in my life I just don't know what to do any more. my interests make it hard for me to decide what my true likes and dislikes are because my interests in which way i want to be change so much.

2007-03-05 17:46:58 · 8 answers · asked by stroker the ace 1 in Singles & Dating

If you loved your wife, would you call her a bi tch and a cu nt and talk to your guy friends wife about getting a divorce? Do you think this guy is stuck in a situation and can't get out? He says he loves her, but he enjoys going to work and hates going home, and loved traveling across the country without her, he was happy as a clam! His family tells him all the time that he is never happy, and that he should get a divorce and he agrees, but he says he has 'morals ' and wont. She waited over a yr to get her drivers license renewed, and let it expire just so he could take her to the DMV.

What would you do? He left for japan, and she is to follow in 2 months, but I doubt she will ever go over. She said she is getting dental work but they have dentists in japan, some better than here in the usa! something sounds fishy to me.

2007-03-05 17:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

parents permission. However my parents are opposed to the match and his parents have agreed but quite passive. I feel it is not proper to leave my parents and go ahead with court marriage as they are old and I am the only child. However my bf is persuading me for court marriage and saying that it will solve all problems. I am confused. Also I am to marry another person of my parents choice should I tell him the truth abt my previous relation? In our long realtion we have not crossed limits of society however had been into kissing cuddling etc. I am 25 years old.

2007-03-05 17:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

during homeroom my bf texts me and asks if i still wanna go out with him i said yes then i said why? do you still want to go out with me. and hes like idont know i'm confused. and he wouldn't tell me about what and he just said i need to talk to you alone at lunch, but at lunch he said he'll just call after school. during passing period he was talking to me i didn't really understand him but he said something like he doesnt think we will last very long.i told my friend this and shes like omgg it sounds like hes gonna break up with you. so i asked him if he was and he said "noooooooo" and said its nothing bad.. i dont know i'm confused. do you think he really is going to break up with me?

2007-03-05 17:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by jazmine 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy about 2 weeks and something changed i wanted him to ride with me somewhere he said he could not he had to go to mva and the post office so i figured if we i did it online for him and free his time up he would come ride with me but he didnt he just said call him when i get back so when i got back i called he said he was at the mall i said to myself he is not doing s**t he could have rode so the next day i called said hey tony it is nice out 2day lets hang out he said the fellas are over and i am staying in i am not going anywhere, now he apologized cuzz i was offended and let him know he said he didnt mean to make me offended but are guys that absentminded or he was sending another signal

2007-03-05 17:38:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm friends with lots of guys. I don't hang out with all of them outside of the activities(mostly sports) but they take up most of your time anyways. I always have the same problem. I'm talking to a guy from one of these activities and we have a fun conversation and tease each other and then a few days later they act like I'm not there and then I act like they aren't either. Then a few days later it happens again. Any ideas on what causes this??

2007-03-05 17:37:29 · 10 answers · asked by l_love_skiing16 1 in Friends

I Need Help Writing A Birthday Letter To My Husband!
We have been married for 5 years and I am lost for words right now and his birthday is tomorrow
Please give me some ideas on what to write!

2007-03-05 17:37:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when are they considered promiscuous older women

2007-03-05 17:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by David L 1 in Singles & Dating

boyfriend keeps watching the same movie over and over.I even went to the extrem to throw it away but he bought another one.I told him enough and know hes mad. what should I do.He wont talk to me now.

2007-03-05 17:36:12 · 8 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 17:35:35 · 11 answers · asked by HUGO B 1 in Singles & Dating

its weird but i do it a lot and i dont want to but i end up praying to satan instead of god, anything i can do?

2007-03-05 17:34:58 · 17 answers · asked by SexualDeviant 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 17:34:54 · 1 answers · asked by camper669 2 in Friends

Actually I think I know the answer. Let me revise this. After the first date should you hang out with a woman with your friends or should you try to go on another date within the next week or so. Most of my dates have been quite attractive (and mostly likely have had guys be obsessed with them). So I kind of feel 3 dates say in 3 weeks or so makes me kind of look like one of those overly interested guys, which unfornately for very attractive woman can be a turn off.

2007-03-05 17:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

patrick and susan,from east germany has four childrens together and are lovers for last 10 years,what punishment they should get,as they are still not giving up and want to keep going.what is your opinian about incest.

2007-03-05 17:33:44 · 16 answers · asked by toploser 5 in Family

Ok so this kid i am pretty sure likes me because he follows me around and flirts with me... except i dont like him because hes really weird and kind of a nerd. He wants to be my partner for this science project, but how can i say no without being mean? I would try to go be someone elses partner but i dont know if i can find a partner because i dont know very many people in this class.... what should i do?

2007-03-05 17:33:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 17:33:23 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley Dawn 3 in Singles & Dating

i feel so alone without him :\

2007-03-05 17:33:22 · 6 answers · asked by Ernesto M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men.

BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............

2007-03-05 17:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 in Other - Family & Relationships