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had this girl in my class for the last two semesters up at college. she has never been very flirty with anyone in class as far as id seen and wed only said hi a few times previously but than few weeks ago she saw me at a bar and said hey and started talking but i was intoxicated and altho i tried being friendly, i was pretty out of it. anyways, he friends dragged her off after a minute or two but than i approached her in class and once again, she didnt come up to me, but i came over to her and jokingly apologized for my incoherency that weekend. she laughed and started talking again. we got to an awkward silence though and than i just sort of walked to my desk in the lecture hall and that was that. the next class we had to wait for the professor to return so we were locked out. she was standing alone and i came over and we started talking again. she talked quite a bit again after i said hi. once again though after while it got awkward for some reason. so is she being shy or uninterestd

2007-03-05 17:47:32 · 3 answers · asked by Kyle T 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

3 answers

You are both probably shy and trying to find some common ground since your initial meeting happened while being intoxicated. Let her come to you for the next opportunity of convo, see what happens. You can try to start it off with a quick passing "hi", or whatever, but let her make the next move. You cant figure out whats really on her mind because you are too busy trying to reconnect.
I suspect a definate spark has been fired.....with proper care, you may be able to turn it into much more.
Good luck.
D@N

2007-03-05 17:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dan The Answer Man 3 · 1 0

She might be a bit shy because she likes you. Then again if there were two "awkward" silences between you two, that's not good. Will you have much conversation if you two even started dating? Write down a list of the things you two have in common and see if it is even worth pursuing. It's hard to say whether she likes you or not unless I knew more about her. Email me if you want to ask me any questions. I am pretty good at this stuff.

2007-03-05 18:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sounds like she's just shy. college can be kinda overwhelming. she could be homesick, lonley, doesn't have much self confidence, doesn't have that many friends ect. she mmight be like that cuz nobody talks to her and she was shocked that you did! just talk to her and say " want to go to a coffee shop later?" and she might just say yes. be a gentlemen and make her day :)

2007-03-05 18:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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