parents permission. However my parents are opposed to the match and his parents have agreed but quite passive. I feel it is not proper to leave my parents and go ahead with court marriage as they are old and I am the only child. However my bf is persuading me for court marriage and saying that it will solve all problems. I am confused. Also I am to marry another person of my parents choice should I tell him the truth abt my previous relation? In our long realtion we have not crossed limits of society however had been into kissing cuddling etc. I am 25 years old.
2007-03-05 17:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you're so concerned w/your parents' approval why did you date him for 6 years?
you're 25 and not married yet.......
oh and you're 25
did i mention you're 25?
the clock is ticking, sweetheart.
if you keep waiting, your parents are going to be more concerned w/not seeing any grandchildren in their lifetime.
so they're not crazy about the guy. they'll get over it
buy a white dress, put on a smile, and start poppin them out
2007-03-05 17:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by ilovebio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been a good and sensible girl in avoiding sex in your life. Your concern for your parents is very commendable. But what is the reason for your parents' objection to your b/f? We/you should analyse that reason. If its a genuine and valid reason, then you should give thought to it. If its a silly reason that old people don't understand this generation, then you can slowly tell your parents that you will not marry anyone else and remain like this forever, as you are true and faithful to your b/f. Perhaps your parents will relent and let you marry. You can afford to wait for 1-2 years and see the results. Wish you all the best!!
2007-03-07 04:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello bloom,nice to meet you,and to advise you on this problem.im not perfect either but im trying to make it good for you to take some hints from me.you are caught up in a jam baby.You have to take your parents blessing, cause without this you will never be happy no matter how rich you may be.You still can give time a chance to tell you the truth.Dont be in a hurry to decide about your marriage,if at all you want to marry your b/f you loved for the past six years.dont forget DIVINE HAND OF GOD plays an important role in your life.
2007-03-06 03:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by peter d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. avoid court marriage, you will land in problem.
2.respect your parents and convince for to marry your love.
3. Talk to some close relative and get your parents convinced.
4. but first find how much genuine is your boy friend.
5. After marriage strong social bond is essential. think over the issue proceed logically as well as maintaining the social integrity.
2007-03-10 00:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by anjani kumar s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do the Court Marriage thing. You'll just alienate your parents and thats something you really don't wanna do.
But stand by your boyfriend and don't marry neone else either. It's like the sea wearing down a cliff face. Slowly but surely, you'll be able to do it. Best of Luck.
2007-03-06 01:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by ScreamBloodyMurder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shld not leave ur parent either ur BF too. he has loved u for years n has made his parents agreed too for this relationship. We shld take care of our parents, after marriage i'm taking care of my parents as well of my inlaws. But to leave that person is not correct. U both sit n wait, when u will not marry him n will not marry any other person too, ur parents will slowly understand ur relationship. U r just 25, u can wait for more 2-3yrs. I'll suggest don't marry without ur parents but tell them u will not marry anybody else too..if ur Bf love u he will understand ur decision, at least u will not leave him..
Its upto u now, my best wishes r with u.
2007-03-06 01:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by sanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you shd try to convince your parents. Ofcourse running and having court marriage will be painful for them. Be frank with your parents about your feeling for your bf. Most parents worry about how their daughter will be after she gets married good house and good hubby is wht they see. Take your bf to talk with them might be if they like him things might change.
But if nothing works and you have to marry another guy let me tell you never tell him about your past life . Guys are very possesive about their wife very few may accept the fact abt wife having an affair before. Might be if you tell at tht moment he might accept but later in life they might start commenting about it .
So before taking any desicion always think abt the pro and cons and decide. never let down your parents.....
2007-03-07 02:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by madhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a court marraige done as long as u trust ur bf. and ur parents will be ok in few months. u should tell about this to the person ur parents chose for u. may be he is of some help to u.
2007-03-09 12:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by slv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Connivance your parents, and marry him. First point, I think, you are not kept secret about your BF with your parents for these long years. Try to explain, how you care them and also how you in love with your BF to your parents. Don't take any hasty decisions.
2007-03-06 01:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by vasumadasu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the new guy about your relationship he might help to get the permission from your parents right!!
2007-03-06 02:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋