waz up guys.I need your help with this girl that I really like.me and her first started as good friends until I told her that I was attracted to her and her response was that she just wanted to be friends so I told her that it was okay.But lately we have started kissing,touching each other and have gotten real close to having sex.she tells me that she has started to feel something for me. so my question is do you think that its true what shes saying (how can she feel something for me when she said no at first) or that she is letting me do all of this so she wont lose me as a friend. thanks
2007-03-05 17:51:57 · 10 answers · asked by emir p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes emotions develop over time. So, although she may not have liked you at first, her feelings may be changing the more time she spends with you.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 17:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female and I have a couple of friends who have been very persistent over the years. I have one in particular, who has been after me for over two years every single day. I value his friendship and have always told him that we would just be friends, but in his mind he says that I am the one he loves. I know that he loves me, but never would I go there with him. I don't even let him touch and kiss on me. If you have been friends with this female for awhile, maybe she has grown to have feelings for you. Maybe she was with someone else or confused at first. It is much better to be friends first because in order to be in a meaningful relationship it takes respect, trust, and love that only a true friend can give. Don't rush anything. Take your time. You hold off and see how she acts.
2007-03-06 02:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by mackdingy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a relationship expert but maybe I can help. Girls don't really know what they want at first. It is very possible that she could have changed her mind. I know I changed my mind about my husband. At first I just wanted to be friends but the more we hung out we got closer. Take it from me this girl wouldn't tell you she's had a change of heart just to keep your friendship. If nothing else she would try to hide it. It also is very possible that she had been hiding it and didn't want to act on her impulses for fear she would lose you. However; she may not be able to hide any longer.
2007-03-06 01:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea_2232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK to change her mind isn't it. Maybe she hadn't thought about you in a boyfriend way until you said something. Sometimes when you let someone know how you really feel, they start to see you in a whole new perspective. Give this a chance, There is only one way to find out if you can have a relationship. TRY IT
2007-03-06 01:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the more she gets to know you the more she likes you. It does happen you know. All I can say is to take it slow and make sure it's what you BOTH want. Tell her she doesn't have to do this just to be your friend. Get to know each other more and go from there.
2007-03-06 02:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would be a loser if she let you do all those things just so she could keep you as a friend. Or you could look at it in another way and be greatful for a friend like that!
2007-03-06 01:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by jbhurst01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say this it is hard to move from the friend zone to the bf/gf zone. it is probably something that just happened in your favor and it is probably sincere. i wouldnt worry about why happened just be happy that it worked in you favor.
2007-03-06 01:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she likes you. she changed her mind. Girls don't do sexual favors just to keep up friendships. if she saw you as a friend, she would not be doing that with you.
2007-03-06 01:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking so much go with the flow joe she is a women she nos not what she wants give her what she needs
2007-03-06 01:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by shitsueu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she only wants sex with you but you are not good enogh for a relationship. so my advice.... take whatever you can while you can
2007-03-06 01:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by robbiecanadian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋