his name is minar.every night he called me and said i love u jaan(heart).i love u to the power infinity.i started to love him.his words was very nice.his voice is marvellous.i love him madly.i cant think of my life without him.i am 18 and he is 20.my love towards him increased day by day.2 days ago when i made a call he told me, please forgive me. i dont love u. u r not beautiful. but still then i love him. i love minar. what should i do?
2007-03-05 17:49:58 · 19 answers · asked by sohana r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget and start life afresh.Let byegones be byegones.Apart from this, your present age prohibits you from taking a correct and matured decision.Your emotions guide your preferences.Your love is purely physical,which you all interpret it emotionally.Any serious decisions taken at this age and juncture is apt to be wrong.Likewise is the case with your minar.At this age, you should not while away your precious time, in silly affairs like this. Concentrate in your present and build your future.Many many Minars,even better, will come your way in later life.Why spoil your present.
2007-03-05 18:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by MrKnow_All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I have not met you or him, it sounds like he was after a short term relationship. He got enjoyment out of pursuing you. Once he had you, the challenge was over. He broke up with you because he found someone else. I would learn from this experience and be cautious to guys who rush your emotions. You need to use that God given Intuition. Don't rush into relationships due to "smooth" talking. Make the guy you want look into your eyes when he tells you these things. The eyes are the mirror to your soul. If you see a coldness in there, he is playing you.
2007-03-06 01:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to convince yourself that you deserve better...which you do. No one should hurt you like that. If you have the need for closure, talk to him face to face. I know it isn't easy. I broke up with my ex fiancee after a year of toying with his emotions and being a horrible significant other. I found mind games amusing somehow...it was stupid. I drove 6 hours to break up with him in person and it didnt make things better, but at least there was closure on both ends. I think that helped to facilitate the getting over it. I know for you the shoe is on the other foot. Good luck. Oh, and if you weren't beautiful, he wouldn't have gone out with you in the first place...so of course he was attracted to you.
2007-03-06 01:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind and you think you are in love. Mentally this guy has convinced you that you should love him but he was playing with your emotions. So, now you decide that would you love a person who played with your emotions or teach him a good lesson so he does not go on playing with others emotions which probably hypes him up. Tell someone who can teach him a lesson that he is troubling you and that should take care.
2007-03-06 01:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by faizanramball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts but he is not worth it take time to heal and move on I wouldn't have nothing to do with him at least for now maybe latter you might be friends but don't treats him again.
2007-03-06 01:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there isn't much that you can do except walk away with dignity. If he doesn't love you then that's sad but you can't make a person love you.
2007-03-06 01:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and move on down the line. Do not waste any more precious time on the loser.
2007-03-06 01:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by jbhurst01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy is playing games with you girlfriend! pick up on it! how can you love some jerk like that? just FORGET HIM! don't let him get to you. it will NEVER work. he only wants you for reasons that your not thinking of. think woman, think! forget your love with this loser and move on!
2007-03-06 01:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His love for you was infatuation. Drop him like a hot potato.
2007-03-06 01:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try to talk to him and ask him why he did that to you.But you should not try getting back with him.just move on and you will find another person
2007-03-06 01:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by ellovuvoie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋