I've been burned so much in my life I just don't know what to do any more. my interests make it hard for me to decide what my true likes and dislikes are because my interests in which way i want to be change so much.
2007-03-05 17:46:58 · 8 answers · asked by stroker the ace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop looking. I never believed it, but its true. Love will find you when you least expect it, in the place you least expect it from the person you never thought was your type. But something in your heart will tell you "This is love".
2007-03-13 08:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you are saying is really relevatory as to why you've had a difficult time. I think as you get to know who you are and what you like, it becomes a bit easier to understand your relationships and your love interest.
A couple of books to help you understand you might do you well. Try reading..."The Color Code." I'm not sure who the author is, but you're sure to find it online. "The Five Love Languages" also can give you insight into you and into others.
Once you understand you and what you like or dislike, how you are motivated, what types of people you are attracted to, and what your flaws or weaknesses are, you will be better prepared to have a better relationship and help take your relationship to the next level. Good luck!!!
2007-03-13 23:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by stormc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think this one thru.... if love was easy and we didnt have to but anything forth for it ti prosper would it really have the same sentiment. does something your handed mean more that something you worked for and earned.... of course not if luv was easy it wouldnt be worth it and would have less meaning and people wouldnt cherish it and know exactly what and when it was happening. love without effort is pointless the more some one is burned the more potential they have to love and to offer those who realize that and dont harden their hearts are a jem. its critical not to harden yourself tho things seem like they arent going to get better. we must have faith in the ideals of luv its self and try to knwo that no matter when or why if we keep that message alive things might change and has a better probablity to change with positive thinking comes postive attitude and reward thereafter. intrest arent so much a big deal as is the ability for change and adaptation. people think that major sacrafices must be made to get the attracted person... where that couldnt be more false. some things may be improved and for what you like dont change thats part of what defines you not your clotes hair eyes. its what you do like and act that makes you improve not deminish them stay true to yourself!!!! you'll be glad you did.... and on a final note if you cant even old a nice conversation with the person nothing will last.... when your too old to do anything but sit around what can you do but talk and if your stuck with someone you cant do that with..... :( stay tru to yourself improve your self and those things you like and never harde your heart.... ggod things comes to those who wait.... have faith love will come thru!!!
2007-03-06 02:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband I had really given up on marriage, or commitment for that matter. I finally realized that I had clammed up in my shell, and was not going to give anyone a chance anymore because of too many bad experiences. Was tired of being used. Everyone I encountered had flaws. Flaws that reminded me of my past tense relationships. I told myself one day that I will never meet someone if I continue to compare them to old relationships. So I agreed that I would not clam up and hide my true feelings anymore for fear of getting hurt, but this time I was honest and began talking to guys again I screened them for marriage material. I finally met one that was marriage material and I let him know I was ready to marry. He told me the same. We are happily married going on a year now. Honesty is the answer! With yourself and your partner.
2007-03-06 02:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by "J" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know where you coming from...and its simple actually...quote:"and why is it so hard to find the perfect soul mate?"...well 1st of all no one is perfect! I dont know how old you are, but i can say this...you still have a long way to go..dont go looking for happiness...happiness will find you!...TRUE LOVE comes when you least expect it...enjoy the dating, but try to avoid those bad ones, look closely..you will see who they are...GOODLUCK!
2007-03-06 01:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cayotegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Love like you have never been hurt."
Finding the right person isn't gonna be easy.
They aren't gonna pop up at your door one day and say "Hey ur gonna spend the rest of ur life with me ok?"
No.
it's not exactly that easyy..
get out there..
have some fun with ur love life.
"the one" will come into your life one way or another.
Good Luck.
2007-03-13 23:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to find "the one" because ther is only one of them. it's hrad to sift through all the people you encounter to find him/her.
2007-03-06 01:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want some cheese with that whine?
2007-03-06 01:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋