If you love a person for last 7 years and suddenly he/she calls you and says I am not interested in you than?

Question

after a very long relation we human are involved in a knot with him/her in very strong relation. You did each and every possible thing for him/her but if he/she calls u suddenly and says i don't want to marry with you. I am not interested in you. Totally unexpected which you u had never imagined in your life even. Than how would you react?

Answer 1

yr reaction will not going to make any difference to that person, who want end of that relation..but...i think u should think abt how u can come out of frm the effet of that "punch," here also u r having limitations, u cant do much, its depends on yr nature , that what time it will take u to come out....may be it take 1 year, 5 year..or...even longer then that...or ...in some case , it will be there for life time..god bless u, take care.

Answer 2

That happened to me, together for almost six years and had just gotten engaged, two weeks later he calls me to say that He doesn't want to marry me and I should move on. I was dumbfounded, shocked, heartbroken, but I didn't scream and get angry I just Told that He is right, I am better off without him, thanked him for doing me favour y ending this, and put the phone down.
I feel that I spent all those years putting him first, making him feel good, and if he could turn around and ask me to just move on after planning to get married, then he wasn't worth my time in the first place.

Answer 3

may be she has some problems which she is not able to share. or else u just can't do anything. it really hurts, i understand but u can not force somebody but yes atleast u can try. try to speak to her n tell her to give u the reason for this. As u r with her for 7 yrs, u must be knowing which kind of gal she is..things can be changed, try...to speak to her....if she love u n she is urs she will come bak to u. Nothing much u can do..

All the best n don't feel low, this is life, u have to handle alll teh situations calmly!!

Answer 4

Well i would be absolutely gutted, to spend 7 years with someone is a long time. I would ask them why all of a sudden they don't have feelings for me and ask for some kind of explanation as to why. I would sit down and cry until i felt better and then move on with my life, even though it would be hard, you can't make someone love you.

Answer 5

i will be depressed but i would try my luck to ask the rason why and i would also ask her if we could still work things out then if she refused then i will let her go, its really hard to move on but i have to, if i really do love him then i will set him free because he will be more happier with him. i guess we're not just meant for each other and i'll just divert my attention to something else so i wont have to think about it all the time. ill engage to something that will really help me heal those wounds, not immediately but hopefully sooner so i could continue onto my life and prove them all that i can live without him and he was just a part of my past that taught me to be more stronger than before.

Answer 6

Forget the dog\b**** and move on in life. I'm sorry I know this hurts but think about your poor self. Dont deprive your self of love Look around there are many good people who will appreciate your love and sweetness.

Answer 7

Definitely it will hurt you but you should think yourself lucky enough that before marriage you have known the Evil. Unknowingly it has helped you to think twice to choose a life partner.

Answer 8

I'm sure it hurts but it sounds like they have found someone else. There is nothing you can do except look forward to the future. It will be okay, trust me.

Answer 9

that's a tough one, I guess I'd have to take small steps towards my recovery, eventually, understanding. For me, ( I didn't know it at the time ) it was the best thing for both of us, and the most honest.

Answer 10

I would be devastated. But there's nothing that u can do to change it, so the best thing is to just move on with your life.