Actually I think I know the answer. Let me revise this. After the first date should you hang out with a woman with your friends or should you try to go on another date within the next week or so. Most of my dates have been quite attractive (and mostly likely have had guys be obsessed with them). So I kind of feel 3 dates say in 3 weeks or so makes me kind of look like one of those overly interested guys, which unfornately for very attractive woman can be a turn off.
2007-03-05 17:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it a while before you introduce her to your mates say a couple of months, meeting your friends is very hard for a woman as we worry so much about wether your mates will like us or not and wether you are going to listen to what they say about her. It's very nerve wracking so give it a couple of months and then introduce her but don't hang around for longer than an hour unless she feels comfortable. Try a date every 2nd week or something but keep in casual contact between then.
2007-03-05 17:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really likes you, she probably wouldn't mind going on 10 dates in three weeks. If she doesn't want to go out with you once a weekend for three weeks, do you even want to date her? Why would you want to date someone who's not interested in you? As for your friends, I know I'd feel really uncomfortable meeting the friends of someone I didn't even really know. But I guess it depends on the woman you're dating.
2007-03-06 01:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a woman who goes out on dates with you wants to be with you not your friends. You want the girl to date you not your friends. Make sure you be yourself. If you like to go out on dates find a woman that likes that. If you can't be yourself around your girl then she's not your girl ( she's who ever you are pretending to be). It is not easy out there so keep looking.
2007-03-06 01:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kain j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defiantly after the first date have a few drinks or dinner with her and your friends because you most likely are more your self around your friends and if she still wants to see you then she must be a nice chick
2007-03-06 01:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by holden hunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women prefer to go out on real dates with men they
take seriously...
2007-03-06 01:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't really matter which way u do it.
Cause i prefer, the 1st 2 dates-a group thing, friends and all, &the 3rd date to be just us 2...
maybe initially im a bit shy, i dont know.
2007-03-06 01:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women like attention. But attention from your friends might be awkward. I think it would be best to ask her if she would like to hang out with you and your friends first.... definitely, do not throw it at her last minute.
Good luck ^.^
2007-03-06 01:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't be a turn off if she really likes you. Been there back in my day. My phone rang non-stop.
If she is very sociable, go out with friends.
If she is not, take her out to nice dinners, wine and dine her and shower her with gifts-if you really like her.
2007-03-06 01:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on a double date with drag queens
2007-03-06 01:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by David L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really feeling it and liked you (which is what you want) it wouldn't matter. Ask her out as many times as you want.
2007-03-06 01:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋