Its just that I am so tired of the whole thing so this time I reacted.
My Husband definately does not give a damn about my feelings and I have tried peace talks with him and failed.
He has a cousin with whom they use loose language, share ATMS and spend alot of time together. They call each other more than 5 times a day, now my husband has changed line and only did I discover that the other lady has the same line, its a talk time line.
This time I got the phone and gave her a piece of my mind, what was I supposed to do? and if it does not stop what can i do?
And what do i do to this husband of mine, am sure going crazy.
2007-03-05 18:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him to chose between you and this lady...then whatever his choice is work with that to move on with your lives
2007-03-05 18:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't panic. Give him the benefit of doubt. Talk to him about why he finds it necessary to talk to the other lady and explain how you feel about it. Be kind and offer him help. He may be stressed or have a problem that he couldn't tell you and seek some other company. If you find out for certain he is cheating on you, dump him and move on. This guy isn't worth your time and energy. But, find out for certain that he does cheat on you.
2007-03-06 02:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you feel disrespected and that you would appreciate him getting rid of the talk line. Although, this is between you and your husband. Never stoop to doggin out the other woman! Unless she already knows what the deal is, then in that case, LET her Have IT!
2007-03-06 02:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Screw the peace talks. Take his stuff, throw it outside, turn on the sprinklers, cut the phone services and change the locks.
2. Serve the divorce papers.
3. Happily watch him squirm.
2007-03-06 02:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by fatcatkeepers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been the one to make the peace talks and keep failing, its time to leave the war.
No marriage should be a war. It takes two....if you are alone.....then going alone shouldnt be a problem.
2007-03-06 02:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dan The Answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously something aint right there but dont overreact!!! that always makes things worse and we women have atendency to do that.. act on it and stand your ground. be firm and dont let up dont wait forever for things to change if they dont than obviously move on no more effort that that he doesnt deserve any more from you then. why waiste your time on that stupid **** when that could be time your enjoying life. you only have one
2007-03-06 02:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried and with reasonable time for him to change, then its time to leave, why be miserable life is too short...
2007-03-06 05:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just walk away while i could sounds like u know he don't care so y but your self through it??? i don't think u 've gone over the edge think he has .... you can do better
2007-03-06 02:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by GEN-GEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk and tell husband to go to hell.
2007-03-06 02:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him or dump him for someone better and make sure he knows about it. so start search now, but don't tell your hubby about it
2007-03-06 02:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋