Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

My friend is 42 , 6 kids and a grandma of 3 and recently after a very messy break-up has lost 2 stone ! She looks really good but is trying to recapture her youth ( when she had her arms ful of babies) and has taken to wearing hot pants and thigh high boots when we go out ! She is obviously getting lots of attention but she just cant see that the fellas she attract just see her as a bit of an easy go-er!
Don't think it is sour grapes as I am only a size 10 myself, and in a very happy relationship but how do I make her see what she is doing without upsetting her.

2007-03-05 20:04:52 · 21 answers · asked by mum of 3 1 in Friends

..What do you think about Filipina woman in general?

2007-03-05 20:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by just me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-05 20:03:38 · 17 answers · asked by richy 1 in Friends

I mean do you check out the abz and overall physic and get turned on? do you look at his bulge?

Also, what turns you off?

2007-03-05 20:01:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got strange incidence at one of my girlfriend's sister.

the complete story is

at one day my girlfriend invites me to her home for dinner. after having good dinner, my girlfriend goes outside house to procure some good mouth freshner. When she goes out i got strange behavoir with her sister. her sister is in upper floor and when i suddenly saw her.. ( i do not know whether she drunkked or not) she throws some flying kiss on me. . and calling me upwards to have a night sharing with her.. also she wears sexy cloths and showing me flurting signs through her opened cloths..

Due to this experience i got confused and goes away from that place.. Actually i want to tell all these things to my girlfriend.. but i am afraid that whether she will accept it as true or false

if she treat this as false then it might be that we can break our good friendship.. now guide me how can i handle situation?

and also whatever i have done is right or wrong on that day

2007-03-05 20:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by rockycold 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife whom I love dearly is disabled & because of it she has little social life. Luckily her doctor recently gave her a new med. that has GREATLY helped (including losing a lot of weight). Now for the past 2 months she has been spending nearly all of her time on the computer (and I do mean nearly). During this time she has been chatting with 1) and old boyfriend which she had had a brief affair with (before we were married but 'together') and a college student (she's in her mid 30s) who I suspect is 'hot' for her.
I've done my best (or so I think) to tend to her every need (time, sex (LOTS :), buying her jewelry, getting her an ipod, cookies, almost anything she wants, that I can get/give/afford (which is much for $)). I do believe she should have friends, male and female but these two really bother me.
I've tired to mention it, but she refuses to talk about it. She KNOWS I'm concerned.
I mostly trust her, but she's enjoys the flirting (it's nice to be wanted)
Should I be jealous

2007-03-05 20:01:29 · 19 answers · asked by Charles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-05 19:59:59 · 7 answers · asked by mmm 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends girlfriend constantly is complaining and blaming him for everything. She has him so beat down and feeling like everything he does is wrong that he automatically says "I'm sory, babe" to anything that goes wrong at all. Today she pulled a good one. She got all upset and chewed him out for saying he's sorry too much!

Is that like a beyotch magnum opus or something?

2007-03-05 19:57:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 19:56:40 · 16 answers · asked by Jules UK 3 in Weddings

I am 29 going on 30 and I am happy single....and never had a girlfriend nor had a relationship.
I want to stay single for the rest of my life...
Love has brought me nothing but pain and close to suicide.
Being single has brought me only good friends and rewards...
Many people think I am crazy....but it's better to not need love then crave love and never get it.
Friends tell me to "you will find someone"...or some other suger coated fairy tale....
I am not afraid to die alone..and slowly as every person tells me with their suger coted fairy tales that finding that true love.....it's makes me want to stay single even more......

Am I crazy or have I seen the dark side of love more than other people have?

2007-03-05 19:56:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Singles & Dating

At the top of the yahoo page it says Yahoo UK and Irland. Are ther people on yahoo from other countries other than The UK.

2007-03-05 19:55:19 · 30 answers · asked by Trev23 3 in Singles & Dating

we have ben together for 4 years we have a great relationship we were close friends in middle school and high school with secreat crushes for eachother & now being engaged 2 mo. after dating= to 3 years of being engaged with 2 kids & step child from him & a house ready to move in, why havent we got hitch yet??? i dont want a big wedding i dont mind getting married in court but he is always saying "yeah we will go soon" he says that every year & yes we had a lot of problems NO DETAILS but it changed everything, but only good has came out from it we are stronger then ever this BIG problem happend about 6 mo. ago & he said this was the reason we didn't get married earlier now that everything is great in life im waiting in vain...i haved talked to him but i dont want to push him & he says what he always says "yeah , ...soon..." finacially we are i guess normal; bills here & there but it only cost 50 bucks to do it in court & our familys will always help w/ parties/food thanks!!!!!!!

2007-03-05 19:54:19 · 13 answers · asked by on roller coaster called LIFE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this girl in my college whom i proposed a few months back. she ignored sayin that she is not interested to get into any serious relationships as such..since then, i msg her often and hav tried to convince her many a times which unfortunately has not worked...v always end up with a argument..few days bac, there was a serious misunderstanding b/w her and me for which she rly scolded me very badly..after a week she gave me a call and spoke as if she didn't do it intentionally..since then i dont msg her very often..if i dont msg her for a long time she sends me a msg to chk weather i rply or not..yesterday i got a msg from her saying..LOVING WAT U GET IS COMPROMISE,GETTIN WAT U LOVE IS SUCCESS, LOVING EVEN AFTER KNOWING TAT U WONT GET IS PURE LOVE,PURE LOVE IS SOMTHING WHICH IS GR8 IN THIS WORLD..i rly didnt understand wat she exactly meant by sending this to me after such a long gap..i truly love her and i somehow want to make her mine..wat do u guys think..will this wrk

2007-03-05 19:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Singles & Dating

Im naturally a shy type of person that has allways been kind of a loner I tend let myself get stuck at home alot and not have any fun. I need to get myself to get out and be able to talk to people but I cant get myself to do it... Im so used to being the way i am it seems impossiable to act a different way.... can anyone one give me some words of motivation to motivate me to be more socialable.

2007-03-05 19:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not even close to thinking about it AT ALL (im only 15) but just wondering what age you lost your virginity. I was very surprised to hear that it was so common for teens to loose their virginity these days...

2007-03-05 19:50:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want people to tell me stuff like, the traditions they followed, the theme color they used, who were the bridesmaides, man of honor flower girl, ringbeare, and things like that, where they close family friends....where were you married who walked the wife down the aisle, where was your honemoon, and what did you do for bacholors party and bridal shower...anything you want to tell is fine, do you have pics of it somewhere on the internet(Myspace, yahoo360...ect.)

was it scary...did you cry, did something embarres you or gowrong, and are you still married to that same person.

2007-03-05 19:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs.Gower 2 in Weddings

I went out with someone for just over a year, unfortunately we broke up about a month ago, I tried to pretend it didn't bother me but it was killing me from inside and now I have reached a point where I can barely walk 2 steps without crying. We broke up because we were no longer working as he cheated on me over new years and I couldn't let it go, it was just a kiss but a kiss is still a kiss. Now he keeps talking to this guy he promised me he would never talk to, even though he made me promised I wouldn't take to my ex, he has even arranged a date with him, and I can't stop thinking that this person made our relationship hell at so many times and now hes actually going to go on a date with him.
How can a person who "loved" me so much turn into someone I don't know, hes mean, rude and generally does not give a **** about me in any sense at all anymore :(
what do I do?
Is it fair for him to break the only promise he ever made, or should I really have expected any less from a cheater?

2007-03-05 19:45:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well...
i like this guy,
who is inloved with my bestfriend...
but my friend doesn't like him...
whta should i do?

2007-03-05 19:43:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous S 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend have a lover . but he is her uncle,not directly. he also love her very much.she said that she cant live without him. but it is impossible to marry him.isn't it ?he is a good person. i know him. she have sex with him for eight times. she requested me to help her. i dont know what to say. please help as a good friend..dont be late...

2007-03-05 19:43:01 · 6 answers · asked by shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy for a little over a month. lately its to the point that we hang out 3 or more nights a week. we sleep over at each others house. i was positive i was really falling for this guy. hes everything i wanted. except he doesnt really have a lot of goals in life. and i do. but hes sweet, caring, and we just clicked from the start. i love hanging out with him. i miss him when we arent together. but a little bit ago i met another guy. he is the totally package, and some. so far. he wants to go on a date. i havent had the exclusive talk with the first guy. but i feel so guilty for even thinking about goin out with this other guy. why do i feel so guilty? should i feel guilty? i find myself letting it get in the when we hang out. not because i think about this new guy all the time. but because i feel so guilty about goin on a date with another guy. i really care for this guy, and dont want to hurt him or mess up what we have goin. but im also curious about this new guy

2007-03-05 19:42:39 · 23 answers · asked by dawn4 1 in Singles & Dating

What if you want to keep talking to him? Telling him he's lame will make him hate you and leave you.

2007-03-05 19:42:11 · 11 answers · asked by ♥-'jean'-♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

...on the cheek when she got in the car. Do you think she's having an affair the s**g? She's meant to be carrying my kid as well! Do you think it could be his kid?

2007-03-05 19:39:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to love sex, and couldn't wait for it, now I can go a month and still be fine, but my husband thrives for it. How do I change this? And how do I go back to the old days?

2007-03-05 19:39:38 · 9 answers · asked by Twinboymom22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Married Dad who's 13yo daughter the other night sat on the couch and not only proclaimed one of the Idol guys cute [ok by me] but then went on to bounce up-n-down, hoot-n-holler while saying other stuff like "woo baby." She's also been overheard calling a guy a "nice piece of chocolate." Well, my wife semi-regularly says these things and other ribald remarks [jokingly] - has done so for years and it never bothered me until the recent incident. As a guy, I may think similar things about women but I am NOT gonna have my 13yo daughter see/hear me say them. She is maturing and will think those things and a whole lot more which is fine but show a little restraint, make appropriate comments about the opposite sex and realize what you can/should say depending on the company you are in. I'm not a prude - I was a stripper in college - but am I over reacting . . . I really doubt it. What to do? What not to do?

2007-03-05 19:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by gwhilicker 2 in Family

I'm not asking if this is ok. But is there anyone else out there who is doing it to. Im doing the friends w/benefits thing with an ex lover. I still love him and very attached to him. He doesn't love me back. Very hard to give up addictions, especially when it has to do with love.

2007-03-05 19:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by sweetness 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend, but if i'll stay with him i will not be happy.
He's too much jealous.
I can't go out with my friends because he doesn't like, even with my family.
Parties??? No way.... I cannot go too....

2007-03-05 19:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had sex with my boyfriend before my marriage. After marriage my husband recognised that I was not virgin. Now He has started torturing me. He is always mentioning that his life is finished due to me only because I was not virgin. But I am a committed woman. He is also torturing my parents by words. He is now in abroad. From there he delivered so many slang words to me and my parents over mail. In his mail, he has also mentioned that every bad thing whatever he is doing is due to that reason only. Now he stopped mailing. I told him several times that I am sick. But no reply, no phone. I informed his parents that I am sick. They are not also calling me. his parents and I reside in India. he is in Angola. Tell me whether I should show the documents as the proof of mental torture for filing divorce. I don't want to go for divorce. But I am puzzled now. Again I think if I don't go for divorce, then future might be miserable for me. Please suggest me

2007-03-05 19:37:14 · 16 answers · asked by sanjukta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found porn on my computer yesterday through the internet history. Noticed it only happened when I was working (that would be the time that my husband is here alone). I confronted him about it and he confessed that he was looking at it. The thing that is bothering me is that this happened before and I told him "If you have to hide it, then that is when it is wrong." Well here we are again, with him hidding porn sites. I have in the past watched porn with him under the strict rule that we would only watch together. But, since I have had my daughter, I am uncomfortable with porn because of how I currently view my body. What is your take on this situation? I think that for the time being he should respect the fact that I am not comfortable with it. The biggest problem was that he lied about it and tried to hide it.

2007-03-05 19:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by bubbles 3 in Marriage & Divorce

places with another mum. Anyone interested?

2007-03-05 19:34:58 · 7 answers · asked by Nic 5 in Family

Like Yahoo personals for example... I think these sites are just scams to take money from people.

Also has anyone ever subscribed to yahoo personals? is it legit?
or do they just start stealing money from your credit card.

2007-03-05 19:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by Caged 2 in Singles & Dating