Found Porn on the computer?

Question

I found porn on my computer yesterday through the internet history. Noticed it only happened when I was working (that would be the time that my husband is here alone). I confronted him about it and he confessed that he was looking at it. The thing that is bothering me is that this happened before and I told him "If you have to hide it, then that is when it is wrong." Well here we are again, with him hidding porn sites. I have in the past watched porn with him under the strict rule that we would only watch together. But, since I have had my daughter, I am uncomfortable with porn because of how I currently view my body. What is your take on this situation? I think that for the time being he should respect the fact that I am not comfortable with it. The biggest problem was that he lied about it and tried to hide it.

Answer 1

they all lie about it and try to hide it.....mine watches it when I am not around...lol problem is he's a computer illiterate so I know when he's gone into those sites...lol he doesnt know how to clear the history...he's getting better...he can clear it now..lol

let him be...it's their own way of release...lol...there's no harm...I trust my hubby....as for porn I dont mind...I watch too sometimes...

I know if my hubby doesnt have sex for a few days he gets really grumpy...he wants it every day...lol after I fix him he's all happy and relax...

Answer 2

hi there youre husband probably felt really embarrassed about you finding the porn on the computer sand he lied .....he probably is also more than aware that since you had you little girl the last thing you want to look at is porn esp if you are having a few thoughts about youre self since giving birth .....right first things first youre body will need a bit of time to get back to normalbut be proud of youre self you and youre husband brought this little girl into this world and the 2 of you love her with all youre heart .....so what if youre husband is watching the odd site and having a look that is all he is doing ....is looking ....and when youre hormones are all back on track ,im sure you and him will have great fun together....good luck and take care of each other xx

Answer 3

I think you're overreacting to something that is actually, quite small. You say, "you're hiding and its wrong." He thinks, "Does that mean you want to look at porn with me?" then he thinks, "Does she want me to call her at work and ask her permission if i can look at porn?" thenhe thinks, "She is being psycho posessive, its just porn."

I think you should let him look at his porn, because you are going to start working out, and dressing up HOT for him. Start being confident about your body. (that's part of the reason why men like porn anyway. bcause those women are confident to show their bodies.) So, be Hot, show it off and watch, he'll let the porn go on his own, WITHOUT you forcing it.