Im naturally a shy type of person that has allways been kind of a loner I tend let myself get stuck at home alot and not have any fun. I need to get myself to get out and be able to talk to people but I cant get myself to do it... Im so used to being the way i am it seems impossiable to act a different way.... can anyone one give me some words of motivation to motivate me to be more socialable.
2007-03-05 19:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The one who advised you to smile and be yourself is right. And be interested in people - ask them questions. It doesn't have to be something heavy like whether or not they believe in God; I'm a woman and I always break the ice by chatting about clothes, especially if the stranger is wearing something I admire. So many people - probably the majority - feel just like you and are dying for someone to show a little interest in them. I don't think computers, libraries or gyms are particularly good places to meet people - trying volunteering, or evening classes for something you're really, truly interested in. And then just prick up your ears and enjoy the wild and wonderfully quirky world of being human!
2007-03-05 21:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by clio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting out of the house is one thing, talking to people is another.
There must be a hobby or other interest you like. If it is the internet go to the library to use puter. If you like to workout, do it at a gym. You dont have to talk with people till you are comfortable, but you have to put yourself where there are other people first..
Good Luck and see you in the bleachers.
2007-03-06 03:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at your local schools, colleges, trade schools. one should offer self help courses. public speaking, how to start conversations, how to get business contacts, etc. few of these classes under your belt and you will have more confidence to do what you seek.
I was thrust into the lime light in biz, so I was forced to remove my shyness.
2007-03-06 03:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant push yourself to act like one.. im just like you before i met my friends right now..
i did motivate myself.. at first,i do not want to go out but then later when i try going out i find it more enjoyable than staying at home.. you should allow yourself to be expose to the social world.. change your lifestyle, try to do things you do not usually do like hanging out with friends, talk to people..go to bars..etc.
2007-03-06 03:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by heartbeats_tin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and relax. Be confident and put on a smile. It always works for me.
2007-03-06 04:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by WHATEVER!!` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself around people more.
For starters, let them come to you.
Post your profile at YoBling.
2007-03-06 06:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋