I'm thirty and I want to save sex for marriage. I haven't found her yet, and I want for my first time to be extra special. What would you say if we met for a few dates? Do you agree wth my choice? Do you think I'm square?
2007-03-05 18:32:21 · 15 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quite respectable in this day and age.
2007-03-05 18:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by scammaj12 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is nice of you to do this. I think it is very honorable of you. That doesn't mean you have to avoid physical contact with women...i'm 17 though, and I don't know how all those horny 30 something women feel.
2007-03-06 02:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its wonderful that you are saving yourself for marriage and i would suggest you tell who ever it is your dating that.
After i had been dating my guy for about 2 years i decided i was ready to give myself to him, i wanted it but i also thought he really wanted it. I made it very clear that i thought we should finally well have sex one weekend though i never said it outloud. He kept making excuses for why he didn't want to hang out and stuff like that. I got concerned and thought it was just me, because i knew he had slept with other people before. It was a long while later before he told me that he really cared for me and he wanted to wait because of that. I was fine with that but for a long time i didn't understand, so just tell your girl how you feel.
2007-03-06 02:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by kimmy125 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I beleive you haave very strong morals and are very smart to do this I saved myself for the person I married well not until we wed but you know what I mean it felt right and we loved each other tons have been married almost 8 yrs. I would think most women would think it very appealing that a man has saved themselves for there true love.GOOD LUCK AND REMEMBER LOVE WILL FIND YOU WELL THAT HOW IT WORKED WITH ME ANYWAYS.
2007-03-06 02:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its your choice and there is nothing wrong with that. if i met a guy that said he was saving himself for marriage i would respect his decision. people put too much pressue on this subject, it shouldnt be such a big deal on whether you have sex or not. just stick to your guns ;)
2007-03-06 02:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by How Sweet It Is 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it's absolutely great. Are you saving it for your college sweetheart???
2007-03-06 02:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why-- do you think they would take it badly? I think it's cute, in a respectable kind of way. [Really-- I wasn't making fun of you. "Cute" is just my favourite adjective =D]
2007-03-06 02:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole man race should follow in your lead. You truly are spectecular.
2007-03-06 05:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice to hear, there is still some nice man out there
2007-03-06 02:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by 1111 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, different strokes, right? Good for you.
2007-03-06 02:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts really nice of u..really respectable..good goin man......
2007-03-06 02:42:39 · answer #11 · answered by sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋