I just started a job and in my hire orientation group there was a really cute guy.He is like 10 years younger than me but we chat for a few minutes here and there when we see eachother and I catch him looking at me.Im heavy set but I have been told I have a KILLER sense of humor and am really fiesty and make people smile and laugh. He and I work different shifts. I gave him my cell phone # but he hasnt called.I dont know how to ask him if he has a girlfriend and if he doesnt would he date anyone at work.Particulary a heavy set single mother. Our work has a strict "sexual harrassment" policy.Do I just wait to see if he will ever make his move? how can I ask him without seeming pushy/desperate/easy?Ive NEVER considered dating a coworker til now.
2007-03-05 18:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't involve yourself in dating a coworker if you value your new job. It may get you fired if the boss finds out. Work places frown on co-worker relationships these days because it may lead ro sexual harassment charges. If it doesn't work out it will not be pleasant at work.
Good luck and G-d bless !!
2007-03-05 18:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Phillip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer-lose some weight-even if you just tone up some. Then you will feel gutsy enough to really go for it!!!
With a couple of weeks of working out, you'd be amazed the results that can happen. Try getting a facial and do your nails, hair, etc. as well-then you will really have it going on.
2007-03-05 19:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on your definition of heavy set....how big are you? I am a average guy and I love heavy set women. If you really want to attact him, you should try and see the things he loves and if they are compatible with you. Otherwise, you can hit the gym for a bit, that will help both appearance, confidence and reduce stress.
2007-03-05 19:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy really likes you, and you really like your self, your weight wont matter. I personally dont date folks from work, but some have great luck with that. I know plenty of "heaavyset" women that have landed great men. You can be big and beautiful. (think how great Queen Latifa looks) Good Luck!!! :-)
2007-03-05 19:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by ladysmokeater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you lose some weight if you know its an issue? It might take time but worth it in the long run. Then you might have tons of guys calling you all the time.
2007-03-05 18:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Navulam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do not put yourself in pitiful situation when u push him to go out with u and he is afraid to say he doesn't want u cos u re fat and he is afraid to hurt your feelings and he says yes but will be disgusted. and i have never heard that anyone would chose a partner or a sex object according to a "killing" sense of humour. i heard about killing boobs or face or body thou. so maybe u should start losing weight instead of asking question for which u already know answers?
2007-03-05 18:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1st off try to be a little flirty with him..... toss him hints he probly not trying to make a sudden move yet things might be to soon for him....wait around and see what happens dont rush things though....who cares if your overweight...if hes gonna like you he would like you for you....if not hes a loser and you dont deserve to be with anyone like that.....but only thing is do you think he would like a older women becuz 10 years is a big diffrence
P.S dont listen to the 1st three losers answers at the top there retarted and have no home traing....its not about how much you wiegh its about what type of person that person is and what type of prefrence they perfer...you dont have to lose weight for no one but yourself .. if you like the way you are then good
2007-03-05 18:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lesha 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Since you guys work. Wont happen till one of u guys move to another firm.
2007-03-05 20:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by CG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, it's a lost cause.
2007-03-05 18:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋