Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

My ex and I did everything together. We drove to the top of the mountains and made love in the rain. She moved from a different state to be with me. She never cooked or clean but she did write me love notes. She took care of my son and I took care of her son. She believed in me and made me the happiest man on earth. but her son got sick and a bruises on his stomach. the doctor said child abuse on me but I did not do it. So I can not see them until after court. She had to moved out of my house to her fathers house. She knows I did not do it. So for the past 5 months I have heard from her. Should I move on or wait??? things will never be the same but I love her like children love pennies. PLEASE HELP PLEASE HELP I am a old fashion guy who wants to be in love. I am 25 male a pilot in CA

2007-02-27 05:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by Manolo L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 05:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, come on, tell him something! Tell him he's annoying, ugly, or whatever it is that's keeping you from liking him! I really loved this girl once and she would say she didn't like me like that when I would ask her out (we were friends). She never ever could tell me a reason for not liking me or tell me anything she didn't like about me even after she got angry with me and would never talk to me anymore (so far it's been ten months).

I gave her a card couple of weeks ago(Valentines Day) letting her know I miss her and I would like to be friends again at least, and I have decided to try and let her go since she hasn't said anything to me yet. The only thing I don't get is why all her friends like me but she still doesn't like me anymore. I feel like I never even got a fair chance to, you know, prove myself worthy of her. Anyway, I've met someone else now and so far we get along great. But I still have feelings for this girl even though we're not talking.

2007-02-27 05:44:48 · 9 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

While waiting for a job interview, you ask the receptionist “where are the restrooms”? While washing your hands, you notice one of the stall doors open. As the man exits, you observe two things: (1) whatever he ate did not agree with him and (2) he didn’t wash his hands. As you leave the restroom, you see the man talking to the receptionist – as you approach, she introduces you to him as the person you are to interview with. He then reaches his hand out to shake yours… what do you do? (True story)

2007-02-27 05:44:13 · 18 answers · asked by Texas183 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 05:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel N 1 in Singles & Dating

i finished with my fiancee as he became very controlling and dictating to me. he now says that if i do not give back the engagement ring its taboo, and we will both have real bad luck. hes nigerian and says its his tradition. i think its cr*p. what do u think?

2007-02-27 05:43:26 · 41 answers · asked by fate 2 in Weddings

i once proposed when at school,but i failed .now she is still in contact through phone ,but we both work in different countries
.she also know's that i still love her ,but she talks to me like a friend ,i would like to express my feelings for her once again,but i don't know how?

2007-02-27 05:43:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since my girls' family opened up their restaurant she hasnt had time for me. She has school in the day and goes str8 to the restaurant after and doesnt get off til 10pm. Thats all week and weekends. Her folks make her work. Im not the type of guy that cheats. I have only 2 male friends and the rest female. I cant spend time with the males becuz they work. And as far as the females it will seem like im cheating. I got to work and after work i just sit at home. I love her. I just dont kno what to do. Should I leave her til she has time for me? I need some advice Please

2007-02-27 05:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by night_2k6 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i have been feeling a abit stressed lately, he works away and is coming back for the weekend. Any suggestions on how to de-stress and have a really special weekend? Sort of romantic? What should i do?

2007-02-27 05:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by Danni 2 in Singles & Dating

I get worried and jealous a lot. I am always afraid my fiance is looking for something better, but I don't ever tell him. It's driving me crazy though.

2007-02-27 05:41:43 · 16 answers · asked by Kristie M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 05:41:30 · 16 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Weddings

My husband and I have been married for 14 years and we have a 13-year-old son. We have recently gotten back together after a 3 month separation. I left my job and family in Missouri a month ago to to be with my husband in Massachusetts. My son seems to be very happy to have his family back and is adjusting very well. However, my husband and I still seem to be having some communication issues. I feel that he has always been a little insecure and he is a little overbearing and selfish at times. He is often unwilling to compromise and feels it is his way or the highway when it comes to making decisions. When we argue whether he is wrong or right, he waits for me to come to him for resolution and I find that he is not willing to talk things out unless I apologize, even if I feel I am not wrong. I apologize often just to make peace. I cannot continue this relationship like this. Any advice on what I can say to him to improve our communication so that we both are happy?

2007-02-27 05:41:27 · 16 answers · asked by Erica W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well we already know we wanna get marrie weve been together for 3 years, and ive been waiting for a ring,, he told me that with this income tax he was gonna buy a big screen tv and then NexT years income tax he'd start saving for me a ring,, so what do the guys have to say about this, or girls, i just think thats very mean, he says he will get me one one day, but hes putting a T.V. before me? tell me what u thnk?

2007-02-27 05:41:25 · 7 answers · asked by Brennah L 2 in Singles & Dating

Do most guys think it's sexy for a girl to have a belly button ring? Assuming of course that the girl is good looking, is that a turn on or not? Need multiple oppinions to make my decision whether to get one

2007-02-27 05:41:13 · 14 answers · asked by wolfpack girl 08 1 in Singles & Dating

My current boyfriend has a problem with me talking to my ex..which is understandable. Jealousy is a primary emotion that we all feel, but how do you know when it is controlling behavior? He looks at my pictures and interrogates every male he sees..he even got jealous when he saw a pic of my bro reading to me, I was 4! I'm in the hospital and I didn't want to tell him the details behind it..well he got mad and grabbed my file from the door, I tried to take it from him and he elbowed me really hard and started reading it. I just don't know about this guy..

2007-02-27 05:40:28 · 17 answers · asked by goldengirl 4 in Singles & Dating

and yes ill still go to school i have 3 out of state colleges wanting me...and one of them is by his family so if you can help me out at all id love it! buhbye

2007-02-27 05:39:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it is my daughters 18th next month and we are having a suprise party so do I dance and risk embarrasing my daughter or watch all the others dance and act my age ..????

PS the reason I know I can't dance is because my daughters laugh at me and tell me to sit down even when there is only family
there ..

2007-02-27 05:38:56 · 21 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Family

It was a saturday we had been home all day. I had to run an errand but i forgot my cell so 10 min later i was at the house I called him no answer noticed the office door was closed and locked I went to knock and could hear a women moaning. Then I knocked and said to open up I could hear his pants coming up and belt being buckled. He opened I jokingly told him he was busted he said "what i can masterbate if i want to". Then I said to him was to keep his phone on him my tire was losing air. I acted cool about the whole situation and he walked out there to look. Anyway while I was driving I felt hurt..why didn't he approach me? Its been a couple of days since I've seen any action. I let it go figured the day wasnt over but nope nothing that day or the next its now tues and we are not talking. I'm upset its happened before I feel like the man that doesn't get enough. I've discussed this with him before. I want sex, I thought men did too ...

2007-02-27 05:38:47 · 7 answers · asked by ilisalec 2 in Marriage & Divorce

theres no going back, i just need to get over her

2007-02-27 05:38:26 · 16 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend (male) who I'm attraced to, and others believe he is attracted to me. We both flirt with eachother as well. We haven't discussed our attraction yet. The problem is he has a short temper with me. I confronted him about it and he said I'm the only one who he has a short temper with (within a group of friends). Why only me?

2007-02-27 05:37:54 · 6 answers · asked by Jonathan L 1 in Friends

2007-02-27 05:37:49 · 18 answers · asked by $#M@nOLo#$ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 05:37:37 · 7 answers · asked by julie p 2 in Singles & Dating

bed? AM I the only one who thinks like this?

2007-02-27 05:37:36 · 14 answers · asked by young_stud 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl at a party this weekend and things went off pretty well. The ages for the people at the party were between 20-24. I started talking to this girl and we were dancing the night away. I got her phone number and we watched some movies together. We both really like each other but she told me she is 17 years old.(We in AZ) Im 22 and i know it feels kinda strange. But we really are into each other. She says that she doesn't mind my age and that I shouldn't cause she does have a tattoo(so i do think she is kidding around). Plus she says that her parents won't care so i may find that out tonight cause im taking her out for some coffee tonight.

So if she doesn't mind my age should i mind her age? The age of consent in AZ is 18, but we really are into each other. She is very mature and beautiful. I am not 100% positive that she is under 18 cause she has a tattoo on her lower back

2007-02-27 05:37:06 · 10 answers · asked by Jay Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have 2 snakes and he takes them with him to friends houses and his little brothers.but I have recently noticed he only brings them when there are young girls around ( we are 25 the girls are around 18) he brought them to his little bros I thought it was kinda strange. Then the other day we went to one of his little friends houses and there were these two girls and they were like oh my god your the guy with the snakes I know it is lame to be jelouse of this but I feel like he is bringing the snakes to get attention from young girls cause he has no game and needs the snakes to start a conversation should I even care?

2007-02-27 05:36:27 · 9 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Singles & Dating

After you were upset with her, perhaps bored and said to her that you need time alone?

For example i made mistake by telling the guy that I like him a lot and laying my cards on the table, and after this he seems to have lost interest ( i.e. stopped calling, texting, and finds excuses not to meet, but refuses to acknowledge its over either) what do I do? I am a good looking girl, and he is a very handsome man, don't know if its relevant for the question, but we both can move on easily, i am not sure about him, but i would rather be with him...

Do I : forget about him and go having fun and socialising with friends and other guys ( and make sure he finds out about it), do I dissapear from his view, do I ignore his calls? reject him if he contacts me just to seem more "hard to get", I mean WHAT DO I DO?
Or shall I just forget and move on i.e date other guys? Because I feel I still like him and maybe we are still together, just don't want to "cheat " on him if its still the case

2007-02-27 05:36:14 · 3 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Singles & Dating

has anyone ever gotten married on a beach if so what was it like?

2007-02-27 05:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Weddings

2007-02-27 05:35:10 · 16 answers · asked by Due Z 2 in Singles & Dating

Chinese ancestry
5'10", 155lbs, lean and athletic (college swim team)
Ivy League undergrad
currently a 3rd year medical student in surgical rotations

Just wondering. Lots of my Asian friends (with similar stats above) have been complaining about the interracial dating imbalance when it comes to white men and Asian women versus white women and Asian men. I don't think that's necessarily true, instead I think it's just that most Asian men are less likely to ask white women out and tend to fixate more on Asian girls. What do you guys think?

2007-02-27 05:34:57 · 8 answers · asked by naus 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 05:34:48 · 6 answers · asked by julie p 2 in Singles & Dating