I met a wonderful guy through a friend, and we really hit it off! The only thing is, during the course of one of our many conversations I asked if he had ever been married... well, as it turns out, he IS *still* married, although in name only. Even though this is the case, it still makes me uncomfortable. Am I being selfish in wanting him to file for divorce (the reason he hasn't filed is he is "lazy", its my understanding that she cheated on him and that is what caused the split.)? They have been separated for about 11 months now. Any ideas on how to comfortably broach the subject with him? I think we could be together... well, he is amazing and seems perfect for me, for a really long time if we pursued a relationship. But I won't be with a married man, even if they are planning on "eventually" filing for divorce! Any ideas? Help!
2007-02-27
06:04:06
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liebedich85
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Marriage & Divorce