men r jerks?

Question

this happened to someone i know, her MIL came to live at their house cuz shes got nowhere else to go shes alone, point is MIL cursed out the lady called her bad names and curses, the husband stayed quiet while he was present seeing and hearing..the lady told her husband tell ur mom to stop he said nope i cant do anything shes my mom, so the lady told his mom whatever ur calling me ur daughters r it not me then her husband went psycho..i understand that but why didnt he go psycho when his mom trashed his wife with nasty curses? he was calm then,,

I posted the question thinking guys r mature this proves my point look at some of the answers by MEN. anyway i didnt say ALL men r jerks be mature guys ur not the man that i wrote about r u? simce ur getting mad... thanks

Answer 1

He is a jerk!!!

Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

To avoid conflicts. because a guy fears that if he starts shouting at his mom for his wife, she may feel lonely and blame his wife for her isolation.

Besides, a guy feels that his wife can understand the things better. Also he expects his wife to respect his parents, no matter how they are. If a women is efficiently able to manage these homely affairs, nobody would insult her. But the problem starts when the lady starts asking for space. I donot mean to say the wives donot need space, but it should disturb the rythm of the family they are in.

Also a guy relies more on his wife than his mother. Finally it's with her that he can share all everything. He would love to see his family respecting and praising his wife. But wants the women to earn that respect. Just because you are someone's wife doesnot imply that you ought to get the respect. That would be a part time respect. Your own character, attitude, and capability to balance yourself into the environment actually does the scoring...

:-)

Answer 3

So because the MIL is cussing out your friend men are jerks because the husband wouldn't shut her up? Unless the husband is ALL men, I'd say your premise is flawed and your story sounds like that, at least in this example, women are jerks.
BTW, when you say "men", that implies there is no qualification. "Some men" implies that you think some men are jerks but not all. The point being that in your example, women are just as much jerks as men are and I suspect you've proven that point with the thimbs down - it WAS you, WASN'T it? So if you can't say what you mean - you've already established that you can't SPELL what you mean - then don't get mad because someone calls you on your faulty premise.

Answer 4

adult men are jerks. Why? it fairly is because of the fact they seem to idolize getting back to their least confusing sort, while they thought that adult men have been real adult men and that they felt those masculine features have been at their maximum effectual. i'm going to confess that a guy who does not have some element of it rather is unusual. yet even those cave dwellers mandatory women people to return up with the assumption first so as that the "real adult men" could desire to act like they have been plenty greater advantageous. however the girls people have been the unstated real skill at the back of those adult men.

Answer 5

I'm sorry for your situation but doesn't give you the right to call everyone of us jerks,why do you women do that,when a man is being mean to you you call every guy a jerk I want to know why? women are jerks you love to trash men, but when men trash you you get mad,guess what? what goes around comes around so deal with it.

Answer 6

Oh yes...they say "A girl at 20 becomes a lady but a guy at 20 is still a kid and always will be". Doesn't this show how immature guys are. They can never grow up. NEVER. ( most of them ).
And instead of standing up UNITED against them ..we women become just each others enemy.

Answer 7

Your husband is jerk.Now what you need to do....
1-Stop fulfilling his sex requirements.
2-Stop Caring for him.
3-Stop beheaving like a emotional wife,be blunt in replying back.
4-Stop talking to her mother and daughter.

You need prove that you have a value and he should realize that.
Finally do this for sometime only, do not change yourself permanentely.

Answer 8

He is a wimpy mamas boy....my son is 27 and I would never pull that crap with him, nor would my mother in law on me becasue they are grown up men and wouldn't allow it!!!!! Don't let it all keep you up at night, they won't be married much longer!!!!

Answer 9

Often, men don't respect their wife as much as they respect their mother. It's unfortunate but true.

Answer 10

Learn to write and think more clearly and we can help out then. And nope, not all of us are jerks.

Answer 11

apparently mom had more control over him than his lady. goes to show you NEVER NEVER NEVER let your MIL move in.