Is there anyway through which I can make my friend understand how imp she is to me and I need her time.?

Question

I am a shy person I cant talk out things even if I try I cant express what I feel and the whole thing will take a different shape. How can I make my frnd understand that I need her time, her attention. I have shown by my actions that I care for her and even she accepted that I care for her n she likes d way I care. She praises me when I do something good n says she wants to be my frnd. But how can d frndshp b maintain if there is nothing to talk or there is no time to spend with frnds, she gives me a little time of her's daily bt thats not sufficent. How can I give her hints to knw that she needs to spend time with me.she is my just good frnd i dnt want to lose her but i feel that we r gonna part our ways. I feel this frndshp is just a courtesy from her side. I dnt want sympathy. I do everything to make her happy bt I always end up being unhappy. I feel she tries her hard to spend time with me bt she is busy. and thats make me feel that I am burden on her. I want love n care. help me!

Answer 1

people cant read you mind ,just open your mouth and say what you need,(they cant eat you) dont be a door mat just open your moth it gets easier with time believe me i used to be shy too ....buy not anymore

Answer 2

Are you sure it is just friendship you require from you friend? I do not mean to be disrespectful but what you are asking and the way you are asking (especially given that you cannot formulate your reasoning well) is a little on the heavy side.

You need to give your friend some space. This situation may appear to be draining on her side and you might need to make reservation for that.

Answer 3

Your to needy she gives you her time on a daily basis my god give the girl some space and make some new friends and dont be so clingy you will scare them all away

Answer 4

Write her a letter telling her how you feel. By the way, what you're asking for isn't just a friendship.

Answer 5

Talk to her...