ok i really want boyfriend. All my friends had or have one and i tried so many things like getting knew clothes, make-up, and changing my hair. Nothing seems to work. It might be my rep but how do i change that? so can u help? please?!
2007-02-27 06:07:28 · 28 answers · asked by Genya Benya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The worst thing you can do is be desperate for a bf. Seriously, it will happen when you don't expect it and if you are looking for it, you'll get some jerk. Boys know when you're desperate and they prey on that. Just work on being a better you and the boy will come.
2007-02-27 06:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Caramella 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have changed make-up, clothes, hair and nothing works....you may want to change who you are?
What kind of person are you?
What do you do for a living?
What do you do for fun?
Where do you like to go?
Look guys like someone who they can have fun with and if you are uptight, bitchy, or ugly.....you will have a hard time finding a boyfriend. It could also be that you are damn gourgeous and most guys think they are not good enough or you may make them feel this way.......
You know, women think make-up makes them be better but although I like woman using make up I rather have them plain because just remember on the mornings you will have to wake up and if the girl is really ugly and wakes up after you ........I don't want to have a heart attack either!!!!
You need to be more specific for a good advice......explain what you meant by rep? I will give you a good advice on what to change!!!
2007-02-27 06:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay from a mans point of view as a posed to a boy's.
You need to firstly be approachable as boy's tend to be intimidated by confidant girls.
Also honesty is a factor and being a good listener as when boys are attempting to chat up they tend to rattle on like budgies lol
You don't need to change anything about your appearance as I don't know your rep I cant comment ,The best way to communicate is to find out what the boy is passionate about and talk about that ,but you'll find you'll be more the listener and he'll come away with the impression that you are a great conversationalist ,honestly it works try it and see :)
2007-02-27 07:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to beomeone that your not. Be friendly, helpfull, smile when you see a nice guy you like, and just say "HI", let him smile back and make the first move.
Find a nice guy in the same class and ask him to help you with some homework like a tutor would. You might know the homework well but let him teach you.
Under no circumstances have sex with a guy just to get him to like you. The right guy will like you just fine for who you really are.
Sometimes you look to hard for a boyfriend, do the above and dont look so hard and he will find you.
2007-02-27 06:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Powerlifter-Norm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your rep, you are the only one who can change that. Don't buy new clothes and don't over do the make up. Be yourself, he'll come. If you want to change something, try where you hang out. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places. Don't try so hard, let him find you.
2007-02-27 06:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rep? What's that?
You could always try asking your friends about other singles out there, speed dating perhaps (yes, it does work!) go out some more and join in some clubs perhaps and most importantly - be yourself... it does work eventually.
And last but not least forget about wanting just accept what comes along - you will be a whole lot more relaxed when you meet the right one.
2007-02-27 06:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey since you got new stuff you should go to a salon so that they could do ur hair,go to the nail pedicure so that they could do ur nails,and then maybe ask a popular girl do ur makeup and let her pick ur clothes and also let her pick out a hot and nice perfume because the boyz will love the smell, and then maybe the boy that u dream of will come up to u and ask u out!! and u of course will say yes.
~*Hope this helped~*
When i went out with someone i was just myself so just act like ur self
PS: it is not ur rep
2007-02-27 06:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to GET a boyfriend. Females who want a boy friend that badly, usually reach out for anyone and end up with the wrong kind of guy for them. Then this guy ends up hurting them badly!
Just keep yourself looking nice and clean, stay out of trouble, use good language, and be polite to 'all' guys. The right guy will come along when you least expect it!
2007-02-27 06:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its got more to do with your personality.
sounds like you look after itself, maybe you've just got to keep your eye out for a guy that maybe interested.
look out for guys that tend to glaze at u or smile. once you've found a nice guy u have to draw him in like bate. make him want u. maybe u could give a flirty smile and say hello.
maybe ur friends boyfriend might have a friend that you get along with??
i know people will say ''the right guy will come along soon, theres no rush..." they're right, but everyone needs a little tlc!!
but i guess it just depends on what kinda reputation u have?? u'll have to start proving to people you're not the kinda girl people think u are. i think if u just minigle with people they will soon reliese the real you rather then the reputation you are given.
2007-02-27 06:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking and trying so hard!
Be yourself and someone will find you!
I know that, that is the most annoying thing in the world for someone to say, because it so doesn't help, but instead of you getting all wound up by it, just enjoy life and Mr right will turn up!
Good Luck x
2007-02-27 06:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋