♥ Last year I went out with this guy named William for about 3 weeks. Then he broke up with me because I was moving. Still today he tells me that he still loves me. We are only 14 years old too, and I think he was my first true love, even though we are still young. I still love him. What can I do to get over him...
O yea did I tell you that I live 6 hrs away. He lives in Missouri and I live in Oklahoma. Somethimes I can visit the school he goes to and I see him. Also I want to ask him if we can go to the same colleage if he wants to. But then I know its still like 4 years away. Is that too early to ask him to go to the same colleage?Please help and thanks for reading this!♥
2007-02-27 06:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O and before we went out we liked eachother for like 5 yrs.
2007-02-27 06:13:23 · update #1
I already tried to move along but that hurt me even more. Or like when he has a gf he tells me that he feels like he is cheating on me. And when I get a new bf I feel guilty.
2007-02-27 06:25:56 · update #2
Well I hate to tell you but you are still terribly young I don't say that you can't fall in love but you'll be able to meet many more guys and I think you should forget him!!!!Of course the decision is yours.
2007-02-27 06:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say this, but your life will change, and your interests will change. You have three options:
(1) Try to maintain a romantic relationship. This is next to impossible considering the distance and the remarkable time of your life -- you are changing a lot, and so is he, and you're not changing together
(2) Try to maintain contact as friends. If you're truly meant for each other, the romantic relationship will come when it's time. Try to grow up together -- you may grow apart, or you may still remain together.
(3) Forget about him. Literally cease contact -- it's the best way to rid yourself of romantic feelings for someone else. You will heal and move on. That's the beast way to "get over him."
I highly doubt that you'll want to go to the same college, or that you'll even be interested in hardly any of the things you are interested in now in 4 years. And almost universally, people who have boyfriends back home and go to college end up terminating that relationship with a year.
Now, there are exceptions (my parents, for example. They started dating when Mom was 15 and dad was 17 and are still married, 50 years later), but in general you have to have room to grow. Holding on to a great friend in hopes that he will be your one and only may be a good movie plot, but it's not what happens in the real world.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 14:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you never know when true loves arrive. And your lust did dont let it go because it came at a young age, hold it and dont let it go. Cause true love just comes onces. Dont worry about age just worry that you gonna be together eith that big love that not even miles cant reperate you and him away.. What do you think that you should just let it go...
2007-02-27 14:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First "true loves" are wonderful. I'm 62 and still remember my first. And while she will always have a special place in my heart, it wouldn't have worked out. We all change as we grow older and our needs change as well. Enjoy your first love and treasure it always, but don't invest your whole life around it. You will know when you find that real "true love".
2007-02-27 14:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by sarge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you wont want to hear this but your young. Most liklley you wont marry him. You wont know him after highschool so dont count on kids :)
2007-02-27 14:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Amie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋