Before I got married, my fiance asked if I would do "anything in the world" for him. I told him of course. He had been drinking, and we were on the phone. He said, "How 'bout a threesome?" I was shocked and asked why, and he said he had never had one and always wanted one. I asked with who, and he named my best friend. When I asked if he wanted her, he said no, it was the only person he thought I would be willing to do this with. To this day, (three years later) I often wonder if he really does want sex with her to see what it would be like. He has never mentioned it again, and most times I push it out of my concious, but other times, I just wonder WHY he would suggest it. We talked about another couple who has done this and I told him I would NEVER be able to share him with anyone, and he responded, "Yea, I guess that wouldn't work in our marriage". To me, that says he STILL wants to do it but knows I won't.
Am I not enough for him? Does it mean he doesn't love me enough?
2007-02-27
05:34:10
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bina64davis
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Marriage & Divorce