♥Please help me♥?

Question

♥ Last year I went out with this guy named William for about 3 weeks. Then he broke up with me because I was moving. Still today he tells me that he still loves me. We are only 14 years old too, and I think he was my first true love, even though we are still young. I still love him. What can I do to get over him... Please help I like cry everynight over him! Thanks for reading this.♥

O yea did I tell you that I live 6 hrs away. He lives in Missouri and I live in Oklahoma. Somethimes I can visit the school he goes to and I see him. Also I want to ask him if we can go to the same colleage if he wants to. But then I know its still like 4 years away. Is that too early to ask him to go to the same colleage?

Answer 1

It's not love.
You and him have a major league crush.
Find someone closer to you to date. Long distance relationships don't work.
In time you will get over him but you will always remember how special he was.

Answer 2

You said it yourself, you are only 14 years old. It's a cliche but it's also the truth, you will meet many boys and have the chance to go out with them. even though you may love each other, as you say, it's important to have a normal relationship which cannot be done if you live far away from each other. I say, keep William as a friend and if you still have feelings for each other as you get older you will find a way to b together.
Don't worry...

Answer 3

Cry , Cry.............and Cry some more until you are all cried out. The only other healing mechanism you use for this is "time". TIme heals all wounds of the heart or can at least make them easier to manage. Not seeing him every day is painful at first, but will eventually work to your benefit.

I once watched someone I truly loved marry someone else. It was especially painful because I had to see her with him every day. It's been years now and I am still not quite over it. She tries to initiate conversations with me , and I still can't deal with it for very long.

Bottom line: Try not to live in your victimhood for too long. Your life must still go on, and you are responsible for the quality of that life. Ultimately, it will change you for the better if you let it.

Answer 4

You could have a long distance relationship. That is what me and my bf have. He lives 45 minutes away from me. We have been going out for almost two months, not including a three week break. Unless, of course, you live in Rhode Island and William lives in California, then you'll have to get over him honey :(
Don't listen to all the people who say it's not true love. Only you know your heart and your maturity level. I know that I truly love my bf and no one can tell me otherwise. I am fourteen as well. Email me if you need to talk or need advice :).

Answer 5

First loves are always the hardest to forget! No matter the age. Trust me, 50yrs from now, you will still remember him.

What are the chances of you seeing him again? Is it close by where you two can drive to one another in later years? Are there possibilities that you two can see one another down the road?? If so, then by all means, keep in touch. There's nothing wrong with having a pen-pal growing up. Who knows, you may end up with him again years later down the road. Hope is something everyone can live for.

But if there's no chance, then try your best to forget it and move on with another love of your life in your new school. You will always have friends and they can always help you forget. I bet in no time, you will have a new bf by the end of the school year!

Good luck =)

Answer 6

Ok Ok relax your mouth is talking but why aint your feet walking u need to do amazing when u love somebody not sitting and crying oh I cant see u no more go out your old enough u moved so what it doesnt mean nothing meet him talk to im on the phone at least there is yahoo messenger tell him to have 1 so he can see u trhought the webcam but please no whining

Answer 7

Unfortunately only time will heal this one. You can help lessen the pain a little by going out with friends and meeting new people. You are young and this may be your first love. Make sure you're not just hanging on to him or he's not clinging to you.

Answer 8

it's hard to say you love some at a yound but i dont think you should forget about him at all i mean it depends were do you live??????if you move to a different state well that herd...but if you both live in the same state just different sides you guys should just work it out and see how it goes from there!!!!!!

Answer 9

u luv him n he luvs u wut else can i say, go get him!u both love each other, what's the point in crying over something that silly every night?love may seem like the most important thing in the world to you right now but no male human being in this world except ur dad n bro is worth your tears.don't ever forget,BOYS R TOYS

Answer 10

If there's no way of hooking up, then it might be kinder to just stop talking to each other. You'll never get past the painful part if you don't. If you could just be friends and feel comfortable that way, you could be supportive of each other.