Why don't some girls have reasons for not liking a boy?

Question

I mean, come on, tell him something! Tell him he's annoying, ugly, or whatever it is that's keeping you from liking him! I really loved this girl once and she would say she didn't like me like that when I would ask her out (we were friends). She never ever could tell me a reason for not liking me or tell me anything she didn't like about me even after she got angry with me and would never talk to me anymore (so far it's been ten months).

I gave her a card couple of weeks ago(Valentines Day) letting her know I miss her and I would like to be friends again at least, and I have decided to try and let her go since she hasn't said anything to me yet. The only thing I don't get is why all her friends like me but she still doesn't like me anymore. I feel like I never even got a fair chance to, you know, prove myself worthy of her. Anyway, I've met someone else now and so far we get along great. But I still have feelings for this girl even though we're not talking.

I never pestered her. Close to when she had gotten mad at me I started only calling her once a week. Before that we talked nearly everyday because we never got to talk that much in school. She got mad at me because I told something about her that I shouldn't have to a friend, that she was falling in love with someone else, and she got angry at me and called me to fuss at me then when I would try to talk to her she would ignore me. I only did it because I felt like I needed to talk with someone about her falling in love with someone else because it hurt. I stopped trying then tried again 2 months later thinking I needed to give her space. We talked a little then I asked her if she was still mad at me, to which she said no, she just didn't want to talk to me anymore.

Also, 90% of people especially girls told me to get her something and that would be the best thing to do for her on V-Day. I didn't know wether I should have or shouldn't have.

I occasionally notice her sneaking looks at me while walking. Most of the time that we have the same lunch period she goes to the line opposite the one I choose and sneaks looks at me from there. Then sometimes she'll sit in a spot that's directly aligned with me and I'll catch her looking at me. I think she probably just wants to see if I look at her.

The second to last time we talked with was in June last year, I asked her did she forgive me and she said "for what, I just don't want to talk to you anymore." Then I told her and she said "I don't want to talk about it anymore. The last time we talked was only for a short while and I just asked how she was then she said fine then I started thinking she probably still doesn't want to talk to me so I ended the conversation and told her bye and walked away.

I recognize that she probably doesn't like me like that and maybe never will but I would just like to be friends again.

Answer 1

She obviously doesnt share the same feelings..she doesnt like you and maybe she feels like you are being too persistant and pushy with it so she decided to not talk to you all together hoping you would go away.....So that being said..you need to leave her alone and get someone else who will like you back...If she really wanted to be with you she would have told you so already or at least showed some intrest but it doesnt sound like it to me ..So please just let it go

Answer 2

Nope.
Girls don't think like guys do. Simple fact. Guys think logically, objectively. Girls get a feeling, a sense for something. They don't have "reasons" for things the way guys do, they just "know." In a lot of ways, they're more intelligent that way.
She ddin't know why she didn't like you. It was just a feeling.
Another little secret for you dude: girls don't actually WANT you to prove yourself "worthy." You can't "prove" it. You either are a worthy man or you're not. And if you are, she'll sense it right away, meaning you won't have to prove it.

Answer 3

cheap, bad breath, too much of a mamas boy, controlling, too much of a manwhore, cheater, cocky, uneducated, pressured me sexually, meathead, materialistic, etc.. <--- all reasons I have not liked a boy, there is no limit to what it can be.

Girls are not honest about these things because we are socialized to be sweet and not hurt anyone's feelings. The problem is you would be better off if she would just tell you. But just accept that fact she is not interested, and move on.

Answer 4

Girls don't need any reason to not like a guy. Girls just like guys have the right to CHOOSE who they like and don't like period. Since you're such a whiner I can see why someone wouldn't like you. Leave this poor girl alone. Quit trying to force her to like you...frankly if I were her I'd turn you in for stalking and harassing me. Maybe then you would get the hint...or not obviously you're pretty damned thick since you had to post this twice

Answer 5

sometimes you can not even be friends with someone...especially, for whatever reason, they do not want to be your friend anymore. It seems like this girl does not want to be your friend or anything else. I would move on with life and stop looking at her to see if she is looking at you.
Move on and stop the worry.

be cool...

Answer 6

It will work out one day...maybe she is not ready for a boyfriend...she doesn't want to turn you down and hurt your feelings so she is putting it off...good luck!

Answer 7

I think she just wanted attention or she was a bad person

Answer 8

wow sounds like a carpet eater to me

Answer 9

MAYBE SHE DON'T WANT OT HURT YOU FEELINGS OR GET IN THE WAY OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP