Ever since my girls' family opened up their restaurant she hasnt had time for me. She has school in the day and goes str8 to the restaurant after and doesnt get off til 10pm. Thats all week and weekends. Her folks make her work. Im not the type of guy that cheats. I have only 2 male friends and the rest female. I cant spend time with the males becuz they work. And as far as the females it will seem like im cheating. I got to work and after work i just sit at home. I love her. I just dont kno what to do. Should I leave her til she has time for me? I need some advice Please
2007-02-27 05:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by night_2k6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN WITH HER AND TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS. MAYBE SHE CAN MAKE TIME FOR YOU IF YOU JUST TELL HER.
2007-02-27 05:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've not really seen each other in a month, it sounds like she's already moved on. Depends on how long you've been together etc. But you need to talk to her about this before you go off with someone else. As someone above said, if you love each other, you'll create time to be together. If not, well, give yourself some time out before getting into a new relationship.
Good luck
Jx
2007-02-27 05:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by kirroyale3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you rap her? if you haven't then you better hurry up because time is not waiting, soon she will change her mind. You know, women are bad ***. To be honest with you, stick very close to her like super glue. My best advise is to go and eat at their restaurnant 3 time a week, in that way you can still see her and she can still cook good food for you, so both of you can see each other...Another thing, in my oppinion it is better to looks and smile to her instead of having a long talk everyday.
2007-02-27 05:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont be selfish.... Have you asked her what she wants? Does she still want the relationship? If you love her love is work.. Why not go down to the resturant and just get a table and watch her work or just let her know your there to support her, after work grab some quick coffee to be with her, drive her home etc...
Try diffrent things dont just throw your hands up and cheat on her. Ask her what she wants first....
2007-02-27 05:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a day just for the two of you. Set aside a Wedneday or a Saturday and devote it to only you and her. Ask her if it is possible for her to alter her schedule so that you can see her. Tell her how not spending time with her is making you lonely. Communicate, communicate and communicate these things to her.
2007-02-27 06:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about this? Explain to her how much you miss her, and that you wish she could have more time for you. Tell her that she is the only one for you, and that you don't want anyone. Hopefully she'll understand.
Or... you can wait for her. Let her do what she's doing and she'll eventually will get sick of it, and realize what she's doing to you. She'll be happy that you stuck around supporting her.
2007-02-27 05:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so typical. Guys would naturally expect the Woman to wait around for them, but then when it's their turn, they suddenly have a loyalty problem. Hypocrits!
2007-02-27 05:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else. She's tired of you anyway. If she really wanted you then she would find time for you. Show interest in another girl,preferably one of her friends and you will find your answer.
2007-02-27 05:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by charlie_the_carpenter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if shes over 18 then no1 can make her do anything talk to her and see what she says. go to the restraunt when she has break and talk to her then.
2007-02-27 05:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by schaffer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date on of the other girls until she can at least get the weekends off, mans gotta do what a mans gotta do
2007-02-27 05:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋