Guys, has a girl ever managed to get your interest back?

Question

After you were upset with her, perhaps bored and said to her that you need time alone?

For example i made mistake by telling the guy that I like him a lot and laying my cards on the table, and after this he seems to have lost interest ( i.e. stopped calling, texting, and finds excuses not to meet, but refuses to acknowledge its over either) what do I do? I am a good looking girl, and he is a very handsome man, don't know if its relevant for the question, but we both can move on easily, i am not sure about him, but i would rather be with him...

Do I : forget about him and go having fun and socialising with friends and other guys ( and make sure he finds out about it), do I dissapear from his view, do I ignore his calls? reject him if he contacts me just to seem more "hard to get", I mean WHAT DO I DO?
Or shall I just forget and move on i.e date other guys? Because I feel I still like him and maybe we are still together, just don't want to "cheat " on him if its still the case

Answer 1

I've read a few of your questions,and honestly-forget about him! His cooling down thing is really just his wimp way of saying he doesn't want a relationship with you. You opened up to him,and he freaked out because he was too immature to handle it.
Forget this guy exists. Delete his number from your phone,and his email addy from your email contacts. Most importantly-delete him from your life and mind! Get out there,enjoy life,have fun-and give yourself a chance to meet guys who are mature and can handle a real relationship.

Answer 2

Yes, my first wife.

Foolish fight, my fault. Once I realized that we got back together and I might add she was the best wife a man could ever hope for.

But I had to figure this out for myself and not be argued into it.

jc

Answer 3

Yup, my ex got me back together with her twice.
Yup, play hard to get. If he's totally not into you, nothing else will work anyway. If he is, nothing will get to him more than seeing how over him you are.