My ex and I did everything together. We drove to the top of the mountains and made love in the rain. She moved from a different state to be with me. She never cooked or clean but she did write me love notes. She took care of my son and I took care of her son. She believed in me and made me the happiest man on earth. but her son got sick and a bruises on his stomach. the doctor said child abuse on me but I did not do it. So I can not see them until after court. She had to moved out of my house to her fathers house. She knows I did not do it. So for the past 5 months I have heard from her. Should I move on or wait??? things will never be the same but I love her like children love pennies. PLEASE HELP PLEASE HELP I am a old fashion guy who wants to be in love. I am 25 male a pilot in CA
2007-02-27 05:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by Manolo L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, if you love her and her son, and they love you, and she believes in you, then you wait for her. My son ig going through the same thing , he's been waiting for a trial for 2 yrs and the courts tell his girlfriend to stay away from him. But she believes in him, and the kids love him. So she stands by him.She's not allowed to have the kids near him, but she defends him to the very people who charged him. If your girlfriend is not standing by you, move on. You deserve someone in your life. So the answer is simple. you answer it by asking, is she by your side?
2007-02-27 05:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you talking about? Don't give up all hope yet. If you both love each other then you need to hang in there. Love isn't easy. It is going to hurt and be hard. That is what is going on. As long as you weren't the one hurting her son then there is not reason why the 2 of you won't be together after all of this is over. Just please don't ever give up hope.
2007-02-27 13:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have been waiting for 5 months. It is worth waiting a little longer. You will have your say in court. So will she. It will be painful, but you're already in pain. If you did not hurt the child, you will get through this. Seek the help of a counselor for your emotional troubles, and a lawyer for your legal troubles.
2007-02-27 13:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love her then you should move on for her sake. You seem like a whining weakling loser! Why did the Dr accuse you of child abuse? They often don't accuse people unless there are suspicious circumstances. She "had" to move out? Looks like she did the right thing. I hope that she has a restraining order on you.
2007-02-27 13:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by charlie_the_carpenter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Where does Jesus come into this?
2. Where did the bruises come from?
3. Wait unless you want to lose her forever.
2007-02-27 13:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ah man. if you didnt do that to the kid, then im really sorry for your situation. is the kid old enough to say - hey, he didnt do it!? if your gf knows that you didnt do it - i dont see what the problem is. im thinking that after a situation such as this - you may have to move on man. if the lady wants to work it out with you, then she'll be in touch. but dont wait around for her to come back. good luck man, hope everything works out for you.
2007-02-27 13:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u really didnt do it then i would say meet up with her give her flowers tell her it was not u look into her eyes and let her know how much u love her and her son and u would do anythin to be with them . good luck man i hope she feels ya pain
2007-02-27 13:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by GAMBLE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try as much as possible to communicate with her if you are not barred from doing so, you need to talk because that is the only way you can regain the confidence.
2007-02-27 13:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by oluwatobi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hang in there. True love is worth the wait.
2007-02-27 13:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by SKYDOGSLIM 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time will tell, don't move on just yet
2007-02-27 13:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Tha Man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋