Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

hi

2007-02-25 14:42:19 · 3 answers · asked by kira_tigers 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im with one and have been for years Im dumb I know. what helped you guys leave if you were ever in this situation?

2007-02-25 14:41:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that w would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote "that we can meet up

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29 minutes ago
"we can meet up somtimes, nut he can's say that he is interested in it being an ongoing thing"...and when he said that i thought well I'm not sure I f I want it to be an ongoing thing either..so I just replied well I see where you are coming from..and that was the end of the conversation..because I really didn't know how to interpret that comment...I figured he meant that he means hes not ready for a relationship...what do you think..

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11 minutes ago
Plus...just to give you a few details,...Okay..he works at the gym,..and he had been calling me about working out with him...and the first time I misssed him, the second time I was late, and when I finally met up with him, he was like well when can you come back in, he said how about tommorrow, and I told him how bout next weeek, and he got kinda agaitated, and he said why all the way next week? And he seemed sort of upset, so then when the day came for me to meet up with him, he says, oh I FORGOT...and I knew he was lying because I had seen him earlier that week and he had reminded me of the appointment...then when I finally met up with him, my phone rang , and it was by him, and he actually picked up the phone looked to see who was calling, and said it's your mom, then handed the phone too me...

8 minutes ago
I know I'm blabbing on...but he also asked me "How come eveytime I come to talk to you you're always leaving? "Am I ruining your gym experience:?

2007-02-25 14:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Lola M 1 in Singles & Dating

Its been about a year already since we lost contact. I am over him. We were only going out for two months back last year. & after we just stopped keeping in contact. & now he just called me and told me he miss me and he wants to see me tomorrow. He said he even came looking for me at my house but no one was here. What the hell? Why all of a sudden he is looking for me now? I think he must of heard that I am not with my man anymore. I dont' know but I told him I don't want nuthing to do with him anymore. But he still wants to be with me. What should I do? I don't want to be with him or his friend. Right now, I am focused on my school and work. I am busy all day 7 dayz a week. And I don't want to mess it up by gettin with him. Cuz he is a distraction & young minded. It took me two months to figure that out. I want to be nice tho. Cuz he knows where I live and go to school. Don't want anything wrong to happen

2007-02-25 14:41:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 14:41:40 · 13 answers · asked by ashraff_111 1 in Singles & Dating

Any song that is about a bad relationship or ending a relationship because you like someone else! This is a girlfriend, boyfriend break-up.

2007-02-25 14:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by James G 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 14:40:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK here i do i am nineteen years old dating a twenty eight year old he is the best i have ever been with he treats me right he helped me find a job that i sooooo desperatly needed. He does thing for me nobody else has done before or even thought of doing for me. He is an Mp in the army and is goin to be deployed to iraq in may. He was married for five years and out the blue his wife told him she wanted a divorce. Which really really threw him into depression. but then he met me he is still going through the divorce it is hard because he lives here in the us and she lives in germany. and he still in love with her i think madly but i am not sure . I just got out of a realtionship where the guy lied to me about his divorce majorly and i am afraid i might go through it again with him. i know he still recieves letters from her and text messages and they still call each other and i don't my heart broken again if anyone can understand what i am trying to say please give me some advice.

2007-02-25 14:40:09 · 6 answers · asked by kryptonitegirl2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always concidered myself as a good and honest person.My boyfriend went on business away for 3 months and 2 or 3 days after his home-coming,by the time we already had once sex, he told me that he was cheated on me with his colleague(I met her before the departure) and subsequently I understood that she expects him to leave me(they were together for about 2 monts and we have been together for 2.5 years). Although I suffered very much and he said that he was sorry for what happened and he decided to stay with me,he didn't want to hurt her feelings either, and several days he was going outside for about 20 min. to talk to her by the phone.Since then passed almost 6 months- we are day and night together and everything is quite nice between us but than these dark moments overtake me and I start to imagine how I cause her pain in one way or another.And when I imagine things like that i hate myself.I just want her to understand what pain she did to me.Am I a bad person?

2007-02-25 14:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Annabelle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-25 14:39:08 · 11 answers · asked by mxwltan 4 in Family

Because he thinks it will mess things up.We get along great and haven't even had a fight all this time.I was thinking about buying a ring for him and asking him to marry me on our 2 year anniversary.What do ya'll think?? we've been living together most of this time.I really love him and I know he loves me.Seriously, would I be messing up a good thing ??

2007-02-25 14:38:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had an affair on my wife with an employee.I am in love with the employee and love my wife as a sister. The sex is better with my mistress. My wife suspects cheating, I want to leave-unhappy, she wants counseling, says I owe it to her. What should I do?

2007-02-25 14:38:36 · 10 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my mom very much and she was a great mom. I have issues with her seeing my 17 month old. I don't care if my dad see's her or holds her but when my mom gets close to her there is somthing in me that makes me jealous. It really hurts my mom but I can't stop myself. I don't like it that my daughter responds to my mom as much as she responds to me. I don't let my mom see her that much cause I don't want my daughter to respond to her. HELP

2007-02-25 14:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by Tammy E 1 in Family

Well I like this boy. At reading class he keeps on staring at me but when I stear at him he pretends like he never saw me. We even play tag together and he keeps on swering at me? So does he like me?

2007-02-25 14:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by ♥™♥™ 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend both claim to be in love and i think that we truly are. it seems like though when we argue we cant ever come to a resolution and its difficult. its hard for us both to get over eachothers past and that causes drama. i love her and dont want to be without her cause itd kill me but at the same time i want to get away from it for awhile. should we take a break and if so how should i approach it.

2007-02-25 14:37:45 · 2 answers · asked by Spook 1 in Singles & Dating

I find my ex boyfriend very attractive and everytime I see him I get very nervous, blush when we talk, and get the butterflies in my stomach, I catch myself staring at my ex all the time and checking him out, I swear, unconciously. Honestly and seriously, I get nervous when he comes close to me and I run away or walk away really quick when I sense he wants to talk to me.. But I don't get nervous with my current boyfriend, and he is great, I mean AMAZING. Everything I wanted with my ex, relationship wise, I live and experience with my current boyfriend. Also, my ex and I had a a very short relationship, we broke up because we didn't think there was any chemistry between us..since I got sooo nervous kissing him, holding his hand, or hugging him back when we were going out... I have never felt like this with anyone.. I am usually agressive and do a lot of stuff with my boyfriends and I NEVER get nervous. What is this feeling?? WHat is going on with me? Help!!!!! Thanks!

2007-02-25 14:36:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sex is an important part of a relationship to him and he knows im a virgin and he doesnt wanna take that from me.. what do you think should i just give it to him or forget about him or what.

2007-02-25 14:35:28 · 11 answers · asked by cynthia v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sis & I are both in our 30's. Since we were teens she would hit on my BF's. She slept w/pretty much all of them after we broke up & then she would rub it in my face. Years ago, in our 20's, we were drinking & I passed out. Her neighbor came in my room & raped me.I begged him to get off me but he wouldn't. I was so ashamed. Years later my friends daughter, who was there that nite(she was 8 then & friends w/my sis' daughter)cried while she told me that she heard my sis tell him to go into my room, when she heard me crying she begged my sis to make him stop, but my sis told her that we were having fun. How sick is that? After I confronted her, she begged my forgiveness. She said that she was jealous but that she changed. In 1995 I married a wonderful man. He died last year:( Shortly after his death, my sis & I had an argument. She told me that she slept w/him. I'm devastated. I'll never forgive her, but why does she hate me & want to destroy me & hurt me??

2007-02-25 14:35:02 · 12 answers · asked by SUN1 3 in Family

my ex boyfriend and i are now close friends after 3yrs and i know for a fact he likes me a lot idk if i still like him one day i love him to death the next he is my brother... anyone got something that will help me choose. advice, quotes, anything please help... im so lost.

2007-02-25 14:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anne 1 in Singles & Dating

dont message me with that bull neither i wanna start my llife over again

2007-02-25 14:34:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 14:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm feeling kind of bored and I could use a good laugh!!!! TELL ALL!!!! SPILL!!!

2007-02-25 14:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by LadyPureDee 2 in Singles & Dating

So my best frind that I've had since third grade just asked me out.He's really sweet.We were together a long time ago but it ended shortly because it felt weird going out with my best friend.I think I might like him but I don't want to hurt his feelings if it doesn't work out.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2007-02-25 14:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance thinks I should get a job and split everything down the middle. But ! I am alot better looking than just a regular guy ! And I am great in bed ! She spends money on lots of things that make her happy, So whats the difference ? I make her alot more happy than clothes, cars, and other things that tickle her fancy !

2007-02-25 14:33:18 · 5 answers · asked by hippinator13 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a guy and i am in the 9th grade. i cant get any girl to go around with me all of them think i am ugly. i am a little overweight weighing 170 lbs. i am trying to lose weight because i joined baseball. i wanted for girls to tell me if you think i am attractive or if you would be in school with me will you go around with me.

2007-02-25 14:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 14:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by teehee311 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a hard time agreeing with my fiance. And when are friends are around he freaks out at them and I'm suppose to back him up apparently well I think he needs to chill out so I tell him to chill out and then he says people don't think we should be together cause we fight alot. Well he is a lazy bum and is addicted to video games and is ADD. Try living with that dysfuction. And when he lifts one finger he wants worships. I shoulda never moved in with him. HAHA. So am I always suppose to back him up or should I just shut up about my opinion??

2007-02-25 14:30:30 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im a femal, who wants to be a GYN.
who supports me?

2007-02-25 14:30:13 · 18 answers · asked by Bongo! 1 in Singles & Dating

a year ago i was bitter about catching my x cheating and a mutual freind of his held me till i slept one night and was so sweet.i saw him a couple months later and he said i was killing him,my ex was upset that we liked eachother so he backed off and kept his distance.here i am a year later and i still like him so i called him and told him he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he had no idea i felt that way he said i was beautiful.but he started dating soemone a month ago and told me he is being honest and fair but then again said how beautiful i am,so i was confused as to what he wants,so i told him to tell me to give up and let it go and he said no,i told him he had to(in respect for the girlfriend and so i could know whether he wants me or not)and he said he cant and again told me how beautiful i am.It has been a week and no sign from him,i am not going to contact him again.But I dont know what to read out of that conversation with him,what was he telling me?

2007-02-25 14:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Did anybody on here end up with a boyfriend/girlfriend from Junior High??
What about high school?
How long did you stay together/did you ever break up?

2007-02-25 14:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating