i am a guy and i am in the 9th grade. i cant get any girl to go around with me all of them think i am ugly. i am a little overweight weighing 170 lbs. i am trying to lose weight because i joined baseball. i wanted for girls to tell me if you think i am attractive or if you would be in school with me will you go around with me.
2007-02-25 14:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see my pic at www.myspace.com/alejandro_navarro
2007-02-25 14:40:59 · update #1
see my pic at
www.myspace.com
/alejandro_navarro
2007-02-25 14:46:42 · update #2
Hi,
Girls will like you. But that's besides the point.
You say your overweight, then do something about it.
Also, you seem to be insecure about yourself. That's ok. It's perfectly normal.
What you need to work on, is your self.
Write a list of things that you are good at. Write a list of things that you are interested in learning. What kind of movies do you like?
If it's about girls, girls like guys who are themselves. Guys know what they want and go for it. No wishy washy stuff.
Being yourself, doesn't mean being overweight, or not cutting your hair, it means being the true person that you are and not be afraid to show it.
Personal hygiene is important.
Basically, what I'm saying is that at young age like yourself, you need to concentrate on things that you want to do, and do it.
So if you see this girl that you like, go up to her and say hi. If she doesn't want to talk to you, It's not your fault, it's just that she might have other things are her mind.
2007-02-25 14:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by langknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright i'm a guy answering this and i don't know why but it sounds like you need some advice. I promise you that it isn't the gorgeous guys that get all the girls. Well they may at first but it doesn't last. They are usually the deuch bag that no one likes. Looks do play some role but if you are charming, sincere, sweet, caring, and funny you will do better then any other guy. Girls love funny guys. They also love guys that will pay attention to details and listen to what they say. Your only a freshman don't stress about it. Just be personable and the girls will come. Trust me i have seen some of the ugliest guys with beautiful girls.
2007-02-25 23:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insecure, and that isn't attractive. Faking confidence doesn't work either. You need to have an identity, know it, and be comfortable and confident with it for your level of security to become less unattractive.
You are in 9th grade, a child. Wait until your problems aren't about being a teenager and hormones before complicating your life. If you are not in it for love, no girl you want is into you either. Love isn't just a feeling, or just a commitment, its being able to follow up on it for the long-term. If you aren't looking to put bread on your legitimate children's table, then don't go looking to start working on getting a baby.
2007-02-25 22:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Don't listen to a word some of those people say. You will find a girl that will absolutley love you. Just wait and give it some time.Get yourself into shape and go play some base ball. I believe once you get your self into shape and get out there, you will find that special somebody. My husband was the same way in High school, I didn't like him at first but i grew on him. Just give it some time and the girls will come around.
2007-02-25 23:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kala C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's hard to tell how overweight you are just by your weight and no information about your height or bone structure. 170 lbs might be quite small if you're very tall or broad shouldered.Or not even, I have a close friend who is about 200lbs but he is made of muscle and he's a surfer, so he's heavy but not fat.
You need to post a pic or something so we can give you a decent answer.
2007-02-25 22:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't care so much about your looks.. looks should not matter so much, and you shouldn't be so insecure. when you find someone you will find someone who likes you for you. and you don't look overweight from your myspace picture at all either. just give it time. i would definitely walk around with you if you had a good personality! and if you keep with baseball i bet you will lose weight, and gain more confidence from it-- because that is all you need right now, because you seem like an amazing guy!! good luck and just be yourself and that right girl will come along when you least expect it!! :)
2007-02-25 22:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about what you look like... i always liked guys that played baseball and i know if you stay in it you will lose weight i had a friend that lost a lot of weight... im sure you will have girls on you in no time just one thing dont lie to other guys bout what you do with your girl .. girls hate that.
2007-02-25 22:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant see your myspace page..the user name is incorrect
2007-02-25 22:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donb't know what u look like or what your personality is so i would have to say i don't know
2007-02-25 22:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Hi!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way
sorry no hope
it is the truth
nothin personall
:((
2007-02-25 22:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by salad sauce 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋