I really like this guy...but I'm not really sure if he feels the same way...?

Question

have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that w would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote "that we can meet up

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29 minutes ago
"we can meet up somtimes, nut he can's say that he is interested in it being an ongoing thing"...and when he said that i thought well I'm not sure I f I want it to be an ongoing thing either..so I just replied well I see where you are coming from..and that was the end of the conversation..because I really didn't know how to interpret that comment...I figured he meant that he means hes not ready for a relationship...what do you think..

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11 minutes ago
Plus...just to give you a few details,...Okay..he works at the gym,..and he had been calling me about working out with him...and the first time I misssed him, the second time I was late, and when I finally met up with him, he was like well when can you come back in, he said how about tommorrow, and I told him how bout next weeek, and he got kinda agaitated, and he said why all the way next week? And he seemed sort of upset, so then when the day came for me to meet up with him, he says, oh I FORGOT...and I knew he was lying because I had seen him earlier that week and he had reminded me of the appointment...then when I finally met up with him, my phone rang , and it was by him, and he actually picked up the phone looked to see who was calling, and said it's your mom, then handed the phone too me...

8 minutes ago
I know I'm blabbing on...but he also asked me "How come eveytime I come to talk to you you're always leaving? "Am I ruining your gym experience:?

Answer 1

sounds like he doesnt know what he wants. my advice is just play it cool. leave him be untill he makes up his mind. let him know that you are not there for him to play around with. be serious. and if he keeps acting like this then leave him. make it clear you do not want to mess around like this anymore. and if he is worth it, he will come to his senses. if not, find a guy who is willing to play it straight with you.

Answer 2

Lost interest at the middle of the first additional details part, but it sounds like there might be some potential, but he's kind of a flaky guy. Good luck.

Answer 3

From experience I can tell you should not keep anything inside. You should talk and put everything in the open, I mean what you feel, what you think, and what he thinks. From what you tell I think he is into you. If I weren't I would have ignored you. Talk to him, and don't put subliminal messages or anything just say things plain and direct.

Answer 4

if he said that he you can call him then do it... but for the excuses that he made possibly means that he is nervous and is like you said insecure so make another move and if he keeps rejecting you the way that he is move on and find some one that really means what he says.. good luck!

Answer 5

im not going to read all this