I have a hard time agreeing with my fiance. And when are friends are around he freaks out at them and I'm suppose to back him up apparently well I think he needs to chill out so I tell him to chill out and then he says people don't think we should be together cause we fight alot. Well he is a lazy bum and is addicted to video games and is ADD. Try living with that dysfuction. And when he lifts one finger he wants worships. I shoulda never moved in with him. HAHA. So am I always suppose to back him up or should I just shut up about my opinion??
2007-02-25 14:30:30 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay...
you wrote "I shoulda never moved in with him"
but you are engaged to get married?
how does THAT go together?
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2016-11-25 23:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. What are you doing, living with a guy, anyway? Saving rent money? You're spending time playing house when you should be having a real life. You should be learning life skills and working with some career goals in mind - else finding a husband who shares the dreams you have and wants to commit to you.
You have 'dating-type' questions about a guy you play house with. Mark today's date on the calendar and check out my prediction: 4 years from now, you'll be out of this releationship because all the time spent in this dead end wore you out. Or you'll be a single mother and he'll be the irresponsible dad.
Check this prediction in 4 years. Could be even sooner.
2007-03-05 00:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak your mind but do it with love. Don't put him down in front of his friends because you happen not to agree with what he is saying.
You sound like you resent some of his habits. You need to address that and the sooner the better. However, if you want to be heard, keep to the point. When you discuss his habits, it should be a private discussion, it's not something you do in the midst of a free for all with his friends.
If you are going to be in a long term relationship with this man then you will have to decide whether you can live with his habits and dysfunction or not.
2007-03-04 13:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tip Top 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speak your mind. Never agree with everything a man says b/c he will always expect that even if he's wrong. I know some guys think that they're right about everything but that's not true. when he's right then stand behind him 100% but if he's wrong tell him.
2007-02-25 14:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by twinsgirl26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg these are the kind of questions that i hate... if he is so
" wonderful" then why are u with him. im sorry but i just dislike women who complain about their partners but will still be with him. im not saying they should be perfect ofcourse u gonna have things u dislike about them and things u wont agree with. but say those horrible things about him and then expect ur relationship to work. wow.... i dont agree with my boyfrriend always and we have a lot of things that makes us different but we have the same goals in life and we fight to get them and no he is not perfect but i love him and i try to focus on his good things that are a lot more than the bad. so for all those women who complain and disrespect their man and then expect him to be good to her i have one thing to say ( GROW UP ).
2007-03-05 02:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make him sound so wonderful. when is the wedding?
i have always thought a relationship as a support system. meaning, no matter what, or how bad i sound, or how many people get mad at me, you will be there standing by my side. you dont have to agree with me at all. just support my decision as i support yours.
2007-02-25 14:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve better, you deserve someone who you want to back up and should.
2007-02-25 14:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by sugarbaby1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to your opinion. if he tells you you must agree with him always that is contrlling
2007-03-05 02:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt always back him up.....if you disagree with him every once in a while it's okay. and you should tell him you disagree and tell him why also.
2007-02-25 14:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋