Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

We broke up like 3 weeks ago after dating 1 year and 1/2. And my birthday just passed last monday, and she called me on it "just to say happy b-day, even though she has no reason to talk to me" which is what she said. today, sunday, she IMed me and asked how my b-day went, and i played it like it was great and im enjoying my life and having a great time without her(i didnt say without her). and she started getting all sarcastic and nasty like "great" and "cool" and short stuff like that. and i asked if she was enjoying her life and she said yes i am, actually after she wrote her friend a myspace comment saying "i hate my life more and more each second." and i was like you miss me dont you and she just said "haha.no." like i kinda dont really care, and im pretty much moved on, but i wanna know if shes jealous and if she really misses me, because it would make me feel better about her knowing she did actually care. please no "get over her"s i want your opinions on how she feels.

2007-02-25 15:06:44 · 8 answers · asked by spiritofjosh 3 in Singles & Dating

So my best friend and i have been friends for about 2-3 years now and we've just discovered that we're falling for each other. Turns out he's had a secret thing for me since i've met him. Turns out we both have so much on our plate right now - a relationship is not on our priority list -we both want to finish and get our degree, there's financial issues - it's just not a good time. He finally talked to me and said that he never ever wants to hurt me...and that right now is not a good time for both of us. He said that if we were to ever go out, it would be a real relationship "worth it, lasting, long and serious" - rather than right now or a "2 second thing". We're still going to remain friends, for sure. I feel like he thinks he's the bad guy because he had to initiate it and the only way he's going to keep me "forever" is that we still remain best friends now until the time is right. It's hard for me to believe because guys in the past gave me alot of BS - Is he being sincere?

2007-02-25 15:06:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 15:06:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We dated for sixteen months, and have been broken up for five months. I ended it for several reasons, which I have told him, and I have no regrets about that. However, he writes me these sad emails, contacts my friends, and talks to others about me. I feel sorry for him, but I'm tired of the drama and have no wish to participate.

He needs to go on with his life, and I've told him that, but he seems to still nurse the hurt. Here's my question: should I just not respond to his emails? Or should I write and tell him that I don't want him contacting me anymore?

2007-02-25 15:05:46 · 16 answers · asked by Katherine W 7 in Singles & Dating

well, there are these guys and i'm a one guy kinda girl, and i can't choose between them...

1)smart, a year younger, prepy, blonde, soccer player, really good friend who told me he likes me, no classes with him, braces, blue eyes, very protective of me
2)smart, same age, skater, brown hair, track/football, rarely talk to him, lots of girls like him, somebody said he likes me, beautiful green/blue eyes
3)short, same age, skater, blonde hair, track, he's in a few of my classes, braces, tightish skater jeans

2007-02-25 15:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Danielle,
First off I really want to say how bad I feel about saying things to Victoria about you.. I want to explain it to you. The reasons I called you s*ut and who*e is because I was upset about the whole you, Victoria, Matt circle. I felt very angry how you would just stomp over Victoria's feelings like that. I got pissed because Victoria is my kind of friend. You said you loved Paul but then went to Matt. At the time it reminded me of the whole you, me and Tim situation. You know firsthand how bad it felt. I wondered how you could do that to Victoria.
The thing with Kasie. I should have stuck up for you when she called you names but I was angry and joined in. I felt like I could honestly tell Victoria and Kasie how I felt as they kinda felt what I did. I'm very sorry. I've been a real @sshat to you and understand if your mad.
Also just to let you know I never said anything to Kasie about Dean. Kasie lied to you. I dont mind if you hug anyone. I never told Kas

2007-02-25 15:05:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just turned 18, and thats great and all but what makes me wish it never happened is my family. Suddenly they are saying things like "You cant do that because your an adult now" or "Your not a kid anymore"....I mean, so yeah I'd rather watch a cartoon than watch the news and Im pretty free spirited and carefree...Doesnt mean that now Im 18 and I'll instantly be this perfect adult who does adult things. Its so ridiculous. Am I being oversensative? Id just like an unbiased opinion...

2007-02-25 15:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by Satellite Eyes 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

just thought id share it with ya, feel like im 14 all over again.. i blush, cold sweat, say dumb things or mostly nothing at all.. seems to be only alcohol that brings me back haha.. anyone feeling me?

2007-02-25 15:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by DannyG 2 in Singles & Dating

She said that she doesn't remember who it was. She made me promise not to tell anyone. I can really tell that it bothers her. I can't decide what would be best for her. Not breaking her trust in me, or telling her parents and getting her some help. Please help.

2007-02-25 15:04:08 · 8 answers · asked by GottaJustBe 2 in Friends

I was married when I was 18. I was only with him a year and got divorced. I am now 26 and haven't seen him in over 4 years. I am currently engaged and soon to be married. I am aware that my ex husband is now back in the city I live in and people I know are running into him everywhere so I know its only a matter of time before I run into him. So when I do if I'm with my fiancee whats the appropirate thing to do? My fiance knows all about him and the fact it may happen. But I don't want to have to make this an uncomfortable situation. Would it be okay to say hello and introduce and then be like Sorry gotta go?

2007-02-25 15:04:06 · 4 answers · asked by coolchic 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather hook up with guys you don't know at parties or bars, or go on a date with a guy who asks you out? Would you even want to meet a guy in a place where there is no music or alcohol?

2007-02-25 15:04:04 · 6 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never had sex before and I just want to know does size matter or does it depend on the woman?

2007-02-25 15:03:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cheated on my bf of 5 months(though now we've been together for 1and 1/2 yrs) when he was on vacation and i was on vacation. everyday i constantly remind myself that i cheated on him and haven't forgiven myself. i regret doing it and am madly in love with my boyfriend. i didn't tell him that i cheated on him and don't know if i should. i don't think i can ever forgive myself until he knows what i have done (and even then i wont be able to forgive myself) but i'm afraid this will ruin our relationship. what should i do? do i keep it to myself and promise never to cheat on him again or do i tell him and risk our relationship?

2007-02-25 15:03:17 · 22 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 15:03:06 · 3 answers · asked by noluvfee 1 in Weddings

I met this guy two months ago who I have developed very strong feelings for. Two problems: he lives 5 hours away and he has a girlfriend. Last night he told me about how he cannot stop thinking about me and how he wishes we could be together. In the fall we will be going to the same college and said we could be together then. For now though he is going to stay with his girlfriend. What should I do?

2007-02-25 15:02:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is 18 years old. and i'm 14. he cusses at my family, hits us, and threats us. the only reason he is still living with us is becuz my mom wants him to graduate. Recently me and him got into a fight and he stabbed me. im okay now but what can i do to get him back???

2007-02-25 15:01:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its been over the past 2 and a half years iam 18 years old used protecton with most of them

2007-02-25 15:01:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's me and my boyfriend 2 year anniversary next weekend and I would like to maybe plan something or make him something. But first of all I want something special that we can do for each other. I was thinking about making a list of all the reasons we love each other..but we already know that...i don't know..i need some ideas...please!

2007-02-25 15:01:31 · 3 answers · asked by amy_90_08 2 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE help me!!! Im desperate!

2007-02-25 15:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by Omgitsme 2 in Singles & Dating

He left when I was 2 years old. I am 29 years old now and just met him a couple of months ago. He is very nice and sucessful. We all live in different states. I think it would hurt my moms feelings if she knew. What do you think. I have hid it from her all this time. I love my mom very much and dont want to upset her. Is it wrong to just never tell her?

2007-02-25 15:00:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a son who is 25 years old. He is living at the Salvation Army and it is eating me alive inside. When he was 15 he shot and killed my boyfriend in the back for physically abusing me. He never served time but he would not go to therapy. He got on some serious drugs but now he only smokes pot. Everyone has tried to help him from giving him a car which he did not take care of and it tore up. He has stolen from all of his family and pawned things just to get money. He even stole medicine from his grandmother who is dying of cancer. No one will let him live with them because they cannot trust him. I now have a very good Christian boyfriend who wants to marry me. He is the love of my life. Even though my son has hurt alot of people I for some reason feel guilty that he is now living at the Salvation Army. I feel like a piece of crap Mom. He rides the bus to McDonalds where he works or walks. If I go get him I lose my fiance? What should I do? I am so torn up over this that I am sick.

2007-02-25 14:59:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-25 14:59:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-25 14:58:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've asked several questions in the past if "good guys" (of which I am one) get girls. I'm a 19 year old college student, never had a gf and get spurned by all the girls. All the answers I've gotten here from girls basically say that one day, those girls will come flocking to me when they realized that the bad boys abused them.

I find this incredibly insulting. It's saying that when those girls get thrown out by their "bad boy" boyfriend, they will come to us because they think we're available and desperate. In other words, we're their second choice since they couldn't stay with the bad boys they wanted. You know what? I WOULD RATHER NEVER GET MARRIED AND DIE A VIRGIN THAN LOWER MYSELF TO THAT LEVEL!!!!! This is the way the dating game in life works? I don't need this. I don't need to settle for second best. I'm going to focus on my friends and my education/career and live a happy life from that (like several of my family members ultimately did).

2007-02-25 14:58:07 · 19 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

is it sexy to put a big tattoo on your lower back or just a small simple somthing?? thinking about getting one... need you opinions what is more attractive???

2007-02-25 14:57:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like some guys to answer this question so that girls & women see how we handle "matters of the heart" when it comes to a situation like this. I think we do it a lot simpler (without any drama) than the females do, but my opinion alone doesn't count. It's my belief that we guys can still be friends regardless of who ends up with the girl. I just want to see if I'm on the same page as most other guys.

2007-02-25 14:57:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my ex went out years ago, i really liked him and he really liked me, the relationship grew apart because my parents were strict & he didn't want to get me in trouble. he told me he loved me & i didn't say it back.unfortunately he started getting real jealous & it died out. we live right next to each other, he told me he's been in love with me ever since he was 6 and we grew up together, now that my relationship ended with this other guy i was dating (4 years), i see his mom almost everywhere, and i see him only in moments where my life gets a bit tragic, emotionally, when something goes wrong he's there to make me smile, otherwise i barely see him. he use to be a ghetto guy, he got his act together & doing things right now. i get along with his mom extremely well i can feel she would love us to be together again & so would my parents. the other night i saw him and he told me he still loves me & i said it back. we haven't seen each other since though. what do you think?

2007-02-25 14:57:02 · 10 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

She is always wearing the shortest damn skirts on campus...and she has legs that go all the way up to a fabulous A S S !!!

2007-02-25 14:56:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is the hardest girl to get at school and I dont like easy girls so i went for her but she is way super hard how do I get her to fall for me??

2007-02-25 14:56:24 · 9 answers · asked by Dash-23 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy.. lets call him .. bob ...anyways "bob" is my best friends Brother.. he is nice plays baseball... all that! i like him ALOT to make a loong story short i've liked him for two years he's gone thorugh TWO girlfriends i'm scared of rejection.. What should i do?

2007-02-25 14:56:09 · 14 answers · asked by Holly Golightly the hippie 3 in Singles & Dating