We broke up like 3 weeks ago after dating 1 year and 1/2. And my birthday just passed last monday, and she called me on it "just to say happy b-day, even though she has no reason to talk to me" which is what she said. today, sunday, she IMed me and asked how my b-day went, and i played it like it was great and im enjoying my life and having a great time without her(i didnt say without her). and she started getting all sarcastic and nasty like "great" and "cool" and short stuff like that. and i asked if she was enjoying her life and she said yes i am, actually after she wrote her friend a myspace comment saying "i hate my life more and more each second." and i was like you miss me dont you and she just said "haha.no." like i kinda dont really care, and im pretty much moved on, but i wanna know if shes jealous and if she really misses me, because it would make me feel better about her knowing she did actually care. please no "get over her"s i want your opinions on how she feels.
2007-02-25 15:06:44 · 8 answers · asked by spiritofjosh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i forgot to mention that i before i asked her if she missed me, i did say i still missed her but its getting easier, and thats the truth. i actually didnt lie to her about anything, i told her it all straight up. i just believe she doesnt miss me since she's been really nasty to be and like "im better then you, you're a scumbag" type of deal. so maybe she did like get over me, but its just weird how she seems so spiteful when she answers me, after saying "i just wanted to ask about you're b-day, and it was asked" although after asking me how my love life was and other stuff. shes confusing, this was really the only way i could respond to you answers, and thank you for answering!
2007-02-25 15:29:47 · update #1
she sounds jealous to me, if you don't want her back be careful not to lead her on by continuing to have conversations with her about if she misses you. what are you gonna do when one of those times she says yes i miss you.
2007-02-25 15:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Gabrielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like she's jealous. it sounds like she misses you and wants your attention. by calling you on your birthday she was trying to get your attention and ensure that you havent forgotten about her. she thought, and was probably right, that after you hung up, her name was now back in your head. also, she may have wanted to "check up" on what youre doing. a year and a half is a long time, and 3 weeks is not a long time to be over someone. she obviously misses you but doesnt want to admit it. she wants you to miss her too, which is why shes keeping contact, though minimal. good luck!
2007-02-25 15:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by mrs. miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She misses you so bad she can't stand it! She's scared to tell you though, because no one likes rejection; especially if you're portraying yourself as getting on with your life. She's hurting, and I bet she's still crying herself to sleep at night and listening to every sad love song there is! I've been there, done that and I know what I'm talking about! Good luck, sweetie!
2007-02-25 15:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is widely used for a woman. yet what i propose is do certainly no longer tell those jealousy emotions to him. Don’t even sound like u r jealous. previous is previous, and that's over. It shouldn’t hardship u. adult men r greater like they wont experience solid in case you don’t have confidence him in each and every thing. each and every silly ingredient they're going to do, and if u coach have confidence, they are going to be with u in basic terms.
2016-11-25 23:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by samas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm. yeah she's jealous, idk if jealous is the best word. She misses you of course, its been 3 weeks after being together for 1 yr and 6 months. plus you guys broke up right before your birthday. but you shouldn't play with her feelings, you should tell her the truth. be true.
2007-02-25 15:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt say she is Jealous she just misses you. It's hard to walk away from a relationship that long. I'm mean you guys were going out fo 18 months..........
2007-02-25 15:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she's jealous - but just be real - don't play games anymore because it will complicate things
2007-02-25 15:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋