I met this guy two months ago who I have developed very strong feelings for. Two problems: he lives 5 hours away and he has a girlfriend. Last night he told me about how he cannot stop thinking about me and how he wishes we could be together. In the fall we will be going to the same college and said we could be together then. For now though he is going to stay with his girlfriend. What should I do?
2007-02-25 15:02:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, those are two MAJOR problems.To answer this question, I'm going to simply say, like Bow Wow ft. T-Pain's song says "Get you outta my system".Get him off your mind and lean towards somebody else. If he's got to put a relationship on hold to be with you.. like you're a freakin' pair of paints at a department store on lay-away...then he's not the one for you. And above all, he's really not the one for you if he's thinking about you AND he's got a girlfriend!You don't know what bad things may come out of that.What if she finds your number in his cellphone or on a piece of paper and she gets mad and wants to curse you out about it?What if she wants to beat you up?What if she would want to gouge your eyes out just because of that?Let him go A.S.A.P.
2007-02-25 15:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a steadfast rule that all girls know but maybe you weren't in class that day? If he does it to her, he'll do it to you! If you get together with him, there will be some other girl on the phone or IMing him that he "can't stop thinking about". Let him go and find a man that knows how wonderful you are and wouldn't dream of making you wait til the fall!!
2007-02-25 15:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just forget about him I mean that would ruin the other girl's heart. But he kinda sounds like a cheater, no offense.
2007-02-25 15:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋