I like this guy.. lets call him .. bob ...anyways "bob" is my best friends Brother.. he is nice plays baseball... all that! i like him ALOT to make a loong story short i've liked him for two years he's gone thorugh TWO girlfriends i'm scared of rejection.. What should i do?
2007-02-25 14:56:09 · 14 answers · asked by Holly Golightly the hippie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flat out rejection sucks, but you will never know if he will reject you if you do not go for it. maybe you are Mrs. Right. maybe not, but if you never try and get how will you know if you know i you could have had him? for me i would rather try and find out he is not interested than never try and just wonder what could have been. And while rejection is a mother#####r, the joys of live far outweigh the rejection. if you want him go and get him. if he rejects you, it will suck but it will get better and make you stronger.
2007-02-25 15:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by big_john_719 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid. It happens to everybody. Pick yourself up off the ground and find some body else. Its not the end of the world. I'm sure there's a guy out there who's probably thinking the same thing about you.
2007-02-25 23:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you like him then he will love you and leave you. When a guy knows a girl likes him he has sex on his mind. Make it natural. Just show up around him or talk to him about something other than You really liking him.. Give him a hint too. A certain smile will always do it for a guy also without giving him a big head....The key is , to keep it as natural and innocent as possible. Unless all you want is sex...
2007-02-25 23:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by fastfreedombailbonds 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him while you have a chance. You never know when one day something happens and you'll have missed an opportunity to be truly happy.
If you're rejected, you'll be troubled for a few days, or maybe even a week. But if you never even tried, you'll spend much longer wondering "what if?"
2007-02-25 23:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by ss_goldeneagle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather be rejected once or be tormented the rest of your life that you didnt let "bob" know how you feel?
Belive me, you will be haunted the rest of your life if you dont do something about it.
2007-02-25 22:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, I think you would rather want to know if you could have had him then have that question in your head for the rest of your life.
2007-02-25 23:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your avatar name i read that and its not really kewl cuz people reading that are like wtf i'm a moron? just a tip
just ask the guy. are you two friends? just talk to him. if your shy and everything as your bets friend to see what he thinks of you. if he says just a friend then ok no direct hurt feelings and if he says that he likes you flirt and see if he takes the move or you ask him. good luck
2007-02-25 23:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by kowalley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try anyways.
2007-02-25 22:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T BE SCARED OF HIM REJECTING YOU CUZ IF HE DOES HE MUST BE STUPID FOR REJECTING YOU GIRL LIKE!!!!!!
JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL,HE MIGHT LET OUT SOME FEELINGS FOR YOU TO!!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 23:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mz. Tasty Pop 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get his sister to ask him out for u
2007-02-25 22:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by regors1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋