I'd like some guys to answer this question so that girls & women see how we handle "matters of the heart" when it comes to a situation like this. I think we do it a lot simpler (without any drama) than the females do, but my opinion alone doesn't count. It's my belief that we guys can still be friends regardless of who ends up with the girl. I just want to see if I'm on the same page as most other guys.
2007-02-25 14:57:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can see that the girls are already making this a drama case. I'm not talking about deciding "who the girls gets", I'm talk about 2 male friends (just like 2 girls) who are interested in the same person, how do the friends decide what they should do. Why do women choose to complicate EVERYTHING? Please cut the drama, ladies.
2007-02-25 15:27:39 · update #1
Well years ago I ran into the same situation. My guy friend actually was the one that introduced me to her. It was easy to tell that she liked me over him and he could see that also. It caused a little friction with me and him but are still friends to the day. I ended up dating her and well anyways...It never worked out with us but I still consider her a good friend and she has the same feelings towards me. But, overall to answer your question you can clearly tell most of the time which guy the girl likes the most and obviously you don't want to fight with your guy friend about it, there are plenty other girls out there.
2007-02-25 15:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who ever the girl wants to be w/ is the one that gets her and the two remain friends after no questions no drama.
2007-02-25 15:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by bubbba2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Its who the girl likes.
2007-02-25 15:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who ever answered above me is wrong we just Rock, Paper, Scissors, for her.
2007-02-25 15:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whoever the girl chooses.
2007-02-25 15:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
excuse me? who "gets" the girl? like she is something you buy at the ******* local grocery store? NO. Ask her who SHE likes. cuz if y'all act like that, she'll walk away from both of you and then nobody "gets" the girl.
2007-02-25 15:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by crzybeachchic 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I see it as her decision as to who will date her.
I noticed that you never considered her desires.:(
2007-02-25 15:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would flip a coin her it, i mean her. if i lose then i beat him up for it, i mean her
2007-02-25 15:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who does the gurl like duh!
2007-02-25 15:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by mayviel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋