Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

i am a guy and i am in the 9th grade. since i was born i have never gotten a girlfriend and the few i have asked out since middle school have said no. sometimes some of my friends tell some girls that if they like to go around with me in a joke and they just tell my friend ewwww. i met a girl that i asked in at the beginning of 9th grade and invented whatever excuse to say no to me but i really think she though i was ugly. i am a little overweight weighing 170 lbs. and thats it why dont girls like me?

2007-02-25 14:19:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On the topic of phone conversations ; well, the thing is - I don't think my parents very much like me talking on the phone with guys. It's nothing against you - it's just guys in general; you know how evil they are *sarcastic grin* - how about just writing wonderfully long and creative, inventive, delicious e-mails. I love reading e-mails :)

2007-02-25 14:19:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been apart for 3mths

2007-02-25 14:19:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a man cheats on a woman, he is a perverted drooling pig, but if a woman cheats on a man, poor little her was driven into the arms of another man because her man was a lousy lover.

if a man can't sexually satisfy his woman, he is an inept lover but if a woman can't satisfy her man, he needs a doctor.

if a 35 yr old male teacher impregnated a 13 yr old girl TWICE, he'd be considered a rapist but reverse the sexes and it becomes a "love conquers all" romance novel.

in tv land, if a woman hits a man it's considered a comedy but if a man hits a woman it's a drama.

what gives?

2007-02-25 14:18:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that its wrong.. that m not totally wrong according to me.. by that i managed to have few friends... but one day .. i was caught.. and after that .. all my friends started hating me... my question is .. was i wrong?? to lie them to make a friend?

2007-02-25 14:18:16 · 7 answers · asked by navonly 1 in Friends

I'm 18 years old. My best friend for the past 5 years has always had parties house parties, birthday parties, everything and never ONCE bothered to invite me! She always tells me to my face she is having them but never once has even bothered to invite me. This year i finally confronted her about it for the 2nd year IN A ROW and here is what she told me.

"hey Kristin i told u i was having a party.... and let me explain for like the 2nd year in a row... i didn't know if it would mix well... u don't know ANY of my xc friends and that would just be akward and for my other friends you didn't know most of them so i thought it would be weird i was just going to have a small get together with you and kelly or something but then i wasn't sure 'cuase its like 3 parties in a row"

so kelly ended up going to this party!!!

i don't understand what she meant by this and everytime i ask her she just says "it's complicated"

should i still consider her a friend even? I'm almost crying it hurts

2007-02-25 14:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by pantherkick07 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it really?? why???
I don't think it should be---I think the moment you fell affection towards another you should say so.

2007-02-25 14:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i have people calling me names that hurt my feelings at school,what should i do(HELP)

2007-02-25 14:17:05 · 7 answers · asked by kiran 2 in Friends

ok...so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. my ex and i were together for 6 years prior. shortly after we broke up, we completely went our separate ways and its been a year since we last spoke. now he is going to be in town and he wants to meet up for dinner. would it be wrong to go? i want to go because there is this unexplainable curiousity in my head, i dont know what it is. but i know it is not going to jeopardize my newly found love. i think the reason why it would be important for me to go to this dinner is because our break up was messy and there was no formal break up. honestly, i would not go if it will lead to jeopardizing my relationship now. but i think it will be good for the ex and i so we can completely open ourselves to others and not repeat our mistakes with our new relationships. would it be wrong to go????

2007-02-25 14:16:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think at 52 a person shuld stop bein horny if they usually r.

2007-02-25 14:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by Maya 2 in Singles & Dating

right now i'm well not like i know he's crazy about me he tells me all the time but i'm starting not to feel it. It's a long distance relationship so i havent seen him in a while maybe when i see him next i'll feel different but like i dont know what im feeling he's Graduated and i'm still in school so we're kind of in two different worlds you know?

2007-02-25 14:15:44 · 3 answers · asked by Love everyone 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 14:15:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi i went to school with this girl..i knew her but she kinda knew me, well 6 months later i write her on myspace and i got her #...i know i will go to da movies wit her after we talk, but when i go to da movies.
somthing about me when i go to da movies i always get a grl not to like me i want to kiss her but idk i just choke, do u think i should kiss her?or what can sum 1 help
thanks

2007-02-25 14:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by D D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 14:14:51 · 15 answers · asked by Chocolate Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

make love or have less romantic sex... To clarify we are defining "make love" as sweet, cuddly, gentle sex and "less romantic sex" as more just about getting it on and going wild. What percentage of each? My girlfirend and I are posting but please don't post what you think my girlfriend would like to hear. We want honest opinions. My girlfriend and I actually assigned almost similar percentages. Thanks!

2007-02-25 14:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by George J 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some advice what do you think?
this is a convo. that i had on aim with my friend who i now like once i founded out he likes me. So please let me know what do you guys think?

m hey
J:hey
m:whats^=)
J: nmu
J: tired
J: lol
m lol same here jimmy i really like you and i hope we can get to know each other more and see what happens..thats if you want to..
J: yeah. let see what happens
J:beacuse right now. all im worry aovut is school
m:same hereJimmy is legend: and ineed to past those midterms J:and righ now for you
J: you have you sweet baby to look aftyher
J: and i dotn want o get i the way\
J:anbd like i told stef
J: Im always here for you 100%
J: and like i said if you need soemthing
J: then tell em and ill do it for you
m:thanks your a good friend..
J: And like your a wonderful girl
J: and i like who you are.
J: and i ahd the best time yesterday
m me too..you made me happy
J: Good
J: and like i dont want to get into a fight wiht N.
J: beacuse N is my goodfriend to.

Additional Details

8 minutes ago
J: and i dont want any drama
m: i understand..Jimmy is legend: between any of us
J: and next tiem we do this WNJ stuff
J: wer enot bring those two ppl
m: haha yeahh i agree
J: what do you have palned for today
m: nothing really..just being bored until the baby get home at 8 tonight
m: you?Jimmy is legend: Show to night
m: thats cool i hope ya have fun
J: thanls
J: =]
m: your welcome
m: =)
m: i can go for a chicken casadia from taco bell
J: i kow right dama
J: mmm
m: lol
J: btw your very confe
J: ahah i almsot feel asleep on you
m: lol
m: same here when we were in the jeep
m: (:
J: =]

2007-02-25 14:14:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 21 yrs-old african and i speak french! I was just curious to see whether language is a big thing for girl or not! I dated some girls and it really did not seem to matter! But for some reason, i dont feel really safe with my accent or should i say, with the way i talk. I used to be cool back in my country, the funny guy in the class, i had a lot of friend. But here, i am kinda ashamed of my accent. is it because it is my first time to learn a foreign language? One day, i feel like i speak really good, and the next day, i make a lot of mistake and forget words a lot! mann, it's frustrating..... think my accent is a turn-off for girl, humm, i dont know! what do you think?

2007-02-25 14:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by BlackFrenchBoy 1 in Singles & Dating

After the fact of this having the probability of being morrally wrong... i think he is also with me. In fact we've kissed... im soo confused. i've tried falling out of love with him but it's been 5 yrs. !!! & my love for him has only grown stronger. He has been trying to get me to fall out of love with him too, but when he sees me with anyone else he gets jealous and lonely. He denies any attraction to me, yet the way he acts is totally different from what he says. He's on my mind day and night, my heart hurts... What should i do? i want to stay near him forever. Even if we can never marry even if we can never be together. i want to always be near him, to hold him, to hug him. to have his head lay on my lap. to be able to help him when he's in trouble. to be able to bug him then hug and kiss him. I love him. & i don't want anyone else. What should I do?!!!! God help me... im so confused i can't live without him.

2007-02-25 14:13:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 18, and i am getting married in june, and i am trying to pick out some lingerie for my honeymoon and wedding night. I am about a size 6, i wear a 34c, but i dont like my thighs, they are fat.
1. what should i get, that is sexy and flattering? I like the "dream corset" from fredericks of hollywood, but i do not know how it will look on me...i like lingerie that is sexy, even almost trashy, but

2.i am really nervous about what to wear and i need some help and ideas...

3. also if i get the corset, should i put it on b4 leaving the reception? (it says u need help putting it on) or whatever i get, should i put it own b4 leaving (i am not wearing my wedding dress away).

4. should i wear white (i am not a virgin, i slept with my fiance 2x, but we havent done it for like almost a year, we are waiting til the wedding night)since its our wedding or should i wear a color?

Thanks for all the help!!!!!!

2007-02-25 14:13:28 · 13 answers · asked by marriedin2007 2 in Weddings

I know I like her more than the other guy. He won't even talk to her person to person. Some times I catch her looking at me, but I don't know if it means anything. I would at least like her to be my friend. I think about what I want to say to her, but when I see her I can't say a thing, What should I do???

2007-02-25 14:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by liljon365 1 in Singles & Dating

Today when I went to work I decided I was going to try the "ignoring" game on one of the guys since I am interested in dating him. Well anyways, it made me mad to see him flirt with this other girl (tickling.) I looked sad and didn't even bother to look in his direction. Unexpectedly, he grabs the end of my leg (I was sitting on a chair while the others were on the ground.) and hauls it, then smiles a weird smirk, I just raised my brow at him and continued looking the other way. Eventually it is near the end of the work time, and me and four other girls head to the room to get ready to finish up. The guy I want appears and says something about smiling while looking at me (he knew I was mad at him by now), then he sits down on a chair around the other girls, talking to them (I am sitting away from them) but I looked over at him and he was looking at me nearly the whole time it seemed. Then as work ends, he says "bye girls", and before leaving looks at me, waves and says bye again.

2007-02-25 14:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by Dreizehn 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with this girl, she has had a hard life, and is comfortable with being a little ghetto. She comes off like nothing can phase her. She is tough but is also a wonderful woman and mother to her kids. She flirts alot with me, but how do i know she likes me. Because sometimes she acts like she dont care, in the past we were really close friends until something happened that put a wrench in all that. She has told me before she loved me, but not sure if that was as a friend or what. I love her alot, and would love to be her man, and take care of her like i know she deserves to be. She deserves the best, what do i do?

2007-02-25 14:11:58 · 2 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

Alriight so i like my ex boyfriend. =( we broke up in like December. He was the best thing to me. He was so great to me. I screwed it up. And i really want all of it back. I want what we had back. What do i do? Can someone please help...=)

2007-02-25 14:11:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find it such a turn-off when a woman's only main goals in life are marriage, procreation and finding Jesus. I view it in the same league as red neck living. Susan B. Anthony is turning in her grave.

God why can't there be more women in the world like Candace from Walls of Jericho or the girls from Kittie or that chick from Arch Enemy (just more younger for her). God this world sucks for my tastes some times.

I'm I the only guy who isn't interested in traditional women?

2007-02-25 14:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend, (ironic how many questions/statements start out that way) he asked me to marry him, we have lived together for 2 years. We have been through so much, getting ready to buy a house. We argue sometimes. His friends are over 3-4 times a week until 4/6 am continuously, I work a lot and he is a full time student. I tried to ask him to hang out with his friends only when I am work. Here lately all he does is play video games all night and hang out with his friends. He is 22 if I have not mentioned that. He complains about everything nothing helps. I have an extremly stressful job and don't know if I can handle this anymore. I just work come home and go to bed. Any serious advice please help --- PS He wrecked my car on Valentine's day while picking me up for lunch and I am paying for it because insurance won't cover it has cost me $1200 so far --- Frustrated with the getting house, wreck and working 72 hrs a week.

2007-02-25 14:10:36 · 21 answers · asked by Brookey 3 in Singles & Dating

We know we like eachother. Two of his friends have told me he's going to ask me out. It's been a few weeks since we told eachother we like eachother. What's going on and why hasn't he asked me out yet???

2007-02-25 14:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I find it such a turn-off when a woman's only main goals in life are marriage, procreation and finding Jesus. I view it in the same league as red neck living. Susan B. Anthony is turning in her grave.

God why can't there be more women in the world like Candace from Walls of Jericho or the girls from Kittie or that chick from Arch Enemy (just more younger for her). God this world sucks for my tastes some times.

I'm I the only guy who isn't interested in traditional women?

2007-02-25 14:10:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i live in covina ,ca

2007-02-25 14:09:48 · 1 answers · asked by fuentes_97_99 1 in Family

i love my girlfriend very much and we are expecting our first child together. but i have concerns. she is very good in bed. a little too good. to the point of where i wonder about her past. relationships. -how many partners etc... all she says is i was young!!!. should i be concerned?

2007-02-25 14:09:19 · 19 answers · asked by biggshizawn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend keeps telling me that there is a girl that he once went out with and when his friends say like she has a bigger *** than yours and he wants to be with her and not me he kinda laughs with them....... I am so frustrated with him he acts like i shouldnt care but of course i do!!!!! Why is he doing this? What should I do? I am so confused. I love him so much why is he pushing me away? I hate this. Please please give me some advise you could be saving me please HELP!!!!!

2007-02-25 14:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by deathroe 2 in Singles & Dating