i love my girlfriend very much and we are expecting our first child together. but i have concerns. she is very good in bed. a little too good. to the point of where i wonder about her past. relationships. -how many partners etc... all she says is i was young!!!. should i be concerned?
2007-02-25 14:09:19 · 19 answers · asked by biggshizawn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Man let it go, My wife is the same way. Don't ask don't tell thing she has going on. But that is OK you love her right? If you do let it go. Do not hold her to the passed! It will do nothing but make her mad. Take care and let it go. Don't worry as long as you love her and she goes home with you at the end at the day. Thorney
2007-02-25 14:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by firecoolerman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, her past is her past....and what exactly is your concern anyway? Are you jealous, if so, your jealousy will push her away. She's with you now, she chose you. How can you say she's a 'little too good in bed?' are you so experienced that you would know the difference if a woman was just a great match for you and made you feel like a STUD in bed vs. skilled in bed because she had a lot of experience when she was young? GET A GRIP....girls do a lot of things when they are young for vairous reasons, to feel loved, peer pressure etc....don't be so damn judgemental. You love her, then act like it.
2007-02-25 22:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm hello, she is with you isnt she? I see no reason for you to be concerned. Her past is her past, let it be.. Obviously she loves you and enjoys having sex with you. If not she wouldnt be there. I would hope that you rather her be too good, thennot good at all. We were all young once and have done things. No big deal, it has made us the person we are today. Oh yeah and congrats on the baby! Good Luck..hopefully you can get past whatever hang up it is..... she is having your child....So smile and know its all o.k.
2007-02-25 22:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
concerned? about what? that past is the past, don't go and dig up old memories for her, she might resent you for it, if the two of you already talked about it, leave it be. If she wants to elaborate further, she will. Just feel good that the two of you are together now and live happily ever after with your new baby!
2007-02-25 22:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about your past should she be worry about you and where you have been. And don't you dare say ( but that's different I'm a guy) Try if you can put yourself in her shoes or any female for that matter and had to listen to that bull s h i t your whole life.Women like sex to we get horny just like you men do but when we act on it we get labeled what do you guys get.The whole thing isn't fair and you and all men need to keep it in your pants that way when you or any other man meets someone you won't have to worry about who or where she has been.
2007-02-26 00:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem, man? Simply because your girlfriend knows how to push your buttons, you are questioning her past, because what, you thought these guys taught her well or something? That is insane to say the least. You should be proud and happy your girlfriend pleases you and enjoys it, it isn't right to wonder, you are clearly showing signs of low self esteem, jealousy. Accept her as she is, plain and simple, or risk losing her.
2007-02-25 22:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were good in bed does that mean she should be concern
if you are concern ask her about her past
2007-02-25 22:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a little late for you to be worrying about her past sexual history; you have bigger things on your plate now, like a baby on the way......how you are going to raise and support a child in a loving environment should be what you are concerned with now.
2007-02-25 22:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuped idiot, It is none of your affair what she has done before she met you. Grow up and stop acting like a pios idiotr child.
How about what you have done before you met her.
So many of you out there don't know anything about how to get along with the other.
2007-02-25 22:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are concerned about her being good in bed... you didn't think about this before you two conceived a child... I really don't see what your problem is... Don't Worry...Be Happy!!!!
2007-02-25 22:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋