i am 18, and i am getting married in june, and i am trying to pick out some lingerie for my honeymoon and wedding night. I am about a size 6, i wear a 34c, but i dont like my thighs, they are fat.
1. what should i get, that is sexy and flattering? I like the "dream corset" from fredericks of hollywood, but i do not know how it will look on me...i like lingerie that is sexy, even almost trashy, but
2.i am really nervous about what to wear and i need some help and ideas...
3. also if i get the corset, should i put it on b4 leaving the reception? (it says u need help putting it on) or whatever i get, should i put it own b4 leaving (i am not wearing my wedding dress away).
4. should i wear white (i am not a virgin, i slept with my fiance 2x, but we havent done it for like almost a year, we are waiting til the wedding night)since its our wedding or should i wear a color?
Thanks for all the help!!!!!!
2007-02-25 14:13:28 · 13 answers · asked by marriedin2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Since you do not like your thighs, you could wear some thigh high stockings in white, and even wear these under your dress during the ceremony. When you are ready for the night. leave the stockings on, undress completely and wrap yourself in a silk kimono, white or choose another color from your wedding. Light some candles, turn off the lights and celebrate your wedding
2007-02-25 14:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your wedding night, you can wear white. Or a cream color. Which ever looks better for your complexion. For the wedding night, you may wear either the corset you are planning on, or wear a more traditional Penoire. That is usually a long nightgown, with matching robe. If you do go with the corset, is your man going to go with you to the room where you change clothes for the honeymoon? Or will he change separately from you? If separately from you, then please do put the corset on when you change your clothes. That way, you will be ready. Definitely wait till it's time to leave after the reception, or you won't be able to breathe very well lol! For any night after the wedding night, you can wear any lingerie you choose to. Also, before you buy the corset, please try it on. Or one like it, to see how you would look. If you do wear the corset, please wear a light weight robe over it, till you surprise your hasband, unless you just choose to undress each other, and go from there. Congrats! Take care.
2007-02-25 14:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend in high school that always looked at it this way:
Sweet and innocent the first night.
Wild the next.
That way you don't scare him away. LOL
If I were you, I would visit a local lingerie store and actually try some of the stuff on to see what is flattering on you (remember you will have keep your panties on while trying stuff on, so where small, unobtrusive biege tone panties that aren't as noticeable).
When to put it on. Well, if you need help, you'll have to put it on under your going away clothes if you want to surprise him. Otherwise, I'd say just put it on in the bathroom in your honeymoon suite and let him wait on the bed. Anticipation is half the fun.
And wear what ever color you like! It's not your wedding dress, it's your lingerie. I personally wore white the first night and then got other colors for other nights. I will say that my husband says most guys Love the wedding looking lingerie.
Hope that helps!
And congratulations!
2007-02-25 14:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Having been married twice, I wouldn't worry much about the lingerie. If you are having a full blown wedding with a full day of activities, you'll both be so tired that you just won't care what underwear you're wearing.
Of course you can wear white. How would you explain not wearing white? You're only 18, so I assume this is your first marriage. You don't have to advertise your non-virginity by wearing a non-traditional color. Besides, do you think that anyone really cares if you are a virgin or not?
Enjoy the day. Keep the lingerie simple as you won't have a pit crew ready to help. Don't worry about your thighs. Enjoy the day with family and friends, take lots of pictures, thank everyone, and don't worry about every little thing. Take it all in so you have the memories to reflect upon when the tough days that we all experience come around.
Good luck!
2007-02-25 14:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bill F 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
A corset tip...order one with snaps or hooks on the front. I got one from Fredericks & you can't tell it has hooks down the front, but I'm able to get in it without any help. And you can wear any color you like.
2007-02-25 16:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by layla983 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something that is easy to get out of you dont want your groom to struggle getting you out of what you are wearing. If you get a corset why not wear it under your dress. White is appropriate these days no matter what. if you want white wear white if you want purple wear purple if you want to go barefoot go barefoot do what makes you happy it is one of the biggest days of your life and one of the most special
2007-02-28 13:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by galixcysmagic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking too hard about this. You really should not worry so much. If you want to wear white, wear it! Try some stuff on, but trust, whatever you pick out, your man will love it. And it ain't gonna stay on very long anyway, especially if he's been waiting this long to have sex with you. You will be sexy no matter what and he is gonna want you no matter what.
2007-02-25 14:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by sabotagecowboy 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, well the call is yours, but maybe sense you are a little nervous a sexy gown would be your best bet for the first nite..... Take your best friend with you and go lookin and see what is out there.... God bless and congrats......
2007-02-25 14:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
for e marriage night... erm.. make urself look innocent But slutty?... white cute baby Dolls but lace within ... remember e Bra.. Always Let e Hook be in e front.. easy access and sexy... go gal.. happy marriage:) NO whips.. for wedding nights scares him off.. :)
2007-02-25 14:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't wear a corset. Wear black stockings with a black garter, no panties.
2007-02-25 14:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by guyizzgay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋