Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

alot of guys at school tell me the worst thing you can do is drop into her friend zone.. so they tell me to do things that are similar to playing games and not being myself.. it seemed to be great advice at first but then i realized that id rather a potential relationship stemmed from a succesful friendship than a shallow empty relationship to start with

so is falling in the friend zone that bad? your thoughts

2007-02-25 17:22:08 · 6 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

...Does that necessarily mean that they are finished with you?
Lately my lady gets upset with me so quickly over little things.
Half of the time she gets upset, I don't even know what I've done.
She just starts clamming up, only to start bitching and even tantrum throwing.
It's gotten to the point that I'm afraid to be myself around her.
I love her dearly, but her new attitude has me wishing she would disappear.
I've tried to talk to her about it and reason with her; but it seems almost like she WANTS to be upset and doesn't want to calm down.
I hate drama queens.
She didn't used to be one.
Does this sound familiar to anyone?
Any ideas as to what's happening?
Should I just give up?-Or just give her space?

2007-02-25 17:21:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In these and times you only find people that are imitators who takes someone persona and use it to build themselves to hurt someone's reputation.

2007-02-25 17:19:31 · 9 answers · asked by N.T. 3 in Friends

what can I do to help? Seriously, he's not in the spot for anything even vaguely romantic- but he needs something to cheer him up.

2007-02-25 17:19:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my best friend is a female and shes 27 and im 18...and i would like a a more sexual """FRIENDSHIP""" with her, neither of us want a relationship, were fine being with being friends. she thinks if we have sex that i will fall in love with her, which i kno that cant happen b/c if i fell in love with her i would want to take care of her and i CANT do that b/c she has 2 kids..plz help

2007-02-25 17:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by thoriega 1 in Singles & Dating

After a beautiful night together, we decided to kick it at my place,
Sit back and relax, tonight is all about taking our time and pace,
We start talking, but neither of us is paying attention to what is said,
Even though we're sitting on the couch, you keep staring at my bed,
I look deep in your eyes, trying to figure out what move to make now,
I tell you I know what your thinking, and ask me "oh yeah, how?"
I tell that I saw you staring at my room, and you begin to blush,
Trying to explain yourself, I place my finger on your lips, "hush"
Talking is useless, there's nothing left to say, words have no reason,
The only words I want to hear, is "damn baby why you teasing",
I kiss you slow, my lips sensing every taste they receive from you,
Sucking and pulling on my lips, is something I know you love to do,
The passion I send in each and every move of my lips drives you insane,
Tasting your sweet and soft lips, just like a marshmallow candy cane,
Now begins the touching, hands receiving every inch of your curves,
And I promise that tonight, you'll receive every pleasure you deserve,
I begin to touch your soft breast, but never leave sight of your eyes,
My hands start moving faster now, they almost halfway to your thighs,
But they stop at your waist, only to circle back up to your lips,
You see me, and place my hands right back on upon your hips,
I smile, now looking at the gorgeous body that's lying at my side,
No need to look into your eyes, I know what your feeling inside,
Clothes begin to drop, and we see each other naked for the first time,
I just can't believe that this gorgeous body, tonight will be all mine,
This is where everything will start, but no more details out of me,
Cause if we can't use our imaginations than where would we be,

2007-02-25 17:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Laz 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't you hate it when a relationship is over. And you don't want it to be. But, you know it has run it's course. My 14 year relationship just ended. I don't want it to be over. But deep down I know it has to, it is time to move on. But I am really sad about it. But I gave it my all, so I have no regrets. What do you think?

2007-02-25 17:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Singles & Dating

My mom is a single mom with another little one on the way. I think Indie is just about the epitome of a kewl name. No one else has it and it stands for the best complement anyone could give you, and the definition of my family (mainly my mom) "independent". My mom isnt it crazy about it she thinks people will think of the nascar indy thing. What do you guys think?

2007-02-25 17:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by chicachica 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I are in a difficult relationship right now. We can't see each other that much because, my car broke down and his was stolen. When we do see each other things are fine, but when we are apart he acts strange sometimes. He goes a few days without calling me and then says that he was too busy to talk to me. He says that he is going home and then later I find out that him and some friends went to a bar, and one time he ran in to his ex-girlfriend. I am just worried because he talks about wanting to spend the rest of his life with me, but yet sometimes he just seems to not want to talk to me. He tells me that he loves me and that he misses me. I don't doubt that he cares because he buys me gifts and makes it a point to see me at least once a week. I just think that he is insecure or maybe he doesn't really love me.

2007-02-25 17:17:21 · 4 answers · asked by djsbabygirl2005 2 in Singles & Dating

i cry myself to sleep and cry for no reason. i lost my grandpa almost three years ago and i still can't listen to the songs that they played at his funeral. could that have some thing to do with it?

2007-02-25 17:15:45 · 16 answers · asked by ZariaD 1 in Family

okay i've been talking to this guy for about 2 months, i never call him even though he says it's cool too. i've been talking to him less & less, i have a 2 yr old/ he has no children.we talk a couple of times throughout the week & he always ask's to see me & i have to turn him down all the time. he has explained to me that he hasn't ever & never gave thought to get involved with a woman with a child. yet him meeting me, being that i do have a child he says that he is willing to give it a shot. so ultimately me turning him down because of the inevitable will get old after a while right. i know we have only been seeing eachother for two months casually. however the decision is really up to him right. he's either gunna get tired of me not being able to see him & break it off...because in order to really see me he's gunna have to come around my son eventually. i don't want to inflict any pressure, so i shouldn't bring anything up of where this is going until he does right? i don't know...

2007-02-25 17:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i really like this guy well actually two guys but one is more imnportant than the other but thats not the situation lol...
ok this week was mid-winter break and i missed him alot and tomorrow is school and i cant sleep and i gota wake up in 4 houras and 48 mins
i cant get him outta my mind
What do i do??? plz help me

2007-02-25 17:14:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-25 17:14:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mom recently got huge implants
i cn't help being turned on,
and trying 2 sneek peeks..

2007-02-25 17:13:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love is a game that has big rewards but even bigger stakes

2007-02-25 17:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by dylan b 1 in Singles & Dating

this is really strange.... but i think i may like my drama teachers son. i know... it sounds grody, but he is REALLY nice, and cute, and funny, and i've known him for a while.

and also, he's like 3 years older than me.
i know that's not very much... but at the age that i am now [13] it seems like more, concidering he is [16 and] in highschool, while i'm still in middle school.
do you know what i should do?

2007-02-25 17:12:02 · 6 answers · asked by Fake Your Death 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this really cute boy in my high school but the only problem is i dont know him at all! i dont know his name,i have never talked to him before and i dont even have any classes with him...but we seem to run into each other EVERYWHERE we go in the hallways and we both just stop and look into each others eyes without saying a word and keep on moving...i would love to get to know him but the question is how do i approch him...what do i say...please help!

2007-02-25 17:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 17:11:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My girlfriend is going to disney world with me, my mom, my sister, and my niece. My mom talked to her girlfriends mom and her mom said we shouldnt sleep together at the hotel. Well, I take offense to this. I asked my mom if we could if we didnt tell her mom and she said that she couldnt because she already gave her word she wouldnt let it happen. What can i do to make her let us? Im 16 and my girlfriend is 15. Its not like we will do anything in the same room as my mom. It will furiate me knowing that she is in the same room as me except i cant be beside her. I just love her so much and i dont wanna do anything with her if we were in the same bed, i just love being beside her and cuddling with her. I slept in the same bed with her 3 times before at her dads house,...he doesnt like it but he doesnt really care. he lets us. There is nothing more that makes me happier than waking up to see her beside me....what should i do?

2007-02-25 17:09:59 · 11 answers · asked by Ryu Kuramoto 1 in Singles & Dating

Please not criticism, just honesty. Had an affair w- boss, he ended last week after 5 months. Says he is in love with me but has to make sure his marriage is really over for himself not because of me. He wants to leave but she asked to go to counseling and he says he feels he owes it to her, just to do the right thing.He says if its meant to be it will be.No kids involved I am going crazy....

2007-02-25 17:09:42 · 18 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 years now and that is a long time.... and tonight she brought up the question why don't we ever have ne thing to talk about ne more?? Then she says that we never have the same alone time as we did before. I told her idk i mean I love her and she loves me back, but idk what to do and how to fix it cause i really don't want to lose her?? Please help : )

2007-02-25 17:07:52 · 4 answers · asked by shypuppy2008 1 in Singles & Dating

ok you see i have a boyfriend and yesterday he just admitted to me that he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend who is now one of my close friends but he said he doesnt like her and he still luvs me to death but i dont know if i should be mad break up with him stay with him or what so please help me im so confused.

2007-02-25 17:07:41 · 1 answers · asked by sexc playboi bunny 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked before what i should do about my boyfriend. who does not like traveling but i do and i am sick of not traveling because i have to travel to see my family and we broke up before because he got sick of me traveling so about a couple of months later i returned and stoped traveling so we could give it another go anyway so i asked him a few minutes ago if he would travel with me but he said no because he is close to his family and doesn't want to travel. so now i am sitting here wondering what to do

2007-02-25 17:07:41 · 2 answers · asked by katey g 1 in Singles & Dating

after a certain talk, why ppl get irritate from their best friend?

2007-02-25 17:07:38 · 3 answers · asked by ajay k 1 in Friends

I really like one of my guy friends he's 20 years old. We talked about dating but he said that he didn't want to ruin the relationship. Well, he text me everyday to ask how my day is going, how my job going, and looks at me all the time when I see him. We're suppose to be really good friends, but when i ask him to find me a guy to date he tells me hes going to do it but then he don't do it. I have talked to one of his friends, and he tried to get us to date but we didn't want to date, but when it comes to other guys he don't want me to talk to any of homeys. When I even talk about another guy or ask for advice on what should i do, he just pretty much ignore what I say. He won't tell me how he really feels which makes me think there's no feelings there, but when I know he gets jealous over certain things it makes me think he has feelings. Why is he giving mixed signals?

2007-02-25 17:07:10 · 2 answers · asked by a_j_8946 1 in Singles & Dating

.....when you see them crying? Are you happy when you know someone is hurting???

2007-02-25 17:06:53 · 5 answers · asked by anne 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i help her relize he wants her to be happy and live her life

2007-02-25 17:05:20 · 15 answers · asked by HaleighBlackx33 2 in Friends

Before I grew up, I had the misconception that being a virgin until marriage also meant not orgasming until marriage. Now, I realize that a person can have an orgasm doing things far from actual sex. Now I have the problem of not knowing where I want to draw the line in a possible short term relationship, or at least one that I don't think is going to end up being my wife. Right now, since I haven't found the right person I'm just looking for someone to share some of my time with along with some cuddling. What would be the point of saving sex for marriage, but not saving orgasm for marriage? People often say they regret having sex while young, but why, specifically, do they regret it and others not? I just don't want lust/loneliness to result in decisions I later regret such as not feeling as connected to my future wife or having the special closeness associated with each having only one partner......sorry for the essay.

2007-02-25 17:05:06 · 12 answers · asked by mattE 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ok. me and my friend want ot get matching rings. i ma guy shes a girl. this ring represents our oath to eachother. how much does a simple, but good silver ring cost? plus engraveing it with letters in the inside?

2007-02-25 17:04:51 · 1 answers · asked by Im This Guy... 2 in Friends

he passed away four years ago, i still miss him so much,anyone else even though your an adult miss your dad?

2007-02-25 17:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by seven-11 4 in Family