My girlfriend is going to disney world with me, my mom, my sister, and my niece. My mom talked to her girlfriends mom and her mom said we shouldnt sleep together at the hotel. Well, I take offense to this. I asked my mom if we could if we didnt tell her mom and she said that she couldnt because she already gave her word she wouldnt let it happen. What can i do to make her let us? Im 16 and my girlfriend is 15. Its not like we will do anything in the same room as my mom. It will furiate me knowing that she is in the same room as me except i cant be beside her. I just love her so much and i dont wanna do anything with her if we were in the same bed, i just love being beside her and cuddling with her. I slept in the same bed with her 3 times before at her dads house,...he doesnt like it but he doesnt really care. he lets us. There is nothing more that makes me happier than waking up to see her beside me....what should i do?
2007-02-25 17:09:59 · 11 answers · asked by Ryu Kuramoto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make a sincere promise with your mom, tell her that you truly won't do anything in the middle of the night, tell her how you feel, like you said in ur question, and maybe ask ur gf's mom as well, ask her if u can have permission to? Honesty and Trust will get ya through this.
2007-02-25 17:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your moms not going to change her mind. In this situation you and your girlfriend might get tempted to get some action on. So it best you just listen to your mom and her mom. You will just have to expect the fact that what your mom says is what goes . No ands, ifs or buts. That just the way it has to be sorry. It would be rude if you sleep in the same bed as your girlfriend infront of your family. When you and your girlfriend get married it will be ok. I know right now you might think you probably won't do anything but when temptations comes in you might . Sorry I could not help. What a parent says is what goes until your eighteen and moved out.
2007-02-26 01:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try ask her if you can take sleeping bag and you'll sleep in bag on top of all blankets while your gf stay under blanket.
If that fail, ask her if you can lay on floor by her bed so you can hold her hand while she's sleeping.
If that still fail, ask her if you can at least lay with your gf until your mom is ready to go to bed then you'll move to other spot. Then in morning you can go back to cuddle with her when your mom is up.
2007-02-26 01:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being a childish brat. Until you're 18, decisions like this aren't yours to make. You'll have plenty of time to "cuddle" during the rest of your life. In the meantime, be gracious, and respect the wishes of your mother and your girlfriend's mother.
And shame on her father, for letting you two "cuddle." It's time he got some dad-b*lls and said NO!
2007-02-26 01:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Respect your mother and your girlfriend's mother's wishes.
Have a great time at Disneyworld.
Remember, you are not only building a relationship with your girlfriend, but with her family as well. Since you love her so much, just be patient and mature. That's more important at this point in time.
2007-02-26 01:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um ya you sleep in different rooms until you are married - been down that road and saying noting will happen? Nice try. You're young - respect your parents and their wishes.
2007-03-01 14:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite easy just have the both of you sleep in the living part of hotel. Just watch t.v until the both of you "fall asleep" on the couch.
2007-02-26 01:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by Berties 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
make a body pillow complete with arms and legs and then print her face on the head part. Borrow some of her clothes and clothe your body pillow in them. Spray it with her cologne too. This should take care of your problem 'till her mom allows.
2007-02-26 01:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what should you do? respect your mom, and respect the fact that she gave her word and it means something to her... it should mean something to you, too. and don't whine to her about it- that would be the most mature thing to do if you want her to see that you're "not a kid anymore". probably not what you wanted to hear, but you did ask. :)
2007-02-26 01:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by Misty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up. Act civilized for a change. It won't kill you.
2007-02-26 01:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋