My girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 years now and that is a long time.... and tonight she brought up the question why don't we ever have ne thing to talk about ne more?? Then she says that we never have the same alone time as we did before. I told her idk i mean I love her and she loves me back, but idk what to do and how to fix it cause i really don't want to lose her?? Please help : )
2007-02-25 17:07:52 · 4 answers · asked by shypuppy2008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's some type of tension in your relationship. Possiblities: Someone's eyes are straying, someone is no longer being as open with the other or someone is getting bored of the relationship in general. Do something with your girlfriend you think she would enjoy, go somewhere you haven't been or do something different than the normal things you do.
2007-02-25 17:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you each need some time apart. When you're with someone a lot you sometimes run out of things to talk about. Maybe you should each spend a day apart on a weekend where you can have time to do something by yourself. Go somewhere, maybe see some friends you haven't talked to in a while. The next time you see her again you'll have something to tell each other.
2007-02-26 01:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years is a long a s s time. By reading your question it sounds to me that your aren't ready for a long term relationship. She wants to make sure how far this is taking us away. Do you really love me or just a lust situation. She is thinking about living the relationship because she might feel is not going anywhere.
2007-02-26 01:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing things,like going out as if you were dating again, do spontaneous things together. You two are in a comfort zone or slump. As her to marry you, there will be alot to talk about.
2007-02-26 01:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋