Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

sleep with other girls and pretend they're his fiance named (insert his fiance's name here)?

Like they're having a long distance relationship and he misses her so he sleeps with one of his friends and pretends one of his friends is his fiance.

2007-02-25 18:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by Manic Victim 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i will be celebrating 1 year on march 3rd. i hide my relationship from my parents (they don't approve), so it has to be a secret. saturdays he works so we can only do something in the evening, and i only have a few hours b/c i can't be out too late (yes, i'm 20 and still living under my parents' rule). i have no idea what to get him. he buys everything he wants, and i already got him a video game for his birthday (he's a gamer) so i don't want to do it again. please don't suggest sex. not that it's a bad gift, but i'm a virgin and i'm not ready to give it up just yet. i have absolutely no doubts that i want him to be my first, but i'd like to wait a little longer. any suggestions?

2007-02-25 18:06:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 18:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a great long distance relationship. I live in florida and she lives in arizona. We dont plan on visiting each other very often, even though my family lives there in arizona. We have terrific phone conversations every night. We laugh a lot. We dont have sex cause we live so far away. We talk about moving close to each other but neither of us want to do it because she wants to be close to family in Arizona and I want to stay in Florida. I dont want to lose her and she doesnt want to lose me emotionally. I feel that a long distant relationship is hard on my self esteem. Plus, we never talk dirty anymore. But, I need a real girlfriend here next to me. And she is living with a male(friend),they work didnt shifts and she spends a lot of time with her parents. She could be sleeping with him but she says no--they are just friends. Yet she always calls me and tells me where she is. She has precancer of the ovaries too. i care about her. Should I let her go or continue the relationship?

2007-02-25 18:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Singles & Dating

like, is kissing a bit too much, holding hands, holding each other.etc

2007-02-25 18:01:20 · 5 answers · asked by Candy 1 in Singles & Dating

hey.
i`m a first year student. i fell in love with my friend`s sister. my friend knows about this. she is completing her Xth board exams on this march 2007. i thought of confessing my love for her earlier, but i did`nt because i thought she might get disturbed. can i express my love after her exams are over ?
she is a "SHY TYPE". she welcomes me to her house in the front door and gets in her room after saying a hi. i am unable to talk with her much. she feels shy talking to me but i do not know if she is feeling the same to talk with everyother guy. i love her so much. but i don`t have a single clue of what`s in her mind ! so, i need some advice on how to know if she loves me or not ? and first of all, if a Xth std girl can have love emotions ?
i`m waiting for answers from everyone of you especially from girls coz girls know much better about girls. can you help me out ?
love
friend

2007-02-25 18:01:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 18:00:40 · 3 answers · asked by alone in 6billion 1 in Singles & Dating

When someone breaks your heart, first you are shocked. Someone will say that you are heartbroken and you will examine the words break and heart and heartbroken and you immediately decide that it's inaccurate. You feel pain in the region of your heart and you think it's your heart breaking but one's heart doesn't really break, something else does- Faith. You stop believing.

And what do you do next?....get an insurance?..oh holy crap?!

2007-02-25 18:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by Benj 1 in Singles & Dating

my daughter called me one night up set ,my husband and my daughter husband to be both work at the same he told her that her dad was cheating on her mother, i said you dad would not do that, my husband likes to talk to women he dose it all the time,he said it's better than talking to the guyes ,i ask he said no i was very mad at him ,my daughter ask me not to tell dad who said it,my husband props his leg up when talking, hes worked at the same place for ten years and know, 4 months later our daughter got married, i was going though the pictures ,and saw my husbnd and son- law with to women all toghter,my husband said they were pushed toghter.to take the picture ,ive always herd that my hudband was a flurt and dose not relaise how it looks, he always ,he bgoes to the store and will stand and talk a women that use to work with him,and when iam around he dose not talk to women he works,with but thats all i hear when he comes home from work he talkes about the there day he

2007-02-25 18:00:00 · 8 answers · asked by Norma S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well theres this girl that hes been chattin too on yahoo before he met me so they basiclly have a history together even though theyve never met and ive asked his to stop talkin to her because of the way they are talkin is almost like hes cheating on me well thats how i feel ... I dont know what to do anymore because he keeps logging on yahoo and i have a feeling that hes still chatting to her ...Ive seen him a few times doing it actually .. What do i do ..what can i say ... ive told him that if doesnt want me just tell me ... Weve been married for a year and have a 6 month old daughter ... i dont just want to leave but im not goin to drive myself crazy about it ... Have any suggestions??????

2007-02-25 17:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by NiNA M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This year the traditional gifts are linen or silk. I can't seem to think of anything to get my husband for our anniversary that is made out of linen or silk. I don't really want to get him the usual stuff, robe, tie, underwear.....boring....boring....boring. Can anyone think of anything I could get him? Something different..... Also, it must be just one item and it must cost between $40-$60. Thanks

2007-02-25 17:58:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well this is complicated I like this girl met her on mxit{chat room} met her phyically about 8 month's ago. Took her out once met her family and stuff but she does'nt wana date because she got hurt by her ex. This is my problem I ask her out and she's most of the time busy we made plans for saturday night and she was suppose to canfirm but she never did I got angry and stuff, and she apologised as normal. this happened a couple of times I just want to know if i should pursue going after her??????? Cause im really begining to like her alot.

oh and we friends seeing if it leads to anything further

2007-02-25 17:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by clxgolf2 2 in Singles & Dating

i went to the bar the other night with a friend of mine and i met his friend they were in a band together along time ago but his friend bought me a drink and before i left i gave him a hug and he put his hands on my back as i walking out the door and said take care come out and see us again do you think he likes me?

2007-02-25 17:56:08 · 4 answers · asked by poohbear27 2 in Friends

2007-02-25 17:55:57 · 5 answers · asked by samir c 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i am 13 years old and a lot of girls like me, I've matured already but most of the other people my age haven't. I don't want to have a girlfriend because its just stupid middle school puppy love. All of my other friends have girlfriends and they are always like i love you to them but then 2 days later they break up and get another girlfriend in that same week and tell the new g/f i love u and all that other BS. All my friends are like c'mon get a girlfriend don't be a p*$*y but my point that is i'm not and i have absolutely no problem talking to girls and i am totally confident with myself and how i act twoards girls. am i just more mature then them? but honestly, whats the point of having a g/f at this age these girls are barely developed. i can see when im 15 or 16 but not now. who else agrees?

2007-02-25 17:55:49 · 17 answers · asked by DJ Vinny The Ginny 1 in Singles & Dating

my previous boyfriend is good looking and rich and romantic (i liked it). but he so spoily and less experience in running a relationship. in the present, my boyfriend is a good looking but ordenary man. he so different with the previous. so mature but not romantic. sighz!

2007-02-25 17:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by EJ 2 in Singles & Dating

While i was in the relationship, i was so sure i wanted to breakup. Now that it has actually happened, i question whether i did the right thing? Anyone ever feel this way after a breakup?

2007-02-25 17:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 17:53:31 · 11 answers · asked by Smilie 2 in Friends

this past month i have helped my aunt take care of her 3 kids one of which needs 24/7 medical attention (ages 3 and twins 1 yrs old) while her husband was out of the country on business, now i love my family and i was raised that you always help your family out, the thing is i hate going over to my aunts house, i dont like being alone with her becuz when we talk she be-littles me, and makes me feel unappreciated and just plain bad. my friends say that i should just not go tell my parents i dont want to, the thing is i am the only one that has the time, since i am currently out of school. i know my aunt needs my help but i hate going over there, i practically cry the whole drive over there. how can i feel so bad when i'm doing something to help someone else?

2007-02-25 17:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by silentwriter16 2 in Family

I didn't get a chance tu get a haircut this weekend, and now I'm going to class tomorrow with long hair. It's bad because I comb my hair 50's style.

2007-02-25 17:51:11 · 9 answers · asked by thewanderer862003 1 in Singles & Dating

who is truly and sincerely wants to get to know me.

Guess what? I'm scared. Yep. Scared. Its funny, I don't know its game of what but the guy that I'm talking to now for about 2 weeks haven't asked for a booty call yet. Since I'm use to being lied to, I expect that everyone is like that too. Well I called him Saturday morning around 9:30. All sorts of thoughts were going on in my head. I was thinking he probably had some "company" and he cut his cell phone off. When dialed his number, his phone rung. Then I was thinking well he probably have his ringer off. So I was like I'll leave a message. On the 3rd ring I heard hello and good morning to you. I paused and said hey good morning to you too. I was going to leave you a message and he started laughing. Not only did I have my foot in my mouth I also had my ankle too. So to "save face" so to speak and I din't want to be wrong, I was thinking, well he probably just got home or the girl left earlier in the AM. It really shouldn't matter but I guess I'm trying to hard to protect myself. At any rate, I'm still somewhat in shock that I could be 100% wrong about him.

My question. Do men in general put in a lot time, work, and effort with a woman to get her to trust him just to have sex with her? Its a lot of women out there who'll give it up quick. So if a man is only after sex, how early will he make his move?

2007-02-25 17:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

So I just found out this guy I've been dating gets pretty rough while messing around. He left a mark on my lower lip and a small bruise on my thigh. Now I'm diggin it, so my question is is there something I can do with him to be on his "rough" level? Also have any of you guys been with a rough lover and if so what are some things I can expect?

2007-02-25 17:50:23 · 17 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

from work early to spend one last night with him? I work 3rd shift and its almost 1am where I am. He will be getting home from his job in about an hour. It was a mutual agreement that he moves out. We love each other but have issues we cant seem to work out. Do you think it will be worse for me to leave work early to spend one last night with him, or am I prolonging the agony? My heart is breaking into a million pieces.

2007-02-25 17:49:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what it is with me but people have been telling me that I should break up with my boyfriend. I have already but the problem is I just can't get him off my mind. I always end up calling him even though I shouldn't. I feel like I shouldn't because I know that he'll feel like he can get away with anything and that I need him. But I can't push myself to not call him. I'm always depressed because of him, he hurts me all the time and he doesn't even know it. How can I push myself not to call him and even love him? I just want to get out of love for Godsakes! There is also this guy who works with me that I'm starting to like a lot. He's hansome and also humorous. But, I don't know if I should involve myself with him because I don't want to get hurt again. I'm just tired of what I'm going through already with my ex. boyfriend, I don't feel like it should happen again. What should I do?

2007-02-25 17:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by MaoAce7 1 in Singles & Dating

I´ve told him no many many many times but he tries and tries.
I´ve known him since we were weks old, we grew up toghether...
I am still trying to convince him...
Any answers for how to say no without hurting too much??

2007-02-25 17:47:13 · 8 answers · asked by cutechick222200 1 in Friends

Alright so i just moved here and met a group of friends.. and one of them is a girl(sara).. and we were just friends i was attracted to her but didnt know if she felt anything towards me.

well anyways, one night were hanging out and this girl(brigida) i met a few days earlier text messages me and wants me to go ride around with her. and im like ohhh ****, i need to go meet up with this girl and become sober fast.

well the girl "sara" asks me the next day to take her to a movie, and shes like you should have ben honest with that girl and told her you drank that night, you should be honest blah blah..

i dont know if shes actually scolding me, or its some weird way shes just trying flirt.. or maybe she changed her mind about me and wants me to go out with "sara" instead.. because i already told her im not attracted to that girl.. but she still tells me i should be honest with her.

what do you think?

2007-02-25 17:47:06 · 1 answers · asked by geechi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 17:46:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no idea why, because i personally think im kind. But you know how guys tease you sometimes? Well, sometimes the guys i know just cross the line with the teasing, like spreading rumors about me and what-not. Then i tell them to stop in a serious manner, and they tell me im being "mean" and "agressive". Am i doing something wrong..? I really dont like being perceived as a mean or agressive girl.

2007-02-25 17:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by Nise 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 19 years old, both my ex boyfriend and my boyfriend now are 25...
i dated my ex when i was 16 he 22 we dated for 2 1/2 years, he was separated with his wife(he was supposed to be getting a divorce), and had 2 children... ( a long long long story) email me if you wanna get into that)...
needless to say we broke up...

now my current boyfriend is divorced..

here's the dilemma, why am i so upset about that fact that the current boyfriend was married, but i wasn't upset that the ex was?

2007-02-25 17:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

QUOTE:
ONCE A WOMAN HAS GIVEN YOU HER HEART,
YOU CAN NEVER GET RID OF THE REST OF HER..

2007-02-25 17:45:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce